Andres Bertel
11/17/2022
My ex-girlfriend even though it’s been four months since we broke up. She still hates me, I’ve given her time, I’ve apologized. I know that the relationship ended because of me and I understand that she hates me, but I found out that she just started a relationship and still hates me. Could it be that I still have a chance to show her that I have changed and can do things better?
Rock
05/26/2022
She decided to end it, having shown tremendous hatred and resentment, and I already asked her for forgiveness even though it was because of her behavior and pride that prompted her to decide to end my lack of work was to work a lot and neglect them, a mistake I made for wanting to give them more comforts but now Even my children no longer speak well to me, they are very small and obviously she manipulates them very easily, she tries to hurt me a lot even though I keep showing her that I love her… She doesn’t give me even a little bit of compassion, she just attacks me and I’m done with it. That love I had for her but she doesn’t care, she just wants to destroy me completely. And I do not want, nor can I, nor should I, do the same to him.
Any
03/02/2022
Hello, I have been separated for 5 years, I have 3 children with him, he left me for another woman and he now has a real family, I am over it and even though I don’t have anyone, I am happy with my children. The problem is that he doesn’t support me, nor to talk about children’s issues, he says that I’m ruining his life and so he gets angry just by seeing me. The truth is that it’s funny to me, but the time has come when we’re annoying my eldest daughter with his “tell your mother or I’ll tell you.” your father” but ok he really doesn’t lend a hand to talking about children’s issues 😓
Denise
08/23/2021
I also think that the best thing is to break the relationship and even more so if the relationship ends on bad terms, but when you have children or have to work with your ex you have no choice but to continue talking, in that case, you have no alternative to trying to have a cordial treatment
Yusef
07/20/2021
I have been divorced for 7 years, and the main reason (although several more were derived from there I suppose, or others came from before… I don’t know) was infidelity… we were both unfaithful… me because of clumsiness and lack of integrity in the face of what he felt or needed; and she basically out of revenge towards me. As so much time has passed, obviously everyone makes her life their own, she was left with custody of her children and lives in another city. However, 7 years after the divorce, she still manipulates her children in one way or another, and every time she can, she denigrates and threatens me through messages. I even consider it sick that after so many years I still have resentment or anger, but I don’t know if it’s normal, I don’t want to endure it, and it’s not that I’m going to do or wish evil; But if I ignore all that because it really bothers me.
Maria Fernanda
05/23/2021
Hello, I want to tell you that my heart is broken 💔 I lost the man of my life all because of my gossip and entanglements. The problem was between my boyfriend, my boyfriend’s cousin, and my brother. It turns out that my brother really dislikes him. My boyfriend hates him and he He hates that day my brother started talking bad things about him and it made me very angry. What I did was search for my boyfriend’s cousin on Facebook and I told him everything my brother says about my boyfriend. I asked him, are you going to betray me? and he told me that I could rest assured that he was like a grave and that he betrayed me, he went and told my boyfriend everything. My boyfriend called me on Sunday, May 2, at four in the morning, he was very angry, he made me understand. that I am short, that I am a gossip and that I had made a mess of it, he insulted me and the sad thing is that I lost him since that day he has not shown up nor has he called me or communicated with me and I am afraid on the other hand and that is that my brother will find out
Israel
04/09/2021
My ex-wife has been making my life miserable for 7 years, with threats, insults and blackmail, I don’t know what to do anymore, I’m tired.
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Yusef
07/20/2021
I don’t know the reason for the separation, but it seems to me that it was at a level of resentment and resentment that was quite harmful and useless on the part of your ex. Women will never forgive having their ego offended, or that they were not respected… But it is even sickening to live like this and even more so after so much time. I would tell you to stay away from her for your well-being and integrity, everyone should work on her grief and her resentment, and if it no longer means anything to you, it is better to let her work on that resentment herself.
Manuel
09/30/2020
I was married for 8 years and in 30 minutes she kicked me out of the house. I never treated her badly and now she speaks badly of me.
Gustavo
09/27/2020
We have children in common and when I see her she makes me jealous. The other day she wanted to check my cell phone to see who I was talking to and in turn she tells me that she doesn’t want anything to do with me, that confuses me, what does it mean?
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Israel
04/09/2021
Stay away…. As much as you can…
Jennifer
08/17/2020
Because my Ex hates me if he was the cause of the separation
Marisol
04/27/2020
I suffered family violence 😔
I reported him but I still love him
He hates me
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Mariana
09/28/2021
I suffered family violence, I want to report it but I love him and he hates me. 🙁
Andrew
04/09/2020
How do I help win over my ex after our pain over the loss of our son?
Alan Glez
04/05/2020 Good morning! Related to your issues, I am going through one that, as you describe, is happening exactly the same to me… I lasted 4 years with my (ex-wife) and I was always the one who worked and she stayed at home, I never lacked anything and I I never feel uncomfortable having her at home. I gave him the opportunity to study and he never wanted to. And then one day I got up the courage and finished it… the reason I finished it was because I came home from work and she didn’t have enough time to continue chatting on her cell phone, and she ignored me on her cell phone… said:
“May the cell phone give him everything that I have given him”
And the love I have for her has never disappeared, I still love her for many beautiful reasons. It’s been about 1 year and 4 months now and during all that time she has sent me messages that she supposedly made a mistake in sending them to me, she messages me saying that I hurt her and I make her sick, that because of me things have gone badly for her because she can’t trust in no one, I had her blocked by WhatsApp and I had her parents unblocked (because I uploaded images of her kissing with another person, sometimes she smiling, sometimes depressing and happy images) and I recently unblocked my ex (some 2 times he posted the same one, 1 year ago he posted the photo with the person kissing, hints that I hurt him, that he won’t come back to me, etc.).
……The first topic that is on this page is the same thing that is happening to me!!!! Is there a way to remedy this? that she comes back to me, I still love her and not a day goes by that I think about her, (I know the difference in true love that I have with her, I know in my heart that she is the love of my life) all this time I haven’t I have forgotten and from what I see neither has she and she has not found someone who surpasses me in the sense that he supported her in everything and would endure the strong character that she has…
Every time I talk to her, she acts very violent and is rude to me… 1 week ago at 4am she texted me saying:
“She forgives me for everything, but she doesn’t want to see me or be with me again, so I leave her alone and don’t ask about her.”
When all this time I have respected her contempt and I do not ask about her, sometimes my ex-father-in-law (my ex-wife’s father) speaks to me to invite me to talk to him and his brothers as well) but I never touch my ex-wife’s fear, nor do I talk to her. investigating even if he knows where he lives!!! When I upload images to WhatsApp, my ex-wife is the first to see them. When she uploads images to WhatsApp, I never open them so as not to encourage her to continue hurting and humiliating me because of her anger.
In all of this, there is a way to make her understand that I still love her with all my heart and the reason for my decision to break up was “because she ignored me in her cell phone” ????😔😔
Could you help me with that? If you charge me, that’s fine, I’ll deposit it!!
I’ve been seeing a psychologist for about 3 years but she knows my ex-wife and she tells me to forget her better, and she tells me that she wants me to be happy… but I love and love my ex-wife…
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Israel
04/09/2021
Stay away, forget her, there are many women, there will be better and worse, but you better go find one.
Rouss
03/31/2020
I have been divorced for three years and we were married for 10 years, we have two children, one 11 years old and the other 8 years old… But he doesn’t want to see us… I decided to divorce him because he humiliated me. And he beat me to death and he was unfaithful and I forgave him everything… Until one day he hit me so much that he took the scissors and wanted to gouge out my eyes. And I threw myself down the stairs and left me unable to move for 3 months and that day, when my oldest child who was only 8 years old wanted to defend me, he punched him in his face on the left side and I threw him and my child began to convulse and I could move because I was bleeding a lot so I asked the youngest, 6 years old, to turn him on his side and put a pencil in his mouth so he wouldn’t bite his mouth. He was on top of my belly hitting me as best I could and I walked to where My child was there and I picked him up when he was trying to climb the stairs. He grabbed one of his feet and I fell with my child, preventing him from getting hit. I helped him get up and asked them both to go into the house and he dragged him down the stairs. I broke my ribs as best I could. I got up and tried to go back up the stairs and threw a trash can at his car, but it didn’t fall. That gave me time to get into the house and close it… I checked on my child and when suddenly my children screamed.. Mom, be careful and he hit me again in the face and I fell to the floor. He grabbed the children and locked them in the closet that had a key and continued hitting me and I no longer had the strength until I stopped moving because I was choking on my own blood… And I fainted And he got tired of hitting me and realized that I wasn’t moving… He grabbed my hair and dragged me to the bed, carried me, and threw me onto the bed. I was already reacting to being dragged and threw me cell phone that I had previously taken away and thrown it down the stairs and closed the bedroom door. There I armed the cell phone and it had no credit and it went out to a message for some friends where I had time to write to him… Help Aldo I hit him and I can’t walk… They called me back and said that they were already coming for me… Thanks to them I am alive, they had to take us to the hospital… And he started to say that I attacked him and hit him… It’s been 3 years. And the truth is, I still cry a lot and I stupidly miss him because I truly loved him even with his violence, but it was the moment when I decided not to give him any more opportunities. I and my children still go to the psychologist because I wanted to commit suicide many times. Sometimes… Really, don’t go back to a person who doesn’t value you and one day he can kill you… But because he never loved us, because he doesn’t. He looks for us. The bad thing is that he lives next to the house but I avoided seeing him with my children… But I’m stupid because I miss him a lot and he has lived with many women and has 3 more children with others and that has hurt me a lot and it has hurt me I have been depressed and now I take antidepressant pills… I don’t know what to do because what he does hurts because everything still affects me if he knew that I was…