Jonathan Maldonado
05/27/2023
Look, well, my opinion is that the couple knows each other well, it’s nice to say wonders but others are going to catch you, I fell in love and they tricked me, take it for granted ❤️
Charlie
04/03/2022
I have been happily married for 20 years, have two children and have many projects with my wife. I have always noticed other women but without any encouragement, I only found them attractive and little else.
Two weeks ago an old acquaintance appeared that I hadn’t seen for 20 years and I wasn’t attracted to her, I just thought she was pretty. I only meet her a couple of hours a week and from the first day I can’t stop thinking about her, she has taken away my sleep, my appetite and I can’t stop thinking if she feels the same as me. Every time I see her my heart skips a beat, I get a lump in my throat and I get very nervous.
I don’t know what to do, whether to avoid seeing her or try something with her (she’s married), but this situation can’t continue like this, it’s a non-life.
I can’t stop looking at his social networks and I’m afraid to even ask him for friendship on Facebook.
This is my situation….
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walter
06/25/2023
The same thing happens to me as a couple and with a child 6 years ago, suddenly this lady appears to take the bus in front of the door of my house, she looks at me with that dazzling look, one day, then 2, then she passes by smiling with a friend and she looks at me giving me her beautiful smile, months go by and her looks and her beauty are driving me crazy, my world is spinning, I don’t know where I am standing, I don’t sleep, I don’t eat, I don’t live without thinking about her, I feel guilty of living in a different harmony with my family, but it’s like you say, I feel like I’m not present in the family but I’m not with that woman either, so I definitely decided one day to wait for her and I went out and told her that she had dropped a piece of paper and in I gave that paper my phone number and my YouTube channel, I definitely think that I am suffering too much living like this, living in the question of whether I really fell in love with another woman, the reality is that I think that this young lady with her look says it all, and I reciprocate. In that look, I realize that she blushes makes her nervous and I also realize how it never happens to me with a woman, I never got nervous about a woman, much less did I find it difficult to talk to one, but she is different and I feel like I’m flying in a cloud from which I can’t find a way out, I just hope that with time one of two situations will arise, the first that she writes to me and I can talk to her at least on WhatsApp to see what kind of person she is, and the second that she never writes to me to definitely get her out of my mind. Instead, friend, you should talk to your friend, tell her what’s happening to you, in order to solve the root problem, let her tell you if the same thing happens to her, or else don’t talk to her again and continue with your life, because it’s very unhealthy and It’s stressful to live like this with uncertainty, greetings.
Sergio
09/30/2021
I have a two-year relationship with my partner, the love I felt towards her died, on the part of both of us, every day is a fight, during that time I met someone, and I am falling in love, I decided to leave my partner and do My life, a month passed, and my ex told me that she is pregnant and that I will be a father, I returned to her, she is totally different and with tears she told me that she was going to change, she tells me not to leave her, and the truth is that it gives me It’s a shame, since I’ll be a dad, but I’m in love with another woman.
Carlos
08/24/2021
I am going to be married for 25 years, we have 4 children and lately I have focused more on meeting other women on Facebook. We have 2 sons and 2 daughters and above all they have noticed my attitude, complaining about me and then regret comes. I love my wife. but I feel the relationship problems and monotony have increased considerably. I want to change this but I don’t know where to start since having been consistent in my behavior, my wife no longer trusts me and whenever I want to take the initiative she explodes at me. How can I change all this? Thank you.
Bruno
04/24/2021
I have been married for 15 years with 2 children, but for more than 8 years I have loved another woman, and it is a love that grows over time. I love my wife for the time we have been together. I have tried by every means to fall in love with her again. We have even traveled to different countries but I always think of her as the woman I truly love. I know that the reason for not being with her is cowardly because I am afraid of starting over and leaving the comfortable and safe life that I have. Above all, I am terrified of making my children suffer and not being able to see them every day. I feel like this is killing me inside.
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Aron
08/29/2021
The same thing happened to me and I’m having a terrible time.
Ozzie
10/27/2021
It’s happening to me right now, 17 years married, 2 teenage children, new country, new life, we bought a house, but I like another woman right now, my feelings are mixed up, I don’t know what to do. I’m comfortable, I’m afraid to start from scratch.
Dr. Allan G. Johnson
12/03/2021 Always be aware of your facts, you have 2 options, live an illusory life with ephemeral feelings, oh have the responsibility of leaving that area if you really love another person, but if your partner has problems, the ideal is always is going to couples therapy
I always tell my patients, the problem does not go away, it is there, you decide if it only improves or worsens your problem,
Greetings from Miami.
Carlos
11/22/2020
Hello, I am 42 years old, I have been with my wife for 17 years, we have been married for the last 5 years and we have a wonderful 4-year-old son. A few months ago a girl started working in a business that I regularly frequent. The attraction between them quickly arose, including crushes, many smiles, etc. She knows that I am married and respects it, but the looks and smiles on the part of both of us continue. I feel very good around her for the 2 minutes we meet, not every day, but then I can’t stop thinking about her the entire time. I get home and I am unable to enjoy being with my wife and my son. I’ve tried to stop watching it but it’s very difficult for me, I don’t really know if that’s what I want and I’ll come back in a few days. I know it’s not going to happen from there, but I feel very bad for being like this with my family and I’m even doubting… everything, out of place in what my life has been like for 17 years… and I don’t know what it’s what I want. My life has changed radically in 2 months, apparently it is the same but I no longer feel the same.
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Robert
07/16/2021
Hi Carlos
How did the story end?
I’m at exactly the same point as you, right now I can’t get my partner out of my head, and at home I always think about her, morning and night. I think the visa is mutual, although she doesn’t want to take another step either due to my marriage and the age difference (13 years).
My head tells me not to take any steps, but my heart feels that she is special…I’m very busy.
I also need to know about similar experience
Thank you
Lua
11/15/2020
Hello, good day, I don’t know how to write well because I have a little study, but I have to tell something. My boyfriend is a very liar, he lies a lot and he wants another girl who is married and has a boyfriend who would see you do it.
SUZANNE
02/10/2020
I have been married for 5 years, my husband tells me every day that he doesn’t like me and that he prefers other women, I love him, I’m still thinking about whether to divorce or continue because he will never like me, what do I do?
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Ants
12/10/2020
You know what to do now, don’t waste any more time
ng
12/31/2020
You must value, respect and love yourself, you came into this world alone and you will die alone, and the shortest part of life is suffering for another person who is only reflecting back to you the value you have for yourself. Enjoy your life, don’t continue in that nonsense.
Carlos
08/30/2021
Look, Susana, if he tells you that he loves another woman, it is most likely true. The first thing you should do is value yourself and get out of that hell, because there will be someone else who really values you.
Pablo
08/09/2020
I feel like an unhappy wretch, I don’t know what to do with my life, I don’t know why life has to be like this, I’m starting to feel things for another woman, even though I’m married and about to be a father, but in our relationship like husbands, a lot of respect has already been lost, I feel like I don’t love her anymore, my wife and I always argue because she believes she is better than other people, she is very arrogant and conceited and she likes to discredit others and I am the complete opposite, I love my neighbor, and sometimes I think that I married the type of person that I detest the most. The truth is that I feel that I made a bad decision. Now I think that being alone is better than being in bad company, but I have to be with her until May death do us part, I had to vent.
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Rodrigo
08/20/2021
We are already in other times to live our entire lives unhappy just because of commitment, don’t you think? The fact of no longer being with your partner does not mean that your child will be unhappy, believe me, there are children who suffer mental problems with parents who do not love each other. and you will only teach your child to be unhappy when he chooses a partner and not for love. It is always good to know the person’s heart, not just the physical one. And if you talk to your partner it would be better, you would no longer be an egoist who does not allow her to be happy.
Alfonso Garrido Martinez
05/25/2020
Because I think about other women if I am married and very happy
Ana and
05/16/2020
My husband corresponds with another woman but my friend is a friend of hers, that is, of the woman he corresponds with, what can I tell her?
The ex
02/19/2020
The highest percentage of infidelity is among men, the reason is because most of them go out to work and it is easier to get confused in the work environment, since you are alone,
There you have the freedom to be single. No one controls you (except the employer) and you can be who you are. On the other hand, at home there are roles with the partner and with the children. The posture changes and you begin to have responsibilities. In that environment there are things that you don’t do like in the work environment. The pressure of children and wife are too demanding, there is no longer time to be free or do activities together.
That’s when you bring the other woman in, and you see freedom, love, passion, etc. in her. She is freedom…
Here there are 2 options, leave everything and try to have a relationship with the woman of your dreams or stay with your wife and change that routine that you created of monotony and boredom.
You have to know that the pain you are going to cause your wife will be enormous. There will be a lot of suffering for her and if there are children much worse. She will not be the same, something is going to die in her and that shine that you once saw in her you will never see again. She will feel empty and worthless, her soul will hurt. And even if she continues to love you, she will only see in you a scammer who melted her heart.
Things are not going to get better and even if you get bored of your lover and go back to your wife, that pure love that she has always had for you will be gone and you will be the only one responsible.
So before I leave you…