Angelys
02/04/2023
AMI it hurts me a lot to walk away, what can I do?
Manuel
01/30/2023
I have been with my wife for many years, from whom our beautiful children were born, I made an effort, trying to move the family forward, I am not saying that I did not make mistakes or make mistakes, however, she was something very precious, to which I gave everything, but Despite my efforts, she cheated on me on several occasions with the same guy, I tried to fight to forgive her and secretly let what I did happen without her knowing what I was doing, but she was cruel to me, then everything came out and she begged me for forgiveness. Now after a long time, she has behaved like never before, she is a different person, however, despite the great love I have for her, my heart continues to suffer, here I see her, disappointment returns to my head, because I never thought that she would something like that, I feel like I can’t concentrate anymore and it’s hard for me to forget, she tries hard, but I feel like it’s not enough, I even changed jobs to spend more time with them, but I don’t give more, secretly, she was my great love of my life and ruined it. I no longer feel the confidence I used to. I had many opportunities and I always refused, until now, because I think about her first and what she would feel if she really changed, but I don’t know what to do.
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anonymous
07/19/2023
Manuel…… this world is definitely crazy… I read your story and it seems that I am reading mine, although I have not been married for 20 years, I have only been married for 1 year and three months and I am expecting my first child and Even so, he doesn’t mind cheating on me and not only with the same woman but with different women, I don’t know what to do, I work, I’m independent but I know that when I have the baby I’m going to have to stop working for a while and I’m going to needing him, it makes me so angry and angry knowing that even though I’m pregnant he does this to me, it’s not fair…good men get bad women and bad men get good women
Soul
09/21/2022
Hello, I have been married for more than 20 years, but my husband has a 40-year-old daughter. But he did not live with her daughter since she was 12 months old. Every time I talk to my husband about her daughter, he tells me that he doesn’t like me talking to him about her because he says that I have something against her when I don’t. I simply tell him that she is 40 years old and it is not his obligation to send her money; I only agree that she sends him money on Christmas or birthdays. He and I have a 27-year-old daughter but our daughter works and is independently herself and she never asks us for anything rather she gives us. I no longer want to feel like I don’t have the freedom to talk about his daughter because he sees it badly and he says that I’m bad. I don’t know what to do or what they advise me to do because I have never liked this situation and I’m already tired of it. Thank you
José
01/04/2022
Hello, I have been in a relationship for 10 years and have been married for 5 years. We have 2 children, a 7-year-old boy and a 3-year-old baby, so my wife has a job lately and goes out a lot to other cities and when she returns she wants to go out together as a family. We have had discharges. and you go down but I think I’ve reached the point of leaving but it’s hard for me because my children xk she doesn’t spend time with them I leave them in the morning daycare and school and I pick them up too and I sew for them but my wife no longer values all that We even went to couples therapy but it didn’t work so I got to the point where I know what to do and I don’t feel happy with her
I feel her far away from me and there is communication between her and me and I already feel that the relationship gives more than what I can do
Maribel
11/17/2021
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, each of us lives in his own house because we both have children. He is a lying man, he has gotten me into money problems, he works at night and always tells me he will leave her and he never does. I am desperate because I’m in love with him but I don’t want the life he offers me either because it makes me unhappy.
Noelia
10/21/2021
I am in a relationship for 5 years, I am 32 years old, almost 3 years ago I moved to the city where he lives, he is a divorced man (not my fault, I met him later) he has a son who lived with his mother, but During the months of living together, the 6-year-old boy moved into the apartment, it was difficult because the mother got involved in everything, now I feel tired, he doesn’t work, he has problems with his career and for these years I am the only one who maintains everything, even to his son, I feel tired, we argue often, I don’t know how to leave, I feel very committed but sometimes I can’t take it anymore.
Stephanie
08/09/2021
I have been with a person for 4 years who had a police record for which reason he can never find a good job and the truth is that it does not contribute to my life but it is difficult to leave the relationship I feel like I can’t take it anymore 😔😔😔😔
Mary
08/06/2021
We are 8 years ago in the middle there was infidelity on his part towards me I still believe I will get over it but he always comes back to the same thing. I want to keep trying, but I feel like I can’t see my children anymore and they suffer from this situation. I want to leave it and I can’t. I need help to separate. I feel like we’re never going to be happy.
naybi martinez
07/02/2021
Hello… my husband was unfaithful to me and he has a daughter, we didn’t separate for a year and we came back, I have taken therapy and as far as it is about his daughter I don’t have any problems…
But he doesn’t touch me in bed, we are not like a married couple, the only intimacy we have is the peck kiss that we give each other in the mornings when he goes to work…
I thought we would have a very cool relationship after what we had experienced but it wasn’t like that.
Now my life is a fiasco, I don’t have a single friend at home, lover or partner, I’m like the housekeeper who has everything ready
Mountains
06/29/2021
I know my boyfriend is cheating on me, but I don’t dare leave him.
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anderson vera
07/01/2021
making decisions helps personality
Maria
06/14/2021
I have been married for 35 years and I want to end my relationship, I know it has been many years but I think I have not been happy, we have done things as a couple that I feel good about, it has been our secret. Now that we have talked about divorce, he is cheating on me, he has told me that he has the right because of how I have behaved and if I say anything about his relationship to our children, he is going to tell our secret because I am a p… …
I don’t know what to do
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Ana
01/29/2023
Were you before you met him? You have to know that everyone in life makes mistakes. I would tell you to go to a psychologist, explain everything so you can be the best version of yourself. In the end all 2 have made a mistake. You don’t have to feel bad, I’m not saying that what you’ve done is good. In the end I don’t know your life, I’m nobody to judge anyone. But I would advise you, since it would be good for everyone, to go to a specialist and even more so when you feel trapped. Greetings, I hope you can solve your problems as best you can.
Ling
03/11/2023
Friend, you are clearly facing a manipulator, get out of there before life passes you by, you have a lot to live, don’t waste it. Regarding the secret, I find it even uglier, on his part the manipulation, you say “we have done things as a couple” you didn’t do this alone!!! Why does he make you feel guilty? Think well friend! Face your life, take charge of your part and dare to get out of there… I’m sure you didn’t do anything so terrible to go to prison voluntarily hahaha (your relationship is already prison) sometimes our shadows are what embarrasses us, alone They are old beliefs that we learned as incorrect… and friend, in a relationship everything is allowed as long as both agree… That means that if you like threesomes, it’s fine! If you want to do it with another woman or man too! If you want to use implements too! What could be so terrible??? you happened to carry out the will of another person??? . Lower the seriousness of the matter and put it in its place, you don’t deserve to continue punishing yourself. To the blender the machos! Empower yourself! 💚
Isabel
04/19/2021
Thank you, this helps me be strong and able to continue
Martha
04/11/2021
Yes, my husband discovered him with someone else while talking but he tells me that I haven’t been with him for 11 years but our home is a lot of discussion and he is very sexist. Sometimes I want to end it with everything but I get scared and I can’t, but it hurts me that he falls on me. You see how he treats me how he doesn’t care about me he says he loves me but the person you love doesn’t get hurt but he doesn’t care about our relationship I can’t take it anymore I need help to be able to stop this letting him go with his life and I’m mine but I can’t I need help
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anderson vera
07/01/2021
you have to make decisions and move forward
Roxet
04/04/2021
I have been in a relationship for 11 years, he is 37 and I am 34 years old, my relationship does not feel good, my fights are constant about everything and everything, I do not feel the trust that I had in him a long time ago, his character, attitude, the way he exploits by denying, their mistreatment even offenses. He has a son with his previous engagement and I have never felt an interest in him to make a family with me, to the point that I currently cannot imagine a family with him. I feel like time is passing me by and I can’t live what I would like because in him I always see an opponent of what I would like to do. I no longer know if what unites me with him is love or just a habit.
Lawliet
03/26/2021
Just as the article says, the fact that you are here reading it is proof that something is not right. We have been a couple for 11 years, I am 4 years older than him and I am 35 years old. For short periods of time I feel what I felt from the beginning, but more often I feel more disillusioned and discouraged. The worst part is that I can’t distinguish if I have been bad to her, if I have been a bad husband, even though both her parents and mine recognize that she is not good as a person, in the end it is I who feels guilty, and there are days when I regret being with her, not because of the fact that I don’t love her, but because of the fact that sometimes she makes me feel like I ruined her life. My God, it’s so hard to understand these emotions.
Jenny lozada vasquez
03/20/2021
I have been married to my husband for 10 years, we have 3 children, my husband is 11 years older than me, he is 46 and I am 35. I feel that I no longer want to continue with him, I feel that he thinks he is superior to me, I work and he also and when I buy something that I didn’t tell him, he gets upset, sometimes I find him upset out of nowhere, we are fine and suddenly out of nowhere he gets upset, I don’t know what to do.
Brenda
02/18/2021
Excellent
Amy
02/16/2021
I have a 7-year relationship with my husband, we have 3 children. Recently, I realized that he was cheating on me. We discussed it and continued as if nothing had happened, but I feel that since then the relationship has cooled down. He no longer behaves the same. I told him that we should give up. for a while and he didn’t want to but I can’t stand seeing his distance anymore.
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Daisy flower
03/08/2021
Maybe I’m going through the same thing😔
Claudia
01/20/2021
I love the person I’ve been with for 2 years, but his son’s mother still calls him and sometimes does things to annoy me and I blame him for that lack of respect.
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Angelica
03/17/2021
You should stop blaming him…