Luis Antonio Nuñez Morales
02/26/2023
I loved the information
ander
09/04/2022
excellent resolution on shyness
Michael
03/06/2022
Hello, I’m Michael, and I have one wish: to stop being shy, and to be happy for life.
Kevin
02/23/2022
It has happened to me that several attractive girls have fallen in love with me and because I don’t know how to act I always sabotage the relationship, I need help, thank you
Antonio Riaño
10/02/2021
I’m 11. Excellent article, it helped me a lot. I will follow the steps.
Gabriel
06/22/2021
I was always very shy with women, especially young ones or those close to my age. I have no problem with older women, I even look them in the eye and start a conversation without much drama.
But with young women it’s quite a drama: I don’t look them in the eye, I stutter, I try not to speak to them, etc. I don’t like young women because I consider them extremely insipid, superficial, immature, feminists. And I don’t feel comfortable with it at all.
I know that no one who interested me would be interested, in turn, in me, I have nothing remarkable to offer, not even physically (although many people say the opposite regarding the latter). I know perfectly well that I will always be a ghost to the opposite gender. That’s why I became philophobic and I don’t even consider having a date in my life, I can’t even imagine asking him out. I don’t think any woman today could take me seriously and/or like me, I know that will never happen. My self-esteem is deplorable, so I can’t expect a woman to like me… I really can’t even imagine walking hand in hand with someone or kissing, I know I’m not the kind of man who attracts attention. And it will be like this for life. It is for this reason that I chose, as a good individual who is disbelieving and fearful of relationships, to distance myself from everything that encompasses the “romantic” and stay alone and calm, without waiting for anyone to come to fill… that supposed gap.
After all, over time I realized that love is something very vain and that it barely really exists, except in fiction. And if things are bad for others, why should things be better for me??? It’s a matter of common sense, in my opinion. Each one knows how far they can give. And I, regarding that issue, recognize that I cannot (nor do I want to) give too much. I’m 2* years old, I may be young, but I’m not going to pretend that I’m ever going to get the attention of an attractive woman because I know she’s never going to be like that. It’s a shame that I didn’t realize that since I was a preteen, but anyway, it’s not too late… It’s a myth that all men, sooner or later, conquer someone, it’s a lie. I am going to go through this world without knowing what it entails. I’m not even going to bother: it would be nothing more than a ridiculous element for any woman I’ve had my eye on. Any other man is worth more, even if they are bad people, than timid and fearful individuals like me. And welcome!
PS: Imagining myself in bed with a woman who wants me is like fantasizing about directing one of the most powerful armies on the planet! Of course, paying, of course.
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Fabian
01/03/2022
and I thought I was the only one haha… the only difference is that I did have a girlfriend and relationships with women! I have just turned 26 years old and for 2 years I haven’t had friends or anything, that’s because I had psychotic outbreaks that made me become insecure, much more shy than I was and my self-esteem plummeted. I tell you something broder, I am shy, I am somewhat insecure, I am not pretty and I don’t have a good physique but I was still with women, what I want to say is that don’t hold back, don’t kill yourself with those negative thoughts, it’s just a question of wanting and attitude. greetings broder!
Adrian
04/02/2023
It’s a shame you feel that way, no one should feel that way. I really believe that there is still hope in you to achieve it when you have entered an article like this, you have read it and even commented. Don’t give up, there is a solution, I assure you. Much encouragement!!
José
05/30/2021
I am very shy only with women, not with others
Isaac
05/07/2021
Hello, how are you, a moment ago I made a comment, but I don’t know how to see it, can you help me?
Isaac
05/06/2021
Hello, my name is Isaac. What happened to me is that a girl appeared in my life, (the most beautiful and charming girl I ever met) but however I never dared to tell her what I felt, at first I only had the courage to start to talk to him A year went by and she was already giving me hints that were at the same time very direct and I didn’t respond to her the way she expected her to respond. After that year, like in February, two days after her birthday I was finally able to bring myself to tell her that I loved her, that what I felt for her I had never felt for another girl, it was the first time I truly fell in love, She was happy and told me that she felt the same way about me and my head exploded. From then on we began to say many nice and tender things to each other. Sometimes we stopped talking because of silly mistakes that I made, such as not telling her anything about my life (what happened to me during the day, the places I had gone, how school had gone, etc.). She told me everything, she told me everything she did, everything that happened in her house or that happened to her she told me, and I told her about it, they only asked about that. At the beginning of December of that year she got tired of me not saying anything to her and told me that she no longer wanted to talk to me (another reason was that I never dared to ask her out, to see each other or to do some activity) so we stopped. After talking to each other, Christmas came and we congratulated each other, and when the New Year arrived, we congratulated each other and started talking, until one moment she told me to go see her, I felt very nervous and at the same time happy, she She told me that it didn’t matter if I didn’t go, that she would understand, so for the first time I had my pants firmly on to tell her that I was going to go and that I wasn’t going to care about anything other than her, we spent New Year’s together and even after We started talking on Whatsapp for so long, she called me almost every night, just to talk to me and hear my voice, we talked until kings and queens, that day she told me to go see her again and I went back and forth so much that she told me that now Don’t go, your parents were already going to go home. Two days passed, I lost my cell phone and after that she told me that she no longer felt the same about me, that she was tired of everything we do being chatted, nothing more, I felt devastated, very sad, the thought went through my head. idea that if I hadn’t even lost my cell phone, she wouldn’t have stopped talking to me. 3 months passed and I kept thinking about her, I couldn’t stop feeling things for her. Worker’s Day arrived and my friend invited me to her house and he also invited her since he was also her friend. We spent the whole afternoon chatting and then when my friend wanted to take her home she asked me to take her. I got so nervous that I played dumb asking questions like “why me?”, but then I agreed and as we were leaving she told me to stop somewhere, so I stopped in a small square, we sat together, we talked and then the guy came out. topic, we started talking about everything that had happened, she asked me what I had done in those 3 months that we didn’t talk, everything was going well, but then she started to cry and told me that she loved me so much that she talked to all her friends about it. me, who didn’t respond to any boy even though they would talk to her out of friendship because for her it was just me, she also told me that she loved me so much that she didn’t care about the times I missed opportunities to see her or do something with her, which she didn’t care about either. She didn’t care how many times I made mistakes and made her feel bad. She told me that she cried for me waiting for me to do something. She told me that she got excited like a fool thinking that I was going to change and that wasn’t the case. She got tired of waiting for me. that I reacted and took the initiative and like a fool I never dared to take the next steps. Yesterday we spoke for the last time and we agreed to be fine just like that. I told her that I wanted to see her happy, that she was fine and that I wanted to see that she accomplished everything she set out to do. I also told her that I didn’t care if she wasn’t fine.
William
02/20/2021
It’s just that I’m very shy and several times I’ve tried to win over a girl and get closer to her but they all tell me that I’m ugly just by the way I act towards me and the packaging they’ve told me up front.
Sai
08/10/2020
Hello, my name is Sai, I’m 16 years old and I like a girl a couple of years older than me but I can’t talk to her because I feel very nervous and clumsy at that moment, what could I do?
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Gustavo
04/12/2022
Don’t think about what you’re going to say, just come up and improvise.
Lucas Emanuel Guerrero Martinez
08/04/2020
I am 12 years old, I am in love with a 13-year-old girl and I wrote her a letter and I don’t know how to make her love me. Can you give me some advice?
Juan
07/20/2020
I have the problem that when I am with the woman I like, I don’t dare to tell her that I like her. I can talk about other things but when the time or opportunity comes to tell her something, I remain paralyzed.
Elisaul
05/25/2020
Hello, well the thing is that I’m only 15 years old and there is a girl who is my neighbor. She is the same age as me. Well, I guess that’s because I have never spoken to her. Every time I see her, I get terrified. In short, every time I see her, my heart beats a lot. but much faster and I’m afraid to talk to her in case she rejects me. I’m very in love, please help me. I don’t know what to do. When I see her, it’s like the universe is filled with immense darkness. Except she is the only glow of hers, like a star.
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Adrian
06/24/2020
The same thing happens to me, but I’m also 15 and the girl is the same, but it makes me sad to talk to her and that I’m left without a conversation.
Guerrero Martinez Lucas Emanuel
08/04/2020
Elisaul, I’m 12 years old but the same thing happens to me and I don’t know how to do it. That girl is 13 years old and the same thing happened to me and I want to give her a letter and I’m afraid. Today I want to give it to her and she scares me very much but she is the universe. mine
Sergio
02/03/2021
Hi Elisaul, I’m 17 years old, the same thing happened to me. I liked my neighbor when I was 15 and she was a year older than me. Well, the fact is that I was also very shy until one day when I was 16 I decided to talk to her when I told her what I said. She told me that she also felt the same before but because she thought we would never talk to each other and she was very shy she thought it was better to get someone else and that’s what happened. Currently she is still with her partner so from experience I would say that you talk to him before be too late
Eduardo Muñoz
10/24/2019
I am very shy
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Jair Benjamin Machaca Cruz
12/26/2020
Ok broo
Then you have to take a deep breath and approach her as if she were any friend, that is, with confidence, but not disrespectfully, but with a lot of respect, honey,…