Zury Arana
09/23/2023
You know one day my mother told me that she prefers my two brothers who are men and she told me you are not my daughter, they are my two sons but you are not my daughter. He felt really ugly and what I felt for her came out of my heart.
Yeico yurem
05/16/2023
Thank you;(
Andrea
05/09/2023
My mother mistreats me since my daughter was born, I am a single mother. She always treated me very badly when I was pregnant. Now she is 10 years old and even so, she continues to mistreat me. I work but she treats me badly. She mistreats my daughter. She curses me.
Eliana
04/15/2023
My mother has simply made me have emotional breakdowns, emotional blockage, CHILDREN’S DEPRESSION MAKES ME FEEL COMPLETELY USELESS SHE HITS ME, INSULTS ME FOR NO REASON MAKES ME LOOK COMPLETELY USELESS SO DIFFERENT FROM THE REST SHE MAKES ME FEEL SO BAD SO BROKEN I DON’T KNOW WHAT THE FUCK I DID TO HER FOR YOU TO HATE ME I’M SIMPLY WRONG I NEED HELP-… I WANT TO SCREAM BUT THERE IS SOMETHING THAT WON’T LET ME SCREAM SOMETHING BLOCKS ME
mine
04/11/2023
They are people who do not deserve to have the children they have.
Bri
03/30/2023
I don’t know what’s going on, but my mother was always loving to me until a few days ago. She came back from a trip, I wanted to spend time with her and she just pushes me away from her, ignores me and tells me to leave, which I’ve never done before. Today morning she insulted my sister and me in every possible way, she treated us super badly, and when I came home and saw that she was acting more normal, she changed her attitude back. She is calling me fat, that she doesn’t love me and so… I don’t want her to affect me because it is possible that she will get over it, but she hurts me a lot.
Andy
02/02/2023
It helps me to know that it doesn’t just happen to me, I feel the contempt of my mother as always, she never loved me. I carry a terrible pain in my soul, and I am feeling emptiness and immense loneliness.
URBAN STELE
01/27/2023
MY MOTHER HATES ME, I’M OLD AND HAS HUMILIATED ME ALL OF MY LIFE, AND SHE HAS A DEEP GRIEF BUT I HAVE ENDURED, AND I HAVE NOWHERE TO GO. WHAT I LIVE FOR. I HAVE NOTHING OR A HOUSE TO LIVE… AND I EARN VERY LITTLE
Owen
09/16/2022
My story goes back more than 11 years. Since I was 6 years old, my mother abused me, hit me and treated me so badly both physically and psychologically until today that I am 17 years old, she always makes comments to me like “stupid” “”garbage” and other things that I don’t want to mention. Because the truth makes me feel sorry for it. The most serious thing is that since I was 7 years old, it stayed with me when he told me “how do you go out through that door and a car crushes you, and that’s how you die” I have never forgotten that, I always grew up like an incapable person and every time I tried to do something he told me that everything was wrong. He also doesn’t support me with my future plans and you can imagine what world I live in. In a few months I will be 18 years old and I will be able to make my own decisions and take control of my life. I don’t hate her, nor do I wish her anything bad, I love her very much and I hope one day she will reconsider, I forgive her for treating me badly like that, she is still my mother for life, but as soon as I can I will make my life apart.
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Bri
03/30/2023
How mature of you! Wish you all the best.
Roxana
08/19/2022
I accepted that she doesn’t love me, well God forgive her why I can’t her contempt almost destroyed me now thank God I’m far away from her
jahaziel
08/07/2022
I have problems with my mother. My self-esteem always drops every time I want to do something. I realized that she prefers my brother more, who is a 25-year-old man. Because I am the youngest, he only pays attention to me and sometimes he doesn’t. I can help her, she treats me stupid with more rudeness,
One day I also went to buy bread after giving the bread to her and she told me that you brought me ugly bread that’s not what you’re good for, I told her but what bread do you want? Yes, this is her daily bread, but according to her, she says that I am an answerer and that I am only good for answering, which I only answer calmly but she gets upset, my whole life stresses me out and I don’t know what else to do to live away from She, I’m still a minor, I just hope to become independent later, the words hurt more than a blow. :c
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CLAUDIA
08/11/2022
The same happens to me. First of all, try not to discourage yourself and always keep in mind that the things she says to you or how she describes you in a derogatory way does not really define you. Only you really know who you are and if the things you do are good or bad. Don’t let her hurtful words stay stuck in your head because they are things said by a person unaware of the damage she can cause. No one will care as much about you and be able to help you more than yourself. Courage and strength to move forward. A hug.
Laura
07/28/2022
It helped me a lot to realize how my mother was with me, psychologically she hurt me with her comments and words that she always said to me, now that she died it hurts me for all the harm she did to me, she preferred my brothers more than me. She always asks me why she treated me like that, because I can’t forgive her for everything wrong. That she made me both physically and mentally
Suzanne
07/28/2022
My mother manipulates me, subjugates me, doesn’t respect me, forces me… She doesn’t see anything good in me… She wants to keep me away from my children…
DANNA
03/14/2022
My story begins like this… my mother, from a very young age of around 6 years, insulted me with rude words from whore to bitch without me knowing its meaning, it was always like this, I have always complained to her because she doesn’t love me or more than anything because she treats me so bad, I’m currently 26 years old, we’ve gone up to a year without speaking to each other and she says she’ll change, I apologize and then she comes and does the same thing and insults me… I’ve been working a lot on my self-esteem and she’s always looking for any defects in clothes, hair or anything to that I don’t feel safe… now I decided to push her away and block her, I don’t want her mistreatment anymore.
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Eugenia
04/24/2022
Danna. Hello, I am almost 60 years old and I am reading your comment because I also have the same problem. My mother left me with my grandparents when I was 3 months old and almost never saw me and when she had the opportunity she verbally abused me. She called me men and my broken self-esteem was destroyed even more. Now the time has come when I take care of her but I realize that she has many harmful habits and that she will never feel that affection for me. I think your mother also has habits that are difficult to break but she should take you away from her for a long time and seriously let her know that you are not going to put up with her behavior. Or if not, she will suffer much more not only for you but also for your children if you are careful and be careful. I wish you much peace and love🙏💐
Mariana
06/20/2022
Exactly my story, and any kind of rudeness even in front of other people and even as an adult. I remember one time I wore a dress that I loved and the first thing she told me was not to be such a whore, I was 11 years old and didn’t know why she said that to me.
Now that I don’t talk to him I feel much calmer.
Viviana
01/26/2022
If I am a mother like the one described in this article, what should I do to transform that situation and if I have made my children feel bad with my complaints and mistreatment, how can I correct it?
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Ae
07/06/2022
Try to understand them, be gentler with them, don’t hit them, listen to them, their opinions are very valid, believe me, as a 15-year-old teenager, I would like my mother to take this position of wanting to change, currently because of this I am in depression, self-harm, anxiety and suicide attempts, do simple things before you regret it, tell them that you love them and improve as a person every day, if you correct them, don’t do it by hitting them, you make them afraid of you and they will hide things from you more, I tell you from experience, give them their privacy, do activities with them, go for a walk with them, laugh with them, watch movies, do everything, make them happy and never judge them pdt: they are not lessons, I don’t teach you how to be a mother, I tell you the things that as a daughter I would have liked to do with my mother… Apologize if you made them feel bad… Don’t just be their mother, be their best friend
Juan José Crisóstomo Soto
01/15/2022
Well my story begins like this, I am 19 years old and my relationship with my parents was never beautiful like every child who lived full of love in his childhood, well for my part it was not like that, my father did not like me when I was born and my mother did not like me. I always blamed him and until now for his cesarean section that he had at birth. Well, I talked to my mother about why she doesn’t love me and she didn’t answer me. I would like to know what I could do to make my mother love me. Because I sincerely miss, like every young person, that I am the one. warmth of a mother😔😔😭this hurts me a lot😔
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German
01/18/2022
I understand your feeling. My humble advice is to focus your thoughts on how much you love her and imagine that she feels the same. If you can, let her know that you love her and if you don’t reciprocate, don’t take it personally, think that it may be her own pathology that she suffers from as well. That being said, that’s how the world works. Trust in being a good professional and a emotionally healthy person and stay away from misunderstandings or what does not correspond to you with maximum coldness. All the best.
Eugenia
04/24/2022
I am a mother and I have a sesarea. Alright. Respect your mother but she is immature. I recommend that she does not pay attention to you or cry for affection and many who have overcome themselves without help, you can do it too and someone does not LOVE you, he loses it. You have to take the attitude of a winner. I too was abandoned and rejected and survived. That makes you mature earlier. To study and work and manage your life and your time. Love yourself first and be strong. It’s okay 🙂🙏
Hated
03/09/2023
You can’t do anything, I’m 50 and she still hates me… .. the last attempt to fix things with her was when she was 30, even today. She doesn’t reconsider. The best thing you can do is accept that it was bad with the mother who touched you.
delia cu
10/26/2021
I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW A MOTHER CAN HATE HER DAUGHTER: MY mom hates me so much, she always blames me for what happens to her, she humiliates me. I don’t know what to do anymore, the day comes when I feel like committing suicide, maybe then she will be happy.
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Maria
11/15/2021
Don’t give him that pleasure. Go on with your life because there are more people in the world and cheer up. You’re probably better than her.
yamileth
02/11/2022
My mom has gotten to the point of calling me salty, insulting me and treating me like her enemy and I know how you may feel but the best thing is to show that nothing she says has value.
Ana
04/17/2022
I have tried to commit suicide since I was 11 years old, I have never succeeded, I am currently 26 years old, she insults me, humiliates me, kicks me out of the house, and even hits me, she has told me that she hates me and tells me that I am shit , an asshole, a daughter of my first mother, she tells me hundreds of things, I’m afraid to leave the house, I don’t know what to do, I’m afraid and that makes me stay…