When we become mothers, we know that our task of raising and caring for our children is a lifelong labor. And although at some point we will have to part with them, either because they grow up and become independent or because life takes us on different paths, we will always be present in their hearts and minds.
The relationship between a mother and her daughter is unique and incomparable. Over the years, the mother becomes an important and significant figure in her daughter’s life. The mother is the first friend, the first confidante, the first mentor. Through her experience, the mother has much to teach and share with her daughter, especially regarding the challenges and important decisions that come up in her life.
As mothers, we want to make sure our children are prepared to face life’s challenges and find happiness and success in everything they do. In this sense, a mother’s life advice for her daughter is a valuable way of imparting wisdom and guidance to help her face challenges and live a full and happy life.
33 Advice from a mother for her daughter
The idea is to convey in each piece of advice that a mother can give her daughter, a useful tool that serves her at the right moments, where she can put into practice the wisdom she has obtained.
1. Love yourself above all things.
2. Don’t compare yourself to others, each person has their own path and their own experiences.
3. Be kind and empathetic to others, but don’t allow anyone to make you feel inferior or manipulate you.
4. Don’t give in to fear, uncertainty, or the negative opinions of others. Believe in yourself and in your dreams.
5. Never feel guilty for not wanting to accept someone into your life.
6. Learn to value your achievements and be compassionate with yourself when you face failures or difficulties.
7. Do not give explanations, if you do not want to give them.
8. Avoid getting caught up in beauty standards. Be yourself.
9. Learn to forgive yourself for the mistakes you make.
10. Learn to forgive and ask for forgiveness, this will help you release grudges and strengthen your interpersonal relationships.
11. Learn to be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on what you lack.
12. Value your time and energy, and don’t waste it on people or situations that don’t bring you anything positive.
13. Always put your emotional and physical well-being first.
14. Learn to listen to your intuition and trust your decision.
15. Don’t be afraid to pursue your dreams and goals, even if they are different from what others expect of you.
16. If you feel like crying, cry. Don’t hold back your tears.
17. Be responsible with your actions and decisions, assume the consequences of your actions.
18. Never forget that you have every right to be heard.
19. Be strong and bold. Put fear aside.
20. Choose your battles. Do not get involved in the battles of others.
21. Accept your limits, but work to overcome them.
22. Work on developing your self-esteem and confidence, this will help you make more confident and attractive decisions.
23. Get up every day with the purpose of being happy.
24. Heal your wounds, dedicate the necessary time for it.
25. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, even in difficult times.
26. Take care of your friendships and relationships, stay away from toxic people and seek to surround yourself with people who join you and make you grow.
27. Learn to manage your money intelligently and responsibly, save and spend wisely.
28. Learn to enjoy the present, without neglecting planning and thinking about the future.
29. Cultivate an open and tolerant mind, respect differences and learn from the experiences and perspectives of others.
30. Take care of your body and mind, practice sports and exercises that you like, meditate or find activities that relax you and give you peace.
31. Respect your values and principles, do not compromise them to please others or to fit in with a group.
32. Never stop learning, keep cultivating your interests and discovering new things.
33. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or support when you need it, we all need help at some point in life.
The most valuable thing that can be inherited from children is not material things, but tools and values that accompany them forever. You have to transmit the necessary strength to face any situation that life throws at you and the wisdom to make the right decisions in moments of uncertainty. Remember that you can always count on a hug from your mother, even if she is far away.
“I won’t always tell you what you want to hear, but I promise I will always tell you the truth.”
By Aleja Bama