Manuel Salgado
07/28/2023
Here, without even bearing my wife’s voice. Only with her for my children. She has a generalized anxiety disorder, according to her, which she has overcome, which makes me live in hell. And I don’t want to help her anymore, or understand her, or put myself in her place because I don’t love her anymore.
Seeing my children every day and not missing out on everyday life is worth the sacrifice, but I don’t know how long I can resist it.
pains elena
07/24/2023
it makes me feel psychological damage
Yeny
09/19/2022
I can’t stand it anymore, he’s not a bad person, but honestly sometimes I don’t even know how I continue resisting, sex for me is a martyrdom, it makes me a little sick; There was never a great attraction on my part, but now with the girl we have, I have endured for her. I don’t know what to do, sometimes I get depressed, I feel like the years go by in a monotonous and boring life, I have stopped being myself.
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Noelia
05/10/2023
How do I understand you? It happens exactly the same. It is so difficult
Maria
08/31/2022
I have been living with my husband for more than 10 years, but I can’t stand him touching me or kissing me. I don’t know what to do anymore because he has cheated on me several times. I want to leave him but I can’t. Negative things come to my mind. I need him. please help
desperate
05/30/2022
My husband was unfaithful to me a couple of years ago, abandoned me and my children and married his lover. A year later he divorced and came back asking for forgiveness saying that he regretted it; The first few months everything was hunky dory but suddenly like magic it became unbearable for me, I started to hate him touching me, I hate when he’s in the house, his conversations bore me and everything that refers to him annoys me. same.
He is very affectionate and attentive to me but no matter how much I try to see the person I fell in love with, I only see all the horrible things that happened when he abandoned me.
I’m thinking about quitting but I don’t know how to approach it.
The only one
04/01/2022
What do I do, I can’t stand my husband anymore. I hate that he is so passive and messy with everything. He has always abandoned me. At first it hurt me, now he doesn’t care. Sometimes after six years together he tries to get closer to me but honestly it doesn’t suit me anymore. I feel like I have nothing in common with him. Whenever I say something to him he ignores me and leaves me talking alone (when I ask him what we do with our relationship, it’s better that we separate), just as in that he is equally passive in everything, he doesn’t know how to make decisions, for everything he acts the disengaged Honestly, I’m already sick of him. I take care of our son, I have been unemployed since the pandemic began. I have looked for a job without success, I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I can’t stand it.
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Maria
05/03/2022
If he is passive and does not know how to make decisions, you will have to do it, do not wait to continue living with someone who clearly has nothing for you, do not let any more time pass.
I wish you all the success.
David
10/11/2021
I can’t leave my wife because I keep the house, she doesn’t work and my children are very young, 10 and 8 years old, she is absolutely dominant, I don’t want to fight or scream, worse hit her, I accept all her requests, she is very aggressive, she doesn’t even want to see me anymore, no sex, she doesn’t talk to me, she doesn’t do anything for me, as they say, not even a sandwich in my mouth. She has bipolarity and many traumas since she was a child. She has depression, she has migraines every day. She is always in a bad mood. She insults, attacks, yells, she doesn’t help my children with their schoolwork, nor me, she only gives them food when she wants. I don’t know how to solve this problem. She doesn’t agree to talk to anyone. She doesn’t have friends. It is impossible to have a conversation with her, the worst of all is that I am 66 years old, she is 49 years old, I have two jobs, and it is time to retire and I cannot save a cent for my retirement because she controls everything. money I earn. If I leave the house, my children and she would have to live on the street, she does not think that we are all prone to any misfortune and this time of pandemic is even more dangerous, she only waits on me, she does not save, she is spending all the money she I win every month. The situation is serious. I don’t have a way to convince her and tell her that she is wrong. She doesn’t speak, she doesn’t even answer the greeting. She doesn’t leave the house, she only does it to go to the market. She doesn’t have friends.
Could you help me?
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ANI
01/15/2022
Hello David, since you don’t have friends and don’t listen to anyone. Maybe you are the elven who can help her. Trying to remember the good moments that there were in her relationship at the beginning, you will surely find many beautiful memories that she needs to remember. It is likely that given all the suitcases she has, she does not feel completely happy and that is why she acts almost. Maybe she would have liked to work on something that she really likes and when she doesn’t give it to her she feels sad but she shows it with indifference deep down I think she also suffers.
I hope I have helped with that idea,
I’m not a psychologist
I am a doctor
I’m also a wife and mom and it’s seriously exhausting. If I came to this page it’s because I can’t stand my husband haha and I’m trying to see what to do to improve.
Gabriel
10/05/2021
I feel like I love my wife but sometimes I feel like I reach a point where I can’t stand her and I just put up with it, and I try to keep my anger for our daughter who is only 2 years old whom we love but sometimes I can’t and I complain to her and When that happens she starts crying and tells me to leave her alone but she never wants to talk to resolve things she just lets them cool down and doesn’t want to resolve anything, I know that my wife is not bad, I know that she has good feelings but Now she gets upset by even the slightest nonsense… And since she earns her money she has become challenging, empowered but in a way that I feel is haughty and not egalitarian in the way I have always loved… both equally. I try to remain calm, I try not to argue and I always want to talk and resolve things and only worry about what I think is really important. I have done everything possible to change the situation, but I feel that the way she was raised affects our relationship at her mother’s house when they got upset they didn’t talk to each other and her sisters and even her mother when they got upset and they never fixed anything I feel that that is why the dialogue has not worked, because she keeps everything to herself, I love her but I am really worried that I will get tired, it is exhausting, I adore my daughter and for me it is the most important thing. My wife saw her husband leave. father at 10 years old and leaving his mother with 3 daughters, I feel like that marks her and she is hard and no matter how much I think about it, I don’t know what I’m going to do. We just celebrated 5 years of marriage and I feel like everything has changed, I’m trying to adapt. and improve but it also doesn’t seem fair to me to have to conform to someone 100% and that she doesn’t change to improve the relationship.
Iran
09/09/2021
My admiration for my husband has become my cross, he is always in his world, in his things, he leaves me all the responsibility for my children and the house, I also work and right now with the pandemic I have to be with the children and his school, when I tell him that he only looks for us when he’s tired of his job, he tells me that he already has more responsibilities and he thinks that with that I should understand that he can’t, ent. I think and what about us? Are we not important? I understand his taste for work and standing out but he pushes us aside… so it’s better not to say anything to him, I act as if he didn’t exist, I do activities with my children and I’m with them, I don’t care about him anymore.
Gabriela
03/16/2021
I have been with my husband and 2 children for 7 years, I have always put up with his bad mood and feeling that only the plans he has are the important ones, leaving aside my opinion little by little, he has a very strong voice and is a bit It’s vulgar when I say something that he doesn’t agree with, more than love I think it’s fear that ties me to him for my children, I don’t know, I work and we contribute equally at home, however he always tells me that I’m a useless one or that I am of no use, this time of quarantine has been worse for me, being at home all the time is unbearable. I don’t think there is a remedy for our marriage. I would like to know what I should do. I don’t know if the decision I want to make will cause problems for my children later on. They are still small. I remain attentive to your comments. Beforehand thank you very much.
aisaless
03/14/2021
Good afternoon, could you guide me? My partner tells me that we can’t stand each other, so what to do in this situation.
karina vazquez
03/11/2021
I have been with my husband for 6 years, the state police officer has been working on it for 3 years, before he was very detail-oriented, he cared about me, he did not insult me, he helped me cook, wash and now after we had a girl he started working on this change , he became more arrogant, selfish, he yells at me about everything, he humiliates me, he insults me, nothing seems to him, he had an accident and broke his leg but out of nowhere he despairs and yells at me and talks to me in a hot, rude tone, The money he gives me bothers me, besides the fact that it is not frequent anymore, if only once, I can’t tell him my problems, he doesn’t ask me what I want, he isn’t interested in my goals, because I’m almost finished my career, we always argue, he doesn’t get along with my family, he doesn’t defend me in front of his family, I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t want to live like that, I’ve noticed with his co-workers, it’s not like that, he speaks well to them, he even jokes, He is always in a bad mood with me, I take care of this accident, I do everything for him, even though he yells at me, I don’t know what to do, I want it, I can’t stand living like this and putting up with his bad character.
Angie Maribel Guerrero Espinosa
03/06/2021
If it’s true, I feel all that negative with my ex-husband. For my part, I want so much not to go back to that guy. I annoy him, an annoyance, an annoyance, and the family also on his part, that not separating us and I also agree is a hindrance. and it really bothers me and if I can’t stand it just by listening to it I annoy him and he makes me sick
Ana
02/14/2021
My partner hurt me a lot, with very hurtful attitudes, I don’t trust him, I feel like he stole my hope, there was no infidelity but I feel betrayed, deceived, sometimes even used, I have a grudge against him and I can’t stand what I should do, he doesn’t want to end our relationship. relationship.
Patricia
01/31/2021
Hello, good evening, I want to know what to do. I can’t stand my partner anymore. We’ve been together for 14 years, but I feel like he never changed for the better. I just realized that he wasn’t the person I met at the beginning. He’s a sexist man. Psychological, physical, economic abuse over time. I knew that it was like that and what killed the most was infidelity and drinking. I don’t know what to do with him anymore and he doesn’t want to understand that there is no more love and he acts crazy and doesn’t accept that he was the one who damaged our relationship. The change was me because I became more and more angry, irritable, all the responsibility for the children was left to me alone, what do I do to make him understand? He became very dominant, violent, and I got tired of all that.
Lizbet
09/01/2020
Hello, I am writing to you because I feel worse every day in my marriage, nothing is the same, I no longer feel that same feeling that I did a few years ago towards my partner, I would like…