Valeria Velez Gomez
06/22/2023
I want to forget my ex
Edinson Javier melo Palomino
04/25/2023
I want to learn to forget my exes because there I always think about her and now I don’t want to know more about her, not in my thoughts I want to forget her. because I already have a new partner.
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Valeria Velez Gomez
06/22/2023
I want to forget my ex, I don’t want to have him in my thoughts anymore 😭
Carlos
01/02/2023
2 years ago I separated from my daughter’s mother.
At that time we had meetings.
Until 2 weeks ago we shared a bed.
After she spends a week with me she wants to be alone and ends up breaking up with me.
For 1 year now I have been feeling bad, before it was once a day, now it is every day I feel sad, suffocated and stagnant.
I think it’s obsession because every day I keep an eye on their networks and those close to them.
I feel bad for a woman who doesn’t love me and I can’t realize it.
My ship is sinking and my thoughts are the ones that weigh me down and play against me 😣
Emily
09/05/2022
I haven’t had a relationship with my son’s father for 9 years and I haven’t gotten over it, not because I want to get back with him, he wasn’t a good match, but I miss him as a friend. I recently tried to get back into the relationship and he wished me dead I think out of spite because he sought me out as a partner 2 years ago and I rejected him. I don’t see it as normal to miss someone who I haven’t seen for almost 10 years (very occasionally on the street and we don’t even greet each other).
Julia Diaz
09/16/2021
I have just turned 18 years old, 4 months ago I met a boy with whom I got engaged, I fell in love and we started making plans for the future. I never thought I would love him so much, 15 days ago he broke up with me because he felt that the relationship was becoming toxic. Since that day my life changed, I no longer feel like going out to share, if I go out I must drink alcohol until I end up drunk, every day I cry, I neglect the university, the only thing I do is sleep and stalk their networks or close people. It hit me super hard! The truth is I feel like I need help, because it’s hard for me to help myself. He was the center of everything and now the reality is different.
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James V.
11/11/2022
Better value the person who loves you and cares about you.
Mariana Toledo Carbajal
12/15/2020
I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago because he did things that weren’t bad but they made me uncomfortable and I felt like he was obsessing me for a while.
The truth is I miss it, we are on good terms but for now I don’t know what to do.
manuel ramos
10/23/2020
Good morning, I am in a truly difficult situation, today it has been 6 months since my partner left home, we were 18 years old together and had two children, one 4 years old and the girl 2 years old, we had been having problems but we maintained the relationship trying to overcome those problems day by day, the day he left we had an argument since he left in the morning and returned at the end of the afternoon, this situation had been happening for several weeks, in which a business was going to be attended to that she had with the community and she didn’t care about the children or me, that day we argued and I told her that if she didn’t like being in the house she should leave, since there was no way for her to stay in the house with his family, to which he responded by saying that he would pick up his things and go to his mother’s.
Since that day that person changed 360 degrees, her treatment began to be hostile towards me, day by day I tried to talk and solve the situation so that she would return home and I had no way to convince her, she is there for everyone day by day I continued attending the business I had together with the community which consisted of selling fruits, vegetables and greens, I began to see sercania with one of the men who also worked in that place, approaches, friendships, accompaniment to carry out other errands, on several occasions I tried to talk and ask him for an explanation of what was happening with that person, to which he responded that he had nothing, that he was a friend and co-worker, so the months went by and the situation became more and more delicate and his closeness with that man was more and more, on several occasions I told myself that I was sick for trying to insinuate that she had something with that person, a few days ago I spied on her and confirmed that they do have a relationship, they are a couple and they are together, at least which I confronted her and she confessed to me, her family supports her in what she is doing to the point that on several occasions said man has stayed with her at her house.
After 18 years together, two children, I consider that this was not the way to act on her part, I do not understand how after 18 years with a person, you separate and in a few months you are already with another partner.
Reedbed
08/27/2020
I married a man to whom I remained married for 23 years. Everything was going well until I started to see things in his family of origin that didn’t add up to me, although I handled it well because it wasn’t my concern until we had our first child and then I was affected. My son was ignored in the treatment of a granddaughter that my in-laws had. Months went by without seeing my son and I don’t think my husband was affected that his parents had that attitude. Even some friend and neighbor made some comments in a joking but sharp tone, where he told him that his parents were with the other grandson all day and that with my son, he never saw them. Details such as the fact that after the birth of my son, practically four months went by without seeing him, illustrate the degree of inconsideration of my in-laws towards my son. The reason was, as I said, they were taking care of the daughter of one of my sisters-in-law and they spent the whole day with him. This sister-in-law was married to a man who worked conspicuously 365 days a year, 12 hours a day. They both had good jobs, but the truth is that it was not reflected in the belongings they had: neither a good apartment, nor a good car, nor trips… All a little strange until I realized what was happening. I have to say that this situation of being ignored aroused a lot of discomfort in me over time. My husband practically didn’t even care that his parents had that behavior and I began to have disagreements with him because I didn’t understand his parents’ ways towards our son. Going back to when I said until I realized what was happening, I have to say that I found myself with an embarrassing cake according to my way of seeing life. It turns out that my sister-in-law paid my in-laws. He had a good pension, but I also realized that he was an alcoholic who spent a lot of money on addiction. Here the problem was not treated by facing it, but in the end I realized that the whole family worked to avoid the social consequences of my father-in-law’s alcoholism. Cover it, hide it, ignore it, what do I know… Then I also realized that that brother-in-law who worked a lot was a gambling addict and that what he earned he spent on lotteries and games. They had formed a society where they overlapped with each other. One covered up the other’s problem and it was never said that there was a problem and taking care of the manners with my son was very very secondary to the needs they had. The main issue is that the situation fueled many arguments with my husband, until one day my father-in-law seriously insulted me, because I hinted at what was happening. I couldn’t take it anymore. From there everything got worse and worse, my father-in-law died due to his addiction and my mother-in-law fell ill after her death and tried to commit suicide several times. I told my husband that everything was a product of the same problem and that my mother-in-law’s life no longer made sense for her, because covering up for my father-in-law was over and now what would that poor thing do better? These explanations did not sit well with my husband and I ended up divorcing him, because we had been burned, he never saw what I saw and to make matters worse, he did not defend me when his father insulted me or he did not do it with the forcefulness that he should have in the sense of They didn’t even apologize to me later in cold weather. Now divorced we bought an apartment next to each other, sometimes he invites me to eat and says it’s for the children so they can see that we get along well. There are 70 meters that do not separate one home from another. . My ex-husband calls me and has gestures that are not normal for two divorced couples in terms of attention. However, when I ask him if we could resume the relationship, he doesn’t want to. I think he hates me because I brought to light many ugly things about his family. Even when my father-in-law died, I discovered that this man earned much more than he said, because of the pension he left for my mother-in-law. Instead he doesn’t want to see anything and he has his family at an altar, he denies everything even having happened. It’s something extra
lua
06/29/2020
and when it’s the ex-husband and I have to continue seeing him because of the son. Unfortunately my obsession has been going on for 7 years now until I met her new partner and I can’t stand knowing that he loves her even if he hides it… the truth is it’s very exhausting
carol
06/23/2020
My ex is obsessed with Migo, he tries to get my attention, he calls me crying that it is very wrong that he is cutting his arms, he lies about me and he has sought out my family to invent things about me, he wants the whole world to be against me, he says That he is going to hurt himself and I am worried that he will take his own life and they will blame me. What should I do?
07/07/2020
Hello Carol,
You find yourself facing a situation of emotional blackmail and harassment. The best option is to go to a professional who can guide you correctly according to the specific case.
Greetings.
LOLA RUIZ
04/19/2023
Carol, honey, tell him strongly and convincingly that you don’t want anything to do with him and if he keeps it up, you’ll send his messages to the police. Tell him to do what he wants and to leave you alone once and for all, but forcefully. These characters, when you talk to them like that, because they are cowards, they disappear suddenly.
Lucy
06/06/2020
I’m destroyed
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FERNANDA JOSE
08/05/2020
How are you now currently?
Hadrian
05/02/2020
I had a 5-year relationship with my ex. She is 4 years older than me. Nowadays I am 22 years old and it is difficult. I want to get over it. She is already with someone twice as much older and I feel horrible. I looked for her after 1 year but apparently I can’t today we had an argument in the end she blocked me everything and I miss her a lot maybe I have Codependency and it’s horrible the truth is I don’t know what to do other than I want to delete everything it’s really hard for me since I got together with her a few months ago but it doesn’t work out I feel very depressed and don’t want to do anything!
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william
06/17/2020
How are you doing friend?
Anyi
04/06/2020
Hello, right now, I’m in a 9-month relationship, I’m very attached to him and he has told me that he wants to break up with me but I beg him to stay with me and I cry to him and everything and the truth is I don’t know what to do anymore because I feel that He laughs at me and I don’t want him to laugh at me. I’m already trying to get him out of my mind so as not to think about him too much but I can’t always call him…