Trigeminal Neuralgia is about feeling ashamed. Symbolically, it would be like “my face falls with shame” and obviously, when perceived on the skin, it will be related to the separation conflict.
Biodecoding Trigeminal Neuralgia — Emotional Conflicts
In ordinary life, it can be said that the simple fact of “not seeing anyone face to face” already implies separation: my face is separated from another face. This is how the subconscious perceives it. And we can see it from the opposite side:
“They saw my face” (they used me). Some made fun of me, some didn’t take me seriously, some ignored me, and all the variations you can imagine.
For example, a woman who recently, if she does not see that face again (her husband), may have trigeminal neuralgia, but that person did not listen to her, gave her space, disrespected her, etc. Or maybe there is a son who did not see her father, but he never paid attention to her, he ignored him, he did not wish her ill, etc.
As long as the affective conflict is active, that is, while they are aware of this separation. , suffering this shame, with this type of relationship with this person who is no longer with me, my skin is a little dry, the sensitivity of my face is reduced, the possible sensation of sex.
sleeping skin
And why does it feel like my skin is numb?
Because it’s my body’s way of “not feeling the separation” and it hurts less. Once I have come to terms with what happened, once I have resolved the situation and it no longer affects me as much, I enter the resolution phase and that is when the pain begins.
But the therapeutic crisis is very painful, unbearable, and although I already feel sensitive, this stage is difficult.
pain and numbness
But what if I have pain and numbness for months and it doesn’t go away?
You just don’t understand what happened. You still can’t get over the shame, you still can’t get over the fact that the person you broke up with saw your face and lied to you.
And let’s not go too far, many mothers whose children go only on exchange have trigeminal neuralgia simply because they chose to live in another city or country.
Here I argue a lot with my son, but “I’M NOT GOING TO GIVE HIM ANYMORE”. It’s not always death, let’s get this straight. It could be a painful breakup with an ex-partner I didn’t love, or the death of a child or grandchild who never visited me.
A breakup of two people
In short, it is a break between two people who did not have an EXCEPTIONAL AND FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP at all (and part of the solution is to objectively accept that it was not a 100% positive or loving relationship).
The only problem with continuing to think about what happened is that I remember it every day or often enough to allow me to put the conflict on a PENDING decision.
That is why there are people who can suffer from the trigeminal for years because they have not yet closed this loop, this face-to-face separation. Almost always it is a couple relationship or a mother-son relationship.
severe separations
Could a more severe rupture causing excruciating pain be the cause?
Of course!
The separation was violent, brutal, even when they slapped and third parties appeared on the scene. (Separation from the face, shame).
Those situations where spouses scream or husband and wife turn away and never come back (I couldn’t see them face to face) can certainly lead to trigeminal neuralgia. The neighbors heard the screams (what a shame).
Another scandal that trigeminal neuralgia can cause with a lot of pain, is being ashamed of someone who does not face me and that I really feel isolated or separated from my ‘reputation’.
Conventional analgesics are not usually able to reduce pain sufficiently, the best way to resolve the conflict is to analyze it emotionally, looking for separations, moments of shame, situations in which you no longer see anyone, confront and so on.
Trigeminal neuralgia is not a physical disease
Trigeminal neuralgia is not a physical disease, it is totally emotional. We are the ones who keep it alive when we don’t deal with what happened or win when we don’t acknowledge it.
Additional symptoms can be cold feet, pain during the day compared to night, numbness, etc.
looking for my devaluation
One important thing, if I have or suffer from trigeminal neuralgia, I must first find my worthlessness in it.
First it was separation, shame, death, I did not see the face of someone who saw my face. But it is a completely different thing is that I did not value myself enough, that I allowed that person to abuse me, I allowed him not to look me in the face.
Suddenly there is a conflict that I feel through my devaluation. How to go through life demanding love, respect, the company of someone who barely gave me the crumbs.
What do I have to solve?
Accept your fears and failures, change your vision of “what others are doing to you” and recognize that your beliefs caused it.
(He must love me and stay), my expectations (he is the love of my life, I have done so much for him, for her, he must be grateful) heal my habits (he or she cannot, can) they cannot live without me.
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