Knowing that being born after one of our brothers has died (whether it was an abortion or a child already born), is an event that will mark our life, our emotions and even our health.
Recumbent Horizontal Biodecoding
In general, this is known as “Horizontal Reclining,” which simply means that someone in my generation line died before me, in my family (ie, it only works with siblings and half-siblings). To be lying for “someone” there is a golden rule:
The death of the family member occurred BEFORE I was CONCEIVED
There is usually a lot of confusion about this and a large number of people “believe” they are lying down, because the grandfather died on his birthday, or the uncle died while they were already gestating in the maternal womb and these are other transgenerational concepts that can be analyzed with the biodecoding, more is not Yacente.
Being born after the death of a brother
Well, going back to the point of being born after the death of a brother, imagine for a second all the illusion that waits for a baby:
- The crib and clothes are bought, a nice room is prepared, toys and diapers are bought, a perfect name is thought of and expectations are created about the color of their eyes, their hair, their skin color, etc.
- The arrival of a baby in the family includes not only these dreams, but those of all the members: what the grandmother, grandfather, uncle, aunt, cousin and cousin think.
- They talk about the possible profession of the baby and their possible tastes and similarities.
- They then form, around this baby, a familiar biological unconscious full of emotions.
And what if this baby doesn’t make it to term?
And what if the baby is actually born, but dies soon?
It happens that ALL the expectations that were held for him, remain floating in the family environment, waiting to fall on “the next child”.
Being born then, after the death of a brother, means that we have come to replace him, to take his place and to receive all the plans and projects that the family had already planned for the brother.
carrying a dead
Without realizing it, without even being responsible, “WE ARE ALREADY CARRYING A DEAD MAN”.
- But… what if the dead brother was a boy and I was born a girl?
- But… what if the dead brother was José Manuel and they call me José Armando?
- But… what if the dead brother was sick or with some disability and I am born well or vice versa?
Complication and confusion right?
That’s right… and it usually happens that the baby that is born brings a “double personality”, some to a greater degree than others, because they are born with the mission of being themselves and of being “the dead one”. And it is not even necessary that they give us the same name, that our name begins with the same letter is enough.
The dead man can be called Socorro and they call me Susana. For the unconscious, an “S” is the same as another “S”.
Or the parents get very creative, under the pretext of “not repeating the name” and begin to look for “distortions” of the name of the deceased. And then, if the dead man’s name was Luis, they call me Luigina, or if the dead man’s name was Ariel, they call me Uriel… The damage is the same…
drastic mood swings
So, people go through life, with drastic mood swings, they can be considered bipolar or ADHD patients, depressed or anxious and it only happens that they bring a dead person with them.
They think one thing and the minute they think another. They are happy and the next minute they cry. They are brave and at the moment they are fearful, because they carry double emotions and a double way of reacting.
make a duel
The best thing in these cases is to grieve. Free ourselves from our name (in case it is the same, modified, mixed, etc.), free our parents for having placed our brother’s expectations on us.
Express our pain for carrying the burden of the dead brother on us and letting go. Freeing ourselves from having two personalities, freeing ourselves from having carried a dead person for so long, freeing the family by seeing in us the replacement of our brother, etc.
it is enough and do it whenever you want
And now, if I was born after a dead brother and I am a child under 14 years of age, the letter must be written by my mother.
If I am older than 14 years, it is my obligation to release myself. And I can write the letter. And if no one has told me about that dead brother, it is time for them to tell me.
Once the mourning letter is burned (because it has to be burned), a 30 to 34-day quarantine comes, where it is possible that my moods are on the surface.
Patience is needed and time is needed for our unconscious to be released and settle the idea that we have released our dead brother and that the only personality that we now carry is ours.
Elizabeth Romero Sanchez and Edgar Romero Franco