Eliana
09/17/2023
My mother’s way of being and her illness (which she has had since she was 35 years old) never allowed a healthy mother-daughter relationship with me, she was always controlling, rigid, neurotic and not very empathetic with my emotions, to the point that my brother committed suicide , perhaps because of the comments she made to her and the poor relationship she had with my parents, I feel like I can’t forgive her for it, and I accepted that there is no way to change what she does or says and everything that happened, but I It still hurts how our relationship is ending, I will never be able to have a healthy relationship with her, I feel that she influenced many of my decisions a lot, I don’t blame her, but it makes me very sad not to have that love that I see in other daughters with their mothers, I never I’ll have that.
Gina
03/05/2023
I have always felt a deep rejection from my mother towards me, when I was a child I thought she hated me, when I was little she hit me a lot and humiliated me, to this day she makes very cruel comments to me and since she is a very narcissistic woman, I grew up with practically no self-esteem. Now I am in therapy and although I feel better, it is very painful for me to live with her
Nancy
12/23/2022
I’m 33 years old and maybe I’m exaggerating, but I haven’t gotten along with my mother since I can remember. She has her way of thinking. If we get angry, she blames me for everything she’s done for me, or when we’re okay. He gives me an example of the mistakes I made in the past or the bad things he did to me, or if sometimes I give him a gift or I want to give him money, he returns it to me with a more expensive gift or he gives me the money back, mmm we always have those types of differences, she is more thrifty than me, so to speak, and sometimes she exaggerates on things that I feel are a necessity, or if I don’t participate in an event like Christmas, New Year, or a birthday to go with my husband’s family. He turns my brothers against me. He is that type of person who likes to do things his way and the best thing is to give him his way. I’ve already dealt with that enough.
Beatriz
12/18/2022
My separated son comes home, he tells me that life does not respect my house, we argue with very strong words. I have a lot of pain in my soul.
Day
06/04/2022
Good afternoon, I am 28, and for personal reasons I had to come home to seek emotional peace and return to work with all the disposition, but I find myself with the news that my mother and younger sister criticize me for everything, my mother has deposited everything trust in her, and I feel excluded from everything that has to do with the farm where we are, that is very uncomfortable for me and apart from that I am also with my 3-year-old son and my sister lives screaming about everything.
Isabella
04/05/2022
I love my mother but she was never that close to me, she always kept me away, I always sought refuge in my aunts, grandmothers, etc. Looking for the affection that she never gave me, yes she hugs me a couple of times but I feel very uncomfortable and I have always felt bad to the point of crying because my cousins have a good relationship. I envy her so much for the relationship she has with her mother. her. I love my mother but she has hurt me and I have to learn to control myself. I always pretended to have the perfect relationship with my mom when in reality she is not like that. I have gotten to the point of asking her for affection and she just doesn’t do it.
Wemnyd Rodriguez
01/13/2022
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Ar
12/31/2021
I love my mom but we have absolutely nothing in common, besides she is conservative and I am a progressive type, even if she says that I am strange and superimposes her ideals on mine I am not interested, I want us to get along but we have nothing What to talk about to break the ice and when we have, she doesn’t show even a hint of interest in what I say, besides she doesn’t hide her feeling of rejection towards me and I find it quite unpleasant that as mother and daughter we can’t communicate Anyway, I’m going to try to get along and if there are no changes until I move there will be nothing to do, at least that’s my way of seeing things.
Alfredo sad
10/10/2021
Hello, I’m Alfredo, I often get angry with my mother, she usually forces me to do and eat things that I don’t want, I also believe that everything I hold inside I release on her. I am currently going to a psychologist but even so my mother drives me crazy, I feel crazy and I think that I am not very empathetic because of it, I normally tell myself that I don’t deserve her or that she had to abort me, leave me abandoned there. It would have been the best thing for her and I cannot change the only way is for her to stay away from me and not harm her because many times I made her cry because of my mistreatment and negative comments towards myself. Thank you
Brenna
10/08/2021
I have always felt like I am not part of my family because my mother does not support or understand my decisions. She values my cousins more than me and I say this because what she does with them she didn’t do when I was their age. My mother checks my cell phone every day and I have no privacy in my room, since my cousins come in whenever they want since I don’t have a lock and when I want to play with my cousins they make me feel like I’m worthless. I have a psychologist who I treat as if she were my real mom and mom didn’t like her so she got me another one who tells my mom everything which I don’t like at all. I don’t know what to do when I get home from school because I feel like I’m in prison. The only support that I feel helps me is that of my cousin, the mother of my two cousins, who sometimes also makes comments to me towards me. Every time I make a mistake in a decision I feel that no one cares that I have fallen or that something happens to me, I only think that my cousins are more important to my mother, who today was talking to my cousin for the first time in a good way. and I ordered him to stop playing and talk to him because we were fighting before. I feel that I am not worth it and that I am of no use that is why I am looking forward to my 18th birthday and I hope that you will give me advice that will help me cope with the matter.
Haydee Martinez
09/16/2021
Honestly, I try to put myself in my mom’s shoes, and understand that maybe it hasn’t been easy for her to deal with me, but damn it’s very sad and difficult for me to see what I can’t have even with my mom, much less with my dad. A good relationship, believe me, it’s a horrible feeling… sometimes I can’t believe how she, as a woman, instead of supporting me, does the opposite. No way to continue, ahead, what else do we have left?🤷🏻♀️
jennifer castle
06/15/2021
My question is that I fight a lot with my mother about everything I do.
OwO
05/31/2021
I don’t get along with my mom, she gets angry when I wear tops, she doesn’t like anything I do, and well if sometimes I say why I was born, I would only like my mom. She will change and support me in what I like.😢
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the pearl villa
06/15/2021
we are two
law
09/10/2021
My mother always decides for me. She makes me think that everything I do is wrong, when I look at other girls my age and compare who could be a better daughter than me, I’m sure mom would like me to be like them. I know this because she praises some of their qualities.
Brenna
10/08/2021
It happens to me all the time but I make her feel very bad sometimes by saying that I hate her but my mom doesn’t care because her spoiled children are my cousins who always lie about me and always hurt me. My mom doesn’t care what I wear but she checks my phone all the time and I have no privacy. When I go to school I feel like I’m in an amusement park because I’m with my friends, but when I get home I feel like I’m in hell. I lock myself in my unlocked room to listen to music and relax, but when I go down to eat my cousins start bothering me and my mother tells me to run, which means I’ve never had dinner with my family because I always sit on the couch. for my cousins and because when I go out to play they come out to bother me and I have to stop what I do because my mother says so and as she says I have to do what she says because she is my mother and I should not have privacy because I am a minor, but I’m almost there and when I’m of age I swear that I’m going to create a life for myself outside of this horrible prison in which I live.
Jean
05/26/2021
I fight all the time because he wants to control me, who I go out with, what is right, what is wrong, even what I have to say. It frustrates me because I am 25 years old and it makes me feel that because of her and the upbringing she gave me since I was little I have become someone who is fragile, insecure and afraid to do things. When she complains, she becomes victimized and cries, and that makes me angrier.
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Gisel
06/10/2022
Everything I’m reading totally happens to me… I’m 29 and it’s really embarrassing or that’s how I see it and I don’t know what to do.
Barbara 😀
05/14/2021
For me sometimes I think why was I born? Yes, every day I argue with my mother, sometimes she insults me, I thought that was normal, until one time I compared myself to my friend, sometimes when I explained something to them that I was not the one who did this, that I didn’t know that she was there, and today, too. day my mom yelled at me, do you know why? that my mom yelled at me just because “WHY DID YOU HELP YOUR BROTHER” I wanted to help him but there was no creeper paper so what do I do and he scolds me once I dreamed that my mom said I wish you had never been born you ruined my life my mom always told me say this, if it’s not you, it’s your brother, I don’t have patience for both of them, that’s what he told me once, even if it doesn’t hurt me, sometimes it lowers my self-esteem… Thank you for reading this 🙂
A suffering girl
04/29/2021
How I would like to be born again and that I will have a MOTHER in every sense of the word. Not that the one that touched me is the worst and the worst of all calls itself a Christian. The worst thing is that according to her she loves God and does not love her daughter.
Guadeloupe
03/30/2021
Good day. The relationship with my mother is not the best and that has been true since I was a child. I am the younger sister and my mother has always wanted me to be like my older sister. Since elementary school she wanted me to stay on the same shift as my sister in high school. He also wanted me to stay where my sister went, in high school he also demanded that I had to stay where my sister studied and when he saw that I had not been assigned to that school he got angry and even more so why did I tell him that I was not going to wait for another year to see if I could stay where my sister had studied, when I finished my high school studies she told me that I had to be an engineer, just like my sister, and when I told her that I wanted to study a degree in law she got upset and told me that I apologized for why she was no longer going to be able to help me financially to enter university, since only my sister enjoyed that privilege.
The truth is that there is not a day that we do not argue, she has her ideas and I have mine and my mother does not want to accept that, once we fought very hard to the point where I complained about everything that she has always wanted me to go. ..