Andrea
01/26/2023
I have felt very inferior and worried in the work aspect, since despite starting a new job 3 months ago my colleagues find it easier and are even faster when it comes to doing some tasks, and even though I do what is necessary To improve day by day I feel that I cannot achieve it, and that perhaps it cannot be better for now.
David
09/22/2022
For a couple of months I have felt low self-esteem and my situation somehow led me to be envious and jealous of a colleague of mine because sometimes I see him talking to several people. And especially with a person I like physically. The truth is that at one point I felt that I tired that “Platonic person” because of the visual and tonal language. So I tried to stop talking to him and I want to stop feeling that constant frustration that has tormented me lately. And now I have seen that it could be applied in general to my group, etc.
Karla
08/25/2022
In these years I have felt inferior to my classmates, I try to improve my grades and also in the groups I enter I give my best but they always praise some classmates for the impression they gave to the teachers, they are perfect, they know how to speak very well, I The truth is, not so much, I can’t express myself well when speaking, but I always give my 100% but I see that they don’t even take it into account…
Eve
12/29/2021
Thank you for helping us identify possible roots of our pain.
Dew
06/16/2021
Hello, good afternoon, although I have received compliments about my physique from several people, I still feel insufficient, I see a pretty girl passing by and I get very upset, it even makes me envious, I know that this is not worth it and beauty fades with time, but this world and especially men seem to be the only thing that thinks it’s good for a girl to be beautiful, they praise her and if it’s the opposite they criticize her or make fun of her, a long time ago I also received comparisons that brought me down self-esteem, and I would also like to be able to realize that I am also beautiful and have a lot to give.
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Jeremy Bentham
08/06/2021 Good morning Miss Rocío, it’s a pleasure to greet you.
I have read the comment you posted a few months ago and I would like to respond from my point of view, with all due respect and eagerness to help.
You almost immediately refer to your PHYSICAL physique in your comment, then you say that you feel INSUFFICIENT even though many people have praised you. That speaks volumes, and quite possibly means that physical appearance matters MORE to YOU than it really should (Health).
Something that also catches my attention is that you say “I know that’s not worth it and beauty fades with time” and you are very right, with time everything ends, and as the years go by it takes on more importance. the character, feelings, and attitudes of the person we are with. So? You yourself have the answer to stop feeling those feelings, you just have to start that thought and make it a HABIT.
It is also very important to mention that other people’s actions or comments are really beyond our control. That is why it is important to be AWARE of how harmful it is for us to give importance to all these comments.
greetings.
Sunrise
04/14/2021
Hello, well, since I was little I have felt somewhat inferior to my older sister, she had practically “everything” let’s put it that way, as I grew up I also experienced teasing and bullying…years later I was diagnosed with a disease in the spinal column and The teasing returned…one day I ran away from school because of that…after that day the teasing stopped…thanks to an intervention by the teachers. My illness has improved and it is not as noticeable anymore, but I feel inferior physically, I usually feel jealous that my friends receive praise but I don’t, I usually feel envious that my friends go out with handsome guys and I have never dated anyone, I have certainly found good things about myself, I am a person communicative and I like languages and music…but always at some point that feeling that I am nobody returns
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Leticia
04/29/2021
Hello Alba, I’m Leticia and I’m in a very similar situation to yours. If you want to we can talk. Greetings!!!
Danielys Moronta
03/11/2021
The truth is that I currently went through a similar situation, because I practice two training courses… One of them is Yoga and when I go to the classes I feel super good, super calm, at peace I could say that I feel happy and the other that I practice dancing, I love dancing but when I go to dance class I feel bad because I feel like I do it very badly, I compare myself a lot because of my economic class, which is different from the rest of those who are in dance, and we don’t know how to avoid that … Because I love dancing but when I go to class I feel like I’m not good for it, I feel like I focus a lot on economics and I don’t know how to improve that, I don’t know how to change that because I don’t want to feel like that.
Natti
03/07/2021
I identify so much, I feel so stagnant, I used to have a lot of brilliance and confidence, but all that is lost I feel like I’m nobody, that I don’t have any talent, that I don’t do anything well, physically I feel so imperfect, everything I ever wanted Maybe it seems so unattainable, it is so difficult for me to have spirits every day, I would just like to sleep, I don’t even have friends, I lost everything that I once was and no matter how much I try to progress I still don’t move forward.
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Leticia
04/29/2021
Hello, my name is Leticia and I feel totally identified with your comment. I also feel inferior and I don’t have friends either. If you want to talk here you have one.
Ocr
11/17/2021
I’m in the same situation, I try and try to raise my spirits but I’m still the same, sometimes I’m amazed at what I was yesterday and what I am now. I don’t know where the light it projected is, but this is part of our personal challenges, I have to assume, I hope we have that essence again. I send you a hug.
lau
08/08/2023
I feel the same way, I don’t know why, but I feel that way.
Andrea R
07/02/2020 Well, it happens to me that I feel very inferior to everyone, even my younger sister, both in appearance and personality. This quarantine has made me very bad, since a few months ago my ex-partner broke up with me where she made me understand that the time we had was a lie. Every day I feel terrible, I don’t feel pretty enough, smart enough, nothing. Sometimes I talk to my friends about how I feel and sometimes they hint to me that I complain a lot about my life, and I don’t do anything to change it, maybe they are right. I no longer want to tell anyone how I feel because in the end they will tell me that I am tired and then I will feel worse.
I don’t feel good emotionally, I feel like I’m not good at anything.
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christian
07/18/2020
Exactly the same thing happens to me, only instead of a breakup my problem was due to missing a subject
Ivanna
06/05/2020
My boyfriend sometimes gives me signs that there are things more important than me, I understand that he has jobs, friends and so on. But in general I have a lot of emotional problems. I express it or tell him and he gets angry. I love him very much. What I can do?
Andrea
03/05/2020
Hello, since I can remember I have had this type of problems, I have searched in the depths of my mind without finding an exact result to what makes me that way, I vaguely remember school and how bad many “friends” did to me Feeling, I was a little stupid back then, I let them humiliate me in order to belong to their group, a stupidity that I remember with great pain. Lately, I have had a streak that has lasted almost two months, I feel terrible, my appearance is not very relevant in this case, luckily, but my “talents”, I have friends who draw great, edit and write too, and I can’t help but compare myself to them, I express what I feel in the group we have, but I have realized that what I am looking for is acceptance, their attention, that they say things like “you are great at what you do”, and although There were times when they complimented me for what I do… I think it’s not enough compared to the others who receive more attention than me…
Clelia
03/05/2020
Hello, I have always felt inferior to everyone, whenever I have had a partner, they have made me feel that I am of no use, but deep down I know that is not true, I fight to get out of this, what I feel is that I feel free, I signed up for a group to sell something and I can’t do it I want to participate talk in a group and I can’t I feel insecure no matter how much I prepare I read I forget all that makes me feel listless I don’t learn no matter how hard I try the truth is that I want to get out of this I know I need help but no I know if one day I will achieve it, thank you
Nicholas
04/09/2020
hello good morning.
The truth is that in most of my life I have felt inferior to the rest of my peers, at school they burdened me too much, and that caused me to become very shy during my adolescence, especially with women, I used to believe. that none of my classmates could ever notice me, this began to change over time since as I grew up I formed my own group of friends, the shame disappeared and I could start a conversation and generally if I wanted I could establish a superior bond with that person, I basically managed to empathize with any person, man or woman, at that time I was around 18 or 19 years old, and I was about to start studying THE CAREER with which I had imagined that my future would be since I was 13 years old and which was the job my father dedicated himself to, it made me feel very proud inside to be the same as him, that to a large extent was one of the things that radiated the most light in me. But unfortunately I had a disease called narcolepsy and although it was not an impediment for me to study, because I was not going to let that disease condemn me, my parents and I don’t blame them if they did, and they changed completely towards me, being treated with extreme care as if it were a child. and comments like that I wasn’t going to be able to do it, that it wasn’t for me, etc. (the job was as a ship captain so that it is understood). Well, let’s say that I myself entered the game of being comfortable thanks to the extreme care that my parents gave me due to narcolepsy, taking a nap, that if I wanted food, it was better not to go out because it’s late, and the obvious thing is that I stopped of being that active boy that he was.
In the end I didn’t get into the career I dreamed of, I enrolled in a PRIVATE college (understand the expenses that it involved for my parents and that I never really liked) and that I dug deeper into a symptom of unhappiness such that I had to leave it, today x Today I am 25 years old, this quarter I am going to become a public auctioneer, although it is not something that I dislike, I don’t know, it is what there is and what may help me to alleviate my parents’ expenses towards me.
On the other hand, in my social life, I’ve become introverted again, I…