Miriam
09/06/2021
Hello, I have been in a relationship for 23 years with my partner, in 2020 we turned 22, unfortunately the pandemic hit and seeing his capabilities I have always encouraged him to be independent because he is an expert in computer issues, it turns out that I recommended him to one of my clients and started doing work for them, from then on my life changed, she stopped giving me attention like before, she didn’t hug me, she didn’t answer my messages, she rejected my kisses, she didn’t listen to me, she didn’t want to make love, she was more flirtatious. , fatal. I destroyed myself thinking about why? I spoke to him at the end of the year and told him everything that made me feel the distance from him. Was there anyone? What happened?
She told me that there was no one, that she simply went to work and that she didn’t know what happened, that she didn’t want to lose me and that she loved me, for January 2021, I still had that uncertainty and he told me that maybe I just felt safe. and she thought that dedicating herself to work was not bad, because she knew that I would always be there for her.
The truth is that her change of attitude hurt me a lot, I love her too much, but my brain keeps thinking that maybe there was someone else or maybe she just stopped liking me, something inside me tells me that she stopped loving me, I lost her in 2021 .
Ah changed to today’s time, she is more attentive, as if she had returned, but something inside me tells me things that I want to eliminate, like maybe she is making an effort because time weighs down, or I don’t know.
What I do?
Obviously I started by loving myself more, I’m exercising and trying to focus on what’s mine.
Because without a doubt she is on my mind and there are a thousand questions about whether her love will be true.
Thanks for your contributions.
moon
08/30/2021
I already gave the letter to the boy I like and I don’t know what to do now
Sun
06/30/2021
I’m in love, we left it because I was the one who told him to see us, when he spoke to me through messages he was very cold, although he greeted me with a good morning (almost) always.
He told me that he is not in love with me and that he was fine with us not being together. But I miss him a lot, and I’m hopeful that he might fall in love with me. What I do?
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Miriam
09/06/2021
Hello friend, if he has already told you that he is not in love with you, it is best to move on.
I understand you but if one day it happens it will be great, in the meantime let it go and take good care of yourself, enjoy yourself, exercise (That helps a lot to control thoughts), focus on a personal goal and fight until you achieve it.
Don’t lose yourself for someone else, who clearly told you that they don’t love you.
A hug
Andrea
05/20/2021
How do I know that I’m in love with someone just by chatting?
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short
05/25/2021 Well, you will always want to be sending him messages, your emojis will say it all, the butterflies IN THE STOMACH when answering his messages and of course, be reading and reading the messages that he sent you…
I HOPE IT HELP YOU GREETINGS…..
Carla
11/11/2021
If you can 🙁 it’s because you idealize that person to the point that you end up falling in love, but with the idea you have in your head not with him precisely and it’s very sad because you have a bad time 🙁
Andrea
03/23/2021
We met recently, at first it was evident the interest he had in me, for a while now he stopped showing it, I asked him what he wanted with me and he only told me that until now he was getting to know me, and that getting to know me has been good. Likewise, one of his friends told me that he didn’t want anything serious, I don’t know what to do… whether to walk away or continue…
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Pao
04/23/2021 Hello Andrea,
I think the healthiest thing is to walk away… unless it doesn’t affect you that he doesn’t want to have anything serious.
It’s difficult because it’s happened to me too, but I think that many times we need to feed our self-love more than feeding our ego.
=)
Franciscl
10/20/2020
I’m going to try it and see how it goes. I hope to get lucky.
Galilee
06/28/2020
I would like to know more details about this whole topic, I am not sure.
kawaii uwu
06/27/2020
Well, I like a boy. I treated him badly and left him aside so that he wouldn’t realize what I felt, and then he stopped talking to me, and it seemed strange that well it was good that I treated him in a common way and also why I insulted him but in way of playing and I don’t know if it has caused any damage. And I also have another doubt, is my attitude normal or is it not common to treat people like that when you like them?
Elizabeth
10/12/2019
I still can’t forget about him, who can help me?
clear
09/09/2019
I had a relationship with a boy who at first was very nice and attentive but nothing changed and he became distant and indifferent. I asked him if something was wrong and he just said nothing, everything is fine, but now our conversations are by message with a simple good morning. I need to be strong and withdraw from someone like that but it hurts me, I fell in love.
Sarah
01/17/2021
Yes, the boy I liked was smart, cute and nice. When I found out that he also liked me, I was happy, but a month later he stopped talking to me, he embarrassed me and I’m trying to forget but being in quarantine I can’t know if I still like him or not… but what I do know is that it’s going to cost me again that I like someone more than Ricardo…
Angela
07/02/2019
He’s barely spoken to me for a few days and seems distant, but then in person everything goes well.
He told me he doesn’t want a relationship now.
miriam
06/16/2019
I’m having a very bad time, he has a girlfriend and he was talking to me….
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Yes Yes
12/16/2019
God I’m in the same situation, plus he hid his relationship from me at first because according to him it was already going to end, everyone tells me that he is toxic and that I should move on from him but I don’t know what to do
po
05/05/2021
It is best that you forget about him, before he leaves you aside when his girlfriend finds out.
nicol
06/03/2019
What do I do to make him come back to me?
talk
Maude
05/11/2019
It happened to me. He liked me, he made me feel on cloud nine…. Despite my feelings, out of fear, I rejected him again and again. Now he’s not interested in me anymore and he’s with someone else and my heart is shattered. I wish I could go back
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Donna
06/29/2021
I feel devastated… I hate feeling this way… But I don’t know how… The guilt is killing me
Jesus
10/23/2018
I met a girl but I’m scared!! I am very open in my work but when I see her she blocked me!!!