Tips to OVERCOME the sudden DEATH of a FATHER

Lily

08/16/2023

My dad, my first love, my hero, my little boss, the great man, the best dad left me on February 8, 2020, we didn’t know that covid existed here in Mexico and on the morning of February 1st I couldn’t breathe According to him, due to a flu, a doctor came to see him at home at 12 noon and asked us to nebulize him at home, at 6pm I took him to the hospital, he walked out of the house, only struggling to breathe and went into respiratory arrest in the van, they intubated him and he spent 7 days in the hospital, it’s been 3 years and I still haven’t gotten over the loss, it’s difficult for me because we work together and I’m alone here without him 🙁

Charlie

06/07/2022

My father, a young, hard-working, responsible man, full of dreams and hopes, wanting to enjoy life together with his family, died on July 26, he died from respiratory complications caused by Covid-19, it was 18 days. hospitalized with an unfavorable diagnosis, we never lost hope but even so, I, his eldest son, received the news of his death, completely breaking my soul, so much so that I fell to my knees because I felt like something inside me broke, nothing after That moment felt the same. My life changed completely and the responsibility of the family fell squarely on my shoulders. With this I will be able to, I am sure, but it is difficult to be without my Hero, that man whom I always wanted to make proud, he is no longer with me, with us… Life lost a lot of color after his departure…
A big hug to those of us who went through this, we will be able to, this is how it will be… This is how it should be.

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Marianela Torres

07/12/2022

I have the same feeling, Covid took my father, without the possibility of seeing him and saying goodbye, he died and took something of me with him, a year without him and I still haven’t recovered, blessings!

Stephanie

10/18/2022

Exactly the same thing happens to me, my dad passed away from the same thing, it’s been 2 years but he didn’t get over it, every day I miss him a lot more, I have a lot of problems, I don’t know who to talk to, since he was my only friend and advisor I feel that now that everything is gone What happens to me, nothing will ever be the same again 😭😭😭

Carla

11/02/2022

Hello, I am from Venezuela, my father died from terminal cancer, he was also young and had so many dreams ahead of him, his grandchildren were barely enjoying them. God gives us the strength, all of this is very difficult and hard.

rosary beads

05/04/2022

My dad passed away on February 15, 2021, in my mind it is that he went on a trip, and the thought of that comforts me, but I return to reality and I break, it lasted a while that we distanced ourselves due to religion, and although they were I didn’t look at him for years, I knew he was alive and well, after that he looked for me and we talked again but the pleasure lasted very little because he was sick, this virus took him away from me, I couldn’t even say goodbye to him, I didn’t tell him that I loved him, and my soul hurts when I return to reality and I know that he will not return from that trip, because the reality is that the disease was stronger than him,

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Leticia

03/25/2022

My husband died February 17 at 4 in the morning they called me twice. His heart was already slow. He died of covid. Suddenly everyone thought that Iva would have a reputation since they intubated him on January 24 before they intubated him, he was getting better that even soup would take him… we thought that intubation would help him since he lacked oxygen 😢his organs were already failing. deteriorating He died 2/17/22 and a day later my son’s birthday was 2/18/22. He turned 18 and it affected him a lot. He doesn’t want to go to school. He doesn’t have the courage when he knows very well that we want his education like his dad always wanted. He talks to God… but how much he misses and how difficult

Albert

01/04/2022

My partner lost his mother a little over 20 days ago, he said that he was going home to be close to his family, which is now what his heart asked for, I tried to support him but nothing, he is absent, he doesn’t talk to me or anything If I don’t talk to her and her only response is that she isn’t even there for herself, that she spends the day avoiding thinking, doing errands, busy, etc., she is with her family all day, and if she does things with them, she goes out, plays games. board games, but to me, no matter how much I tell her that I notice her changed, and that she hurts me, she doesn’t care, she just wants to worry about her, she says that she is getting worse and worse, what do I do? I am in a situation without living… help I miss it…

Juana chest

12/31/2021

Hello, my daddy left this world almost 7 months ago. He was 68 years old and from one day to the next I was informed that my daddy has terminal cancer. We search in every way for a cure. But because of his diabetes, there was nothing he could do anymore. And the saddest thing is that they never told us how much time he had left to live. As children, we thought and had faith that he would recover and that he would be with us for a long time to come. It only lasted 2 months. And I still can’t accept that he is no longer here. I can’t assimilate anything because I want to go with my daddy. But I think about my 16-year-old daughter. I’m desperate. I need help. I am severely depressed. Help me please. Thank you..

Felipe Alberto Garcia Ormeño

09/28/2021

Hello, my name is Felipe, my dad Alberto passed away 3 days ago on September 25 between 4 and 5 in the morning, he had cancer and he was recovering but in the post-operative period he got worse out of nowhere and he died after having spoken For 3 hours with him, we were super cold, we didn’t show feelings, he wanted to talk to me, I stopped playing on the side, but I didn’t tell him that I loved him, I just told him that we would see each other, that he would recover, what marked me the most about the call was that he He said take care of your mom, something he told me before leaving my house, but he came back, we spent 5 years fighting, suffering, laughing, but I never forgave him for leaving and cheating on my mom and he left and I couldn’t say anything to him. I don’t have anything. idea that I thought about myself at this moment, I think the biggest pain was having treated him badly when he deserved the support of a son more than ever and it hurts a lot and I don’t know how to overcome this pain because of the sole fact that my words do not reach him I don’t hear anything from him back I can’t forgive myself I can’t forgive having been so bad these last few years where I had to have the best son in the world, don’t be idiots always fix things because the pain of him leaving without saying goodbye properly is very unpleasant and I don’t think the wound will ever close

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Isa

09/08/2021

Hello, I lost my father on August 30, 2021, he died of cardiac arrest, I never imagined that something bad would happen to my father, he was and is a good man, very loved and esteemed by family members, for friends, for everyone, when he died I was not present, I had gone out with my little son, his grandson whom he loved so much and wanted as his little son, what happened to my father I cannot accept, I cannot accept it to a believe, I feel his presence in my house that he is still with us, his family, 1 week and days have passed and I miss him a lot, I miss his voice, I miss his laugh, I miss seeing him, and walking together and talking about life, What happened to me day by day, every day is so difficult, for me to move forward, it is difficult for me to continue… my chest hurts, it hurts too much, I feel sorry… I have a job to which I dedicate myself with a lot of love, which It is a service to health, it is very difficult, to show patients that nothing is happening, but I always shed tears, I feel unprotected, because I couldn’t tell my dad many things, I couldn’t tell him how much I loved him, and thank him for having me. I love myself and my little son and my mother so much, God give us all the strength to overcome the loss of our parents, I know it will be difficult, but my father will be my guide and will always be in my mind and heart.

VICTORY

08/29/2021

My dad was everything to me. He died last Saturday, August 21, 2021 from covid pneumonia. Everything was sudden, I am in a feeling of unreality. I don’t understand life without him. I do not feel like doing anything. My father was a renowned journalist in Mexico, from Chiapas who was a war correspondent in Nicaragua, a correspondent in Rome for the death of John Paul I and the rise of John Paul II, among other events of utmost importance. He was recognized with a minute of silence in the Senate of the Republic a few days ago. My dad was a great man, but as a father, he gave me a lot of love for as long as I can remember. I don’t understand anything. I don’t like life anymore.

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sadith quispe saldaña

08/22/2021

I suffer a lot for my father. I feel like a part of me is gone. It’s been 1 year since he is no longer with me. Every day I remember him and I get very sad. I cry looking at the sky. I would like him to forgive me because I didn’t give him the care that I should. He deserved it, that is the biggest pain I have… I couldn’t even watch over it because of the pandemic we are going through. I feel like what I am experiencing is a nightmare and I only think that I am going to wake up and he will be by my side like when he I was saying that I had a nightmare and he told me don’t be afraid because this daddy is never going to leave you, that’s what he told me so I wouldn’t be afraid… it’s a helplessness that I have and I don’t know when it will be.

Lidia

08/12/2021

I lost my dad on July 20, 2021… I only remember the call from my mother crying and telling me that my dad was not answering, he was perfect, full of life… and being a loving man with his neighbors until the last day… We didn’t explain what happened but his heart failed in a sudden way, he was giving food to his dogs that he wanted so much… when my mother realized that he was already on the floor she did everything to revive him but nothing worked he already knew He had gone… I know he is in heaven now but no one expects this… arriving home after everything was fine. and now having to prepare a funeral… bring him his clothes so that the funeral home can prepare them, I can’t believe that everything happened so soon… but I know that God wanted it that way, he gave it to me and he took it from me… take heart everyone to seek the comfort that only God can give… God bless you.

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Graciela

03/10/2023

Not even a month ago my dad passed away and my soul hurts and my heart is gone, a part of me is gone and I don’t accept, I don’t settle, the call from my mom telling me come, it seems like your dad is keeping us engraved in my mind. What he left behind was a fulminant heart attack according to the doctors who treated him. He was 72 years old, young, handsome worker, the day before I was with him and I saw him so full of life and I can’t believe that he is second to me. With him all that desire to work and live went away. I didn’t think I would lose my dad that way. It hurts a lot, there is no consolation

Jefferson

07/26/2021

I lost my father on June 20, 2021 due to COVID-19, he was in the ICU for 21 days, it was 21 days of anguish, uncertainty and despair, I asked God a lot to save him but he didn’t listen to my prayers and He snatched it from me. It’s been a month since the loss of my father and I still have this pain in my chest, this pain in my soul and my heart, a pain that I do not wish on anyone. I don’t know how to continue and how to move forward, I feel like my life has completely collapsed.

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