Telling the truth even though it may hurt is better than disguised lies that make the other person feel stupid about themselves. Simply because it is easy to have the intuition that they are hiding something from you or deceiving you. On a daily basis, sincerity is a rising value that will help you foster quality social relationships. Furthermore, it is worth saying things quickly rather than accumulating and holding resentment inside, because in that case, one day you least expect it you will explode in front of the other with all your internal anger. Read on and find out why it’s good tell the truth even if it hurts and how to do it.
Dare to tell a person that something has hurt you or that you didn’t like their behavior. Do it for yourself, without expecting anything from the other, that is, do not focus on how the other may act or what they will think. If he values you, he will know how to show it to you and if not, you will soon realize that you should dedicate your time to other people who appreciate him more. There is something very important from an emotional point of view, and that is that you must feel free to change your opinion regarding the people around you regardless of how long you have known them (but especially if you have known them for a short time).
It is simply about observing their deeds, their actions and seeing how they make you feel indirectly. There are people who, out of a kind of inner desire, always make a positive reading of the behavior of others, looking for justifications and excuses that only feed an unhealthy hope of receiving the affection that one expects and in the way in which one expects to receive it.
In friendship you often see that what you give is not the same as what you receive. It also happens professionally. what to do in that case? The choice is yours.
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