The pain of love can be very great depending on a person’s degree of hope, their general situation, their life expectations and how events have transpired. Love sickness hurts a lot. The person feels small, without strength and without the desire to do many of the things that they used to love. How to cure lovesickness?
First of all, focus on yourself and allow yourself to be selfish at this stage of your life. You have to take care of yourself to be better and so will everything else. Otherwise, your discomfort can affect your work environment and friendships.
Find a way to download all that negative energy that heartbreak has left you. Find a way that is constructive for you, that is, never get carried away by the desire for revenge in a heartbreak because you will feel even worse. Cut all real ties with the other person so that at some point you can cut the emotional bond that binds you.
Don’t censor yourself for reminding him because it is a natural process, but set the goal of reminding him a little less every day. Thus, the evolution will be gradual. Don’t let yourself be betrayed by the negative thinking that arises from heartbreak.
In reality, everything happens for a reason in life and with the perspective of time, you will be able to discover what you have learned from this experience that will help you become an even better person. This pain will pass with time, with the joy of your own life and with your personal work. That is to say, no one forgets someone if he insists on continuing at the same point. So keep walking.
This article is merely informative, at Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.