Patricia
06/21/2023
Hello, good morning, I feel so disappointed in my partner, he lies all the time. When I met him, he told me so many things and it was all a lie, and yet I continued with him, hoping that he would change. It’s been 8 years since I’ve been with him, but his lies continue and now I don’t know what to do, what can I do, I need your help and I plan to leave him because of his lies.
Jonathan
02/26/2023
I know a person who in my opinion is a mythomaniac, every time we get together with friends that person tells false stories about his life, he invents things like that he is studying this or that university degree, for example, he told me that he is studying an analyst. systems, he told another that he studies law, and about facts and his life, he lies constantly, I came to the conclusion that he is a pathological liar
Moon
10/03/2022
Hello, I am in a difficult appointment, my husband lies in a cold and calculating way about every lie and story that he tells to bother or make people feel bad. I no longer know what to do.
Alex
06/30/2022
My mother lies with an ease worthy of a trophy, even when I asked her what she had eaten she told me lies. She scammed me hundreds of thousands. I don’t know what it’s like to have a mother because of her habit of lying and being false. Happy day to everyone
Jessica Garzon
02/16/2022
My husband has become a liar. He has everything that the article details
Susana Gonzalez
09/27/2021
Good afternoon. Last night I dreamed that she was pregnant; I am 61 years old. And for a moment I felt like the baby wasn’t moving; Then they told me to have an urgent delivery. Knowing that I was only able to give birth by cesarean section twice and I was afraid of having pain. Then I stroked my belly and moved it and moved it (thinking she was dying) it worried me a lot. I would like to know what the most accurate meaning is. Thank you so much.
Elizabeth Duarte Padilla
06/28/2021
Very good, I have a son with this problem and I am looking for a way to help him, thank you
lissette ibañez
03/22/2021
I have a loved one who is like this, he has problems with alcoholism, diabetes and hoarding. I took him out of the house that was unhealthy and took him to a new house with new everything. The result is that he has me dirty again and when he calls me he sounds like he is still drinking, it makes me angry since I have processed the vast majority of his medical treatments, his family has not supported me at all, in fact they hate me, and they try to discredit me since when he talks to them he says that everything is fine and that he is close to me to help me. When I hear this person with an alcoholic voice and I confront him, he tells me no, he makes me angry when lying people lie to those who love them and have helped them. Sometimes I think about throwing in the sponge when it comes to taking care of their health, since I also have to take care of my children.
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dolly
04/05/2021
Love does not save, that person wants to self-destruct, step aside and stop helping him, because he does not want to be helped, focus on yourself, you are not a savior, remember every human being, he has a path to travel, with many teachings, so that his soul learns, do not intervene, if you suffer seeing him self-destruct, then take distance. But let him, follow his path.
Sofia Alice
03/13/2021
Very interesting !! I have a friend since I was 5 years old, 60 years ago. Already at that age he felt the need to tell stories of greatness about his family, who were humble.
Now as an adult he continues to lie about anything, last week he said he had Covid, behind that lie came the story of how he got infected and how he was treated at his great social work. Immediately afterwards I started calling him to find out how he was doing every day… we have a relationship like “brothers”, trust and a common front when something from outside bothers us. I would like to help him but I also have my problems with chronic depression and I am on medication.
I watch their lies and sometimes I destroy them, but it also happens that at times I feel attacked and quite insecure. I think the time has come for me to no longer fight for this friendship because it is becoming dangerous. It kills me that I feel so sorry for so many years wasted, we could have had such a good time!!! We are both divorced and have grown children, we could travel, share weekends with a barbecue and play cards… we would be happy in these difficult years of adulthood and all that is lost because his lies are already beginning to spread. scare me, because he responds by attacking me when I show him his lie. For example, she tells me that I already have Alzheimer’s. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ADVICE?
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dolly
04/05/2021
My advice is that you cut off all relations with him and do not feel guilty or regret the years that, according to your mind, you are throwing away, dear Lady, things do not happen in vain and your friendship with him in fact If you have obtained teachings, since everyone without exception has something to learn and teach from the other. That is why do not say that they will go to waste. Stay away from toxic people, since they affect your peace of mind, you have I came into this world to be happy, your obligation is to yourself, just focus on yourself, thank him for all these years, give him a big hug and tell him that you can’t hang out with him anymore because his company is toxic, that you wish him good luck and goodbye. That is a cosmic law, stay away from toxic substances, that is what I always do and live in peace.
Summer
04/07/2021
Hello!! The best thing would be to tell him to stop doing it or simply help him come to his senses. I had a friend like that. When I told him that I didn’t want to continue the friendship, he faked his death. When I found out that it was a lie, I couldn’t contain myself from laughing even though I was also very worried. In the end I made him see reason by telling him that a mature adult would not lie to solve a problem, much less for any other reason. It took him a little while to understand and stop lying, I helped him and tried everything I could to stop him from lying. Today he moved to another city, and of course he stopped lying. Hope this can help you!!!
Ramirez
03/11/2021
I was hardly going to forgive. I ex, when another time you see her in lies again and I don’t know, someone says that he loves me and lies to me that he is sick, I will only accept it if he goes to a psychologist to take that away, but without me because I am not going to allow him to Follow my trend and if it changes, maybe we’ll try it until I see that he’s no longer a liar.
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Sofia Alicia
04/10/2021
Hello. I highly doubt it will be removed forever. You can make the effort for a while but it comes back worse. People hardly change.
Martha
12/27/2020
How can a person who feels nothing for anyone or a cold person change?
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dolly
04/05/2021
You can only do it, becoming aware that you have a problem, which is a lack of empathy. Generally, they are people who have suffered a lot because of it, they have formed a shell (armor) to no longer let others enter their heart, so as not to suffer again. They only change if they do psychological therapy and learn to meditate, by meditating you awaken your consciousness, you enter your internal world.
Sofia Alicia
04/10/2021
If I adopt that way of being…it can’t change.
Martha fuquene Ballesteros
09/05/2021
Like ago to be cold with every woman
FlikaRoma
08/14/2020
High degree of stress, low self-esteem generates a certain degree of insecurity, which develops lying pathology, very interesting
Kary
08/13/2020
My mother unfortunately deceives everyone around her, because of her way of speaking, because of her pious way of showing herself to those who don’t know her, and because she herself considers herself a very believing and religious woman. I feel so sorry, because her lies have separated us from her as a family, her deceit, so many sad experiences with her. She has made me sick, I am sick with sadness and I know I need help, because I can’t handle this…
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Lu Aza
12/02/2020
My mother is also very religious but she lies more than me. Today I discovered a great friend lying to me, and I think he has been doing it for years.
dolly
04/05/2021
You only have two options, accept your mother as she is or get away from her. Remember she will never change, but you can do it, you can work, so that her behavior no longer hurts you, no longer affects you, become In the river, when they throw a torch, it goes out, you laugh, don’t fall into the game, you can react or act, letting it affect you is reacting, deciding that it won’t cause you harm is acting. Good luck.
Sofia Alicia
04/10/2021
This reminds me of my parents. Both. They also made me sick because of their lies and mistreatment. Even at 66 years old, I struggle not to take antidepressants.
What I recommend is that you distance yourself from them slowly physically and mentally and replace them with friendships. You’ll see how quickly life goes by and when they are not there it will be such a liberation that you will not know how to handle yourself and at that time it is better to have friends. Good luck and get to work, build your future.
Maremi
07/28/2020
I thought it was very good information, above all I empathized with a lot of it. I felt like an autobiography. I realized I require professional help, I need change and I didn’t know where to start. I have a lot of knowledge about my problem, however I didn’t know where to start.
Thank you so much!!!
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Sofia Alicia
04/10/2021
You’ve already started to improve. Recognizing is the first step to healing. Good luck with that.
Adrian
07/22/2020
The other thing that is also missing is when there is no trust in the couple, they lie or they also use their means of communication with nails, and when I ask a question they answer wrong or use it for personal use… I think I understand that in a couple there should be no There is privacy, what I know should be done in these cases.
Isabel González Velasco
07/10/2020
Good afternoon. Comprehensive and interesting article, thank you. When a person lied, to the point of causing tragedies, including the death of his mother; Following his life as if nothing had happened. So how to forgive or understand her even if she is family?
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Sofia Alicia
04/10/2021
Thanks for answering. You will never fully know about her guilt. It is better to distance yourself. Little by little.
Isabel González Velasco
04/15/2021
Thanks, I’ll do it that way. I am 62 years old and for more than 40 years I have never understood all the damage that the person I am referring to does not show at 81 years of age how her behavior mutilated so many self-esteems of Beings who loved her and changed the destiny in turn, of the same. And, she lives so peacefully! With new people who believe everything. Thank you very much for answering my question.
German Morris
05/23/2020
I disagree about the lack of empathy. In the article they state that those who lack empathy tend to be more liars… the truth is I think that empathy is needed to lie: putting myself in the other person’s shoes to know how I am going to deceive them. Lying is an act that…