My partner DOES NOT LOVE ME but is still with me: why and what to do

Dennis

09/22/2023

Thank you very much, boss 😈

Juan Antonio Mendoza Olea

07/22/2023

Hello, good evening, I would like to discuss my case and can I please contact a specialist who can help me?
I am a 47-year-old man, I am married to my wife, I have been married for 24 years and I have noticed about 3 years ago a very strange attitude from my wife, a lot of distance and very little interest in me. The truth is, I love her very much and I don’t feel prepared. for a separation

Maggie

07/12/2023

Good evening, currently with my partner I feel that it is no longer the same, we both stopped doing many things that we did before, I have spoken with him if he really wants to continue with me or if he needs time, I have even presented him with the option of being free, but he says that he doesn’t need it, that he is fine, the detail is that he no longer expresses the same thing to me, his attitudes make me feel that he no longer cares in the slightest, the intimacy is no longer the same, even if he I say that I feel like he doesn’t want me anymore, he tells me that it’s only because he’s had a lot of problems, but even so, before that he had and he looked for me more, he showed me more that if he wanted to be by my side and spend time together, sometimes I feel like He sees me more as a friend than as a couple, but then there are moments when he makes me feel that he feels good about me, that he loves me, but I still don’t know what to do.

eli

03/26/2023

I’m going through a bad time, my boyfriend told me that he doesn’t love me but he wants to try to feel the same again, I don’t know what to do, I feel really bad, since I don’t have any friends. Thank you 😔

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Ed

05/05/2023

Ignoring things is much more painful than knowing them because it does not allow you to prepare or give you the option to change and improve. That said, it’s up to you to know how much the relationship is worth to you. And if the answer is that it is worth fighting for, it just takes a lot of dialogue and asking how you can help what he asks for. Now, if your heart says yes, but your head says no? We are screwed there, because deep inside you already know what has to happen, but you haven’t accepted it yet. Cheer up and start prioritizing yourself. It is difficult and the first half is complicated, but in the long run it is by far the best.

Vianca Villamonte

02/16/2023

I have very serious conflicts where they treat me badly where if I don’t do things the way he wants I’m wrong if I ask for money for something I need he gets upset I’m depressed I’m offended everything I do is wrong very wrong I don’t know what to do I want to leave because of this m is ending his character is hateful

mario garcia

01/17/2023

I am going through something that has me confused. My partner tells me that he loves me but shows the opposite with his actions and personal changes. Even my children get in the way. Can someone give me some advice to follow… I would appreciate it.

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Fernando

01/03/2023

This is very true, apparently my partner no longer loves me because he puts me under a soccer team. 🙁

Blanca Leticia Sanabria Muñoz

12/29/2022

How do I recover the love, trust, understanding and tenderness of my husband…. He says that he no longer loves me and that it is difficult to try again, I think that there is nothing impossible… I would like some advice to recover the Love of my Husband. Help me please thank you

Juan

11/05/2022

I have a question and I hope someone can answer it for me. My girlfriend was unfaithful to me on multiple occasions, she lied to me from the beginning to the end of the relationship, she promised me things and made me promise things to her. And there’s so much that got me hooked that it’s hard for me to let go. Now, I tried to give myself my place and distance myself, but she calls me love, my life and she tells me that I am the only one in her life. Her actions just don’t match her words. No matter how much I tell him if we break up or something he doesn’t want to. She wants to keep me tied up and I have no idea why.

Juan

09/30/2022

My wife is no longer looking for me, she doesn’t caress me, what should I do?

Cease

08/13/2022

For some time now my wife has had sexual behavior when she sleeps but I wake him up and I ask him what he was dreaming about and he says nothing and doesn’t remember anything but he goes back to sleep and it’s still the same thing but when I try to get to him he wakes up and changes the subject and He doesn’t want to have relationships and gets upset because it’s always the same
The truth is I don’t know what to do

damian

05/25/2022

the same thing, I give my life, I am attentive and he tells me that he doesn’t love me and that he never loved me but he tells me after 7 years and having a 2-year-old son in common and he tells me that he doesn’t love him either, I tried to row her and talk and work on her dreams and support her but now the baby is 4 and we separated I don’t understand I was always faithful and gave my all

Mauricio

05/16/2022

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years, the first 4 years were wonderful in every way, two years ago I began to notice that she lost her love for me, if I look for her in privacy she rejects me with some excuse, she just wants intimacy When she wants, I have been and am very detail-oriented, attentive, collaborator, provider, I have shown my love in one and a thousand ways and yet she maintains her position to the point of telling me that she doesn’t love me and that she never loved me. I have never stopped showing her my love, I have always been faithful and honest with her, I show her my love every day, I bring her breakfast in bed, I prepare her lunch, I take her for a walk, to dance, I give her pleasure, she is the first thing in my life, but even so I couldn’t make him love me, incredible. I asked her what happened, because she tells me that she doesn’t love me, and she told me that she never had that. We have been separated for a few months. She looks for me, she calls me, she writes to me, she tells me that she wants to see me, I don’t know what to do.

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Linner

05/19/2022

I think that the problem is your friend, I think that what human beings do when we show a lot of love to the other person doesn’t give a damn, if you don’t love them, make them feel your absence so that they learn to value you, think that they always act like that because they knew that I had you as a lapdog, remember things fall under their own weight, luck

Julia

05/30/2022

Start a new life away from her

Anthony

01/17/2023

Maybe you have already learned, although it is not very sure that it will work, perhaps you should leave it and evaluate yourself and time will decide if someone else arrives. Now if you think you love her, it’s your decision. Maybe she had someone else but she already realized that she is better with you…

Emerald

01/11/2022

How can I make my partner not feel so safe?
I mean he feels like he can lose me if he doesn’t get his act together.

Gerardo

12/23/2021

I have almost every sign that he doesn’t love me anymore and usually I would make a decision to walk away because it’s happened like that before but this time it’s different. We have a daughter and I know that if we separate I will not be able to have a correct relationship with my little girl. What could I do? I am very desperate because I even feel dirty having thoughts other than my partner.

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Ceveso

01/01/2022

I don’t understand. You say she doesn’t love you anymore, and then you say you have dirty thoughts about another woman. Is it her or you who doesn’t love her anymore?
And you use your daughter as an excuse to do the right thing.

CARLOS

13/12/2021

VERY GOOD ARTICLE THE TRUTH MAKES ME SEE THE REALITY, AND I am going through that same situation for anything he gets angry if it is not one thing it is another everything I do bothers him, he did with his way of being, his attitude that my two children One of them left the house more than 3 years ago and the other came back, I was the same with them because of their way of being and after 5 months he came back because he regretted everything he did worse, obsessing her, she hasn’t changed, she continues with that same tone wanting to control others

The e

12/03/2021

Thanks for the article

sebas

10/11/2021

if you don’t love them. It’s because they are interested ……….. xd

Vanessa

10/08/2021

I feel sad every time I fight with my partner, I feel that we both no longer love each other, the love between us has already been lost, we fight about everything, he gets into a fight with me, he raised his voice at me, he hit me and it’s very He’s cold to me, he’s almost not detail-oriented, he’s super demanding that if I’m at home, what did I do all day, apart from that he distrusts me a lot, he’s very jealous and above all he has daddy’s everywhere, he wants us to take him to his dad and I’ve tried. talk to him to solve things but it’s not possible, he puts up with me and it exasperates me that he says what did I do and then I have the house clean and he never tells me how good it is that you already did the house, on the contrary when he doesn’t I do it and he tells me what you did all day because you didn’t make the food, treat them, etc. I almost always work. I consider myself a hard-working and independent woman because I help him work to cover the cats and I still study and do the housework. etc… and he doesn’t value me, the truth is that every time we fight I feel sad, the best thing is to separate or someone to give me advice

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WENDY

04/29/2022

Vanessa, we are in April 2022, I HOPE YOU HAVE LEFT IT ALREADY, IF HE HITS YOU NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO VALUE YOURSELF, LET NOBODY TREAD ON YOU AND HUMILIATE YOU. Go to psychological therapy if necessary but GET OUT OF THAT VICIOUS CIRCLE. LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF.

Martin abel montenegrozeledonmartinabel9@gmail.com

09/10/2023

If you separate yourself according to how you are, you deserve someone who loves you, you deserve it, what you do is suffer for something that will never change or at least go away for a while, be careful not to mess with any man, see if he cares about you, if he loves you, he will change and if No, life is short and don’t let good people like you suffer, take courage, make your own decision and if not show interest, I swear it works, don’t even fix it or ask him anything like it doesn’t exist and you will see as time goes by, greetings

Myriregis

08/25/2021

I feel sad every time I fight with my partner, I feel that we both no longer love each other, the love between us has already been lost, we fight about everything, he gets into a fight with me, he raised his voice at me, he hit me and it’s very He’s cold to me, he’s almost not detail-oriented, he’s super demanding that if I’m at home, what did I do all day, apart from that he distrusts me a lot, he’s very jealous and above all he has daddy’s everywhere, he wants us to take him to his dad and I’ve tried. talk to him to solve things but it’s not possible, he puts up with me and it exasperates me that he says what did I do and then I have the house clean and he never tells me how good it is that you already did the house, on the contrary when he doesn’t I do it and he tells me what you did all day because you didn’t make the food, treat them, etc. I almost always work. I consider myself a hard-working and independent woman because I help him work to cover the cats and I still study and do the housework. etc… and he doesn’t value me, the truth is that every time we fight I feel sad, the best thing is to separate or someone to give me advice

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loresj

11/27/2021

Yes it is better that you start a new life and now happy date…