Steven
05/20/2022 It helped me a lot and I also know how to deal with situations like this 🙂
Ayelen
04/05/2022
I got together with my partner 8 months ago… we went from being chongos to living together… (we skipped the dating part) at first I felt strange and I got anxious every night… today I feel that I am not completely happy and I feel that I am I did more out of attachment than anything else, but apart from that I love him and I feel that he is a very good companion and I need to try. I was alone for so many years that I had gotten used to it and maybe sometimes I feel invaded and I miss myself. Is rare…
anonymous
01/31/2021
Hello, my partner says that he has feelings for me that are not as intense as before but he still has them, he breaks up with me, he says that he is afraid of returning to me and that the same thing happens and it is not fair to me, do you think this can have a solution in couples therapy?
dayana
11/13/2020
Well, the truth is I felt like everything he wrote, the truth is I left a lot of things for someone and from one time to the next I simply stopped feeling attracted to my boyfriend and throughout this process my best friend began to support me since we met my My friend and I treat each other in a very loving way. He calls me pretty and that bothered my boyfriend, so he asked me to stay away from him and I don’t know what to do. I need some advice.
Eve
07/27/2020
Hello! I’ll tell you my situation, I’ve been with my partner for 4 or so years and from the first day, due to life circumstances, we started living together. It’s true that at first I wasn’t in love with him, but over time I fell in love a lot and in fact I forgave him for some infidelity. Because he found a job in Murcia, I came with him (a little reluctantly because I’m from Madrid and I didn’t really like going to Murcia, but hey, I accepted it). Everything has been going great, until February when I had a hard time because I started to think that I had been in Murcia for 3 years and I didn’t have people and I didn’t feel like myself (I consider myself a sociable person and I like to be around and listen to people and The fact of not having anyone made me feel empty). I spent every weekend with my partner and I didn’t care but there came a point where I said this can’t be (I spent too much time with him)… Also because I wasn’t very comfortable in Murcia I started to fall out of love with him and I fell into a depression because I didn’t understand how I could have fallen out of love if we were great. I told him in February that I felt bad, that I felt like it wasn’t me… and he changed and said come on, let’s meet people, let’s change, at first I was excited, but after a short time I started to fall because I thought ” I’m not happy” and since then the depression got worse and I saw everything negative. I started to think that I didn’t love him anymore and that I had to leave him… I went to Madrid to see if he got better but I still had a lot of negative thoughts and doubts… now I’ve returned to Murcia to see if we can meet people, but no. I’m fine with myself, and I still feel like I no longer love my partner the same and I don’t know why!! It has always been good for us, we got along great! We have almost never argued…and I tell him everything that happens to me, he knows that I am depressed and he is treating me great, he tells me to row and row with him and I want to do it, because it is a relationship that is worth it, but for On the other hand, the negative part of me can control me and tells me to leave him (but I know I don’t want to be with anyone else!!). I want to love him again and feel great and laugh with him, as we have done these years, but the fact of thinking that I have to make an effort to be good with him again makes me feel bad because before everything came out without thinking, I It came out naturally…But because of the depression it’s like I don’t feel anything for anyone and I don’t feel anything for him, but he’s a great man and I don’t want to leave him. I’m going to the psychologist and he tells me that I have an existential crisis…but I want to get out of this now and be well again and above all love him again, we were great! Now I see everything negative, when I’m with him I’m fine but I keep thinking if you don’t feel the same anymore, leave it… but it’s like pufff because! And this topic doesn’t let me sleep, it doesn’t let me live, I spend the day reading forums and seeing if there are people who have the same thing happening to them… I’m getting a little obsessed and I don’t like it. What I can do? Thank you!!
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LUIS
10/05/2023
I totally identify with your case, the exact same thing happens to me, only I didn’t move or anything like that, I wish there was a magic wand or a “cupid” so I wouldn’t have to go through this situation.
Yenny
04/02/2020
The text “I have fallen out of love” is very, very accurate. I want to fall in love with my partner again, but I always find situations that make me fall out of love again and make me feel frustrated because I only find defects and problems. I would like to have another opportunity, but I don’t see how.
elviz valdz
12/29/2019 My partner is too possessive
He questions me a lot about what I do and when he drinks he gets aggressive with me.
Isabel
10/11/2019
I am confused, I had been living together with my husband for 10 years…our life was full of many arguments and we disrespected each other…even a month before I told him that it would be better if we gave each other time because we were not well and he didn’t want to and who at the end of the month he was unfaithful to me…it hurt me a lot and well I decided to continue with my life and those of my children…after almost a year of separation we treated each other better but still Anger and resentment was still in me… I decided to go back to him… but I still have that resentment and anger and it makes my love for him not as strong as before all day long. Yes… next. Living with the memories I no longer know what to do….he, on the other hand, continues to fight for our family and I feel. Very badly……
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Sabina
10/18/2019 It is understandable what you feel, you came back because you want it, etc. but logically you no longer see it as before, you may love it, you love it, but it will never be like before, in other cases they are worse
But really think if you are happy like this
Think what your heart desires
ELIZABETH
07/10/2019
I feel confused, I don’t know if I stopped loving my husband. I feel like everything is gray, he is a good man, hard-working, honest, even younger than me, he tells me all the time that he loves me, and fights for me and my children, but we hardly have an intimate life, we do have relationships every 4 months is because he can’t take it anymore, and they are rapacious relationships more out of physiological need than remonce, this kills me. I am afraid of being alone, I dedicated myself to being a housewife, raising my children, I am terrified of becoming independent, I feel that no one will take me into account anymore. Everyone knows us as a perfect couple and if I leave him everyone will blame me. My children will not understand, I have no family, I would be left adrift. How do I fall in love even though our relationship is more like friends? I’m panicked
Elizabeth
05/14/2019
I don’t want to continue with my partner I no longer feel love I feel like he’s chasing me and every time we talk I feel threatening I know I failed I asked him to apologize and to give me time now everything is chaos