Natalie
02/17/2023
Because no one loves me
nai
12/24/2022
My parents hate me, they humiliate me, they don’t let me express myself. My mother grabs me by the hair screaming at me and then continues with her narcissistic attitude, I can’t take it anymore
Sunrise
12/17/2022
I want to know if I am adopted
Cristina Arenas Silva
09/18/2022
What a good article. I want to learn to control anger to express when something bothers me. I am the mother of an 18 year old daughter who lies to me constantly and I feel frustrated. My 23 year old son is much more focused. The three of us live alone. I work hard to give them school and everything they need, I am in charge of everything and I need help. I feel overwhelmed, my body hurts, I wake up tired. I don’t have the resources to go to a psychiatrist or psychologist, but I know I need help. Sometimes I feel like a child who just needs protection. My father was never affectionate with me, I have no memories of him being affectionate with me, my mother or my brothers, but I am the most affectionate in my family. I have been open with my children, just as my parents were not with me. I talk to them, I give them reasons why it is important to educate themselves, choose friends, etc. But my daughter appears docile in my presence and I generally catch her lying and doing the opposite of what I have advised her to do. Sometimes I feel very alone, sad and confused.
Adriana Maria Rodriguez
08/28/2022
Well, I don’t know where to start. I have a mother who… doesn’t want me to succeed. Every time I do something good, she gets angry. If I go shopping with my husband, she gets angry. It’s double-sided. One day she’s fine with me and the next. day he is indifferent to me, my father does nothing but tell me that I am of no use to my children, he talks badly about their parents, that is, about my husband, and my person sometimes humiliates me, or tells my husband that why did he marry me? I was never of any use to him. My parents’ life is as follows: my dad has had a double life all his life, my mother accepts it, telling me my mother is, I know that he has it and that for her that is not a secret but they sleep together and to That’s a normal life for them. At this moment I live with my parents but the condition is that I pay for all the house services and the satellite dish and everything but my children do not have the right to the satellite dish. We only watch the regional channels of Antioquia. I hold on and here what should I do.
Annie
08/17/2022
I’m almost 23 years old and I haven’t gotten over many things from my childhood… it’s so hard to feel like that, no one has ever sincerely asked you how you feel. Either you count on me or I believe in you… I don’t trust myself and my heart breaks because I know I have to stand up and fight for my daughter but how can I be a good mother if no one was for me?
williams rivera
05/13/2022
Is right
Enrique
01/20/2022
I really feel like my dad doesn’t love me. He takes it out on me all the time, he never sees the good things I do for him, and every weekend he tells me off. Whenever he can, he writes hateful words to me, complaining about what a bad son I am, telling me that I am the worst thing that could have happened to him, that I will always be alone, that he can’t stand me anymore. And a few days later he regrets it, I’m tired of my own father treating me that way. Why doesn’t he love me? Why does he write pages and pages of hate to me? Doesn’t he realize that he hurts me?
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Patricia
03/22/2022 Dear Enrique:
I am very sorry that what you are saying is happening to you. But the truth is that parents like this have problems with themselves, that is, what they do to you is not personal. He does it because he hates himself, he treats himself badly, he doesn’t trust himself and he transfers that to you. You are not the problem, the problem lies within you. You just have to see what kind of life your father has. With this I am not saying that it is justifiable, it is not. But I’ll tell you something, YOUR FATHER’S OR ANYBODY’S OPINION DOES NOT MATTER, only YOURS MATTER. YOU ARE WONDERFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. YOU ARE VALUABLE, AND YOU CAN ACHIEVE WHATEVER YOU SET FORTH. Trust yourself, FOCUS ON YOURSELF and CREATE A SUPPORT NETWORK (friends, mother, grandparents, uncles, cousins…etc) YOUR LIFE IS NOT LIMITED TO WHAT YOUR FATHER SAYS OR DOES towards YOU.
Work on yourself, on your skills. YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK. Your emotions and feelings are IMPORTANT. AND VALID. Banish from your mind and your heart everything that hurts you, do not pay attention to the hurtful words that your father tells you, what HE THINKS ABOUT YOU IS NOT IMPORTANT. WHAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT YOURSELF IS WHAT YOU WILL BE. I hope this gives you a little perspective and helps what I’m telling you to feel better.
I send you a big hug.
Valeria
01/16/2022
When sometimes I can’t solve a situation and I need the support of someone close to me, my dad always gets angry and doesn’t talk to me for a long time, because he thinks I don’t need any kind of help to solve some problems. I feel that he is too hard and that he doesn’t understand me at all when I need him most, and that’s when he frustrated me a lot and I think that he doesn’t love me at all and that I wish I hadn’t been born for him. I just feel that ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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Patricia
03/22/2022 Dear Valeria:
Thank you for expressing what you feel. It’s normal for you to feel this way. However, I will tell you not to seek support from your father, why you may ask? Your father acts with you as he acts with him. That is, he is hard on himself, he doesn’t allow himself to be helped, because that makes him feel vulnerable, fragile… that’s why he gets upset with you. It is very possible that his father or mother was like that with him. He is wrong, of course. We all need someone’s help and support at some point, it’s normal. Also, for you to ask for help is BEING BRAVE, because you recognize that you have a limitation, and that’s okay. We all feel limited sometimes.
I want to tell you that NO MATTER WHAT YOUR FATHER DOES, YOU ARE WONDERFUL, STRONG, BRAVE AND VALUABLE. IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT HE SAYS. Your feelings and emotions are IMPORTANT.
Look for a support network in other people around you. People who love you just the way you are, with whom you can be yourself and make you feel comfortable.
I hope it helps you feel a little better and see it from another perspective.
I send you a big hug.
Celmira
01/05/2022
You feel alone because of the lack of affection for your parents, they insult you, they blame you for everything, even your own sister says that when I’m not at home the house feels quiet. I would like to have parents who show you their affection, give you their support, advise you, tell you how much they love you.
Jelissa
12/25/2021
I just want to leave my house, my mom doesn’t care about me, she doesn’t even buy me a Christmas gift and compares me to others I hate her so much, this is my worst childhood in life, I hate her with everything, I want to die 💔🥺🥺🥺🥺😠ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Lucia Gaviles
10/05/2021
Help, my parents for every thing I do threaten to take away my cell phone that my grandfather gave me, every time it’s the same, I don’t do anything wrong and they stop me threatening me with that, they insult me ​​and hit me, please help me
fabrizio vivas
07/10/2021
Help, she can’t stand it anymore, my mother is a very bad person, I’m afraid of her, I have a problem and it’s that I have STUTTERING, today my brother started making fun of me and my mom also started insulting me, I can’t take it anymore and I insulted my older brother. My mom pulled my hair. and she told me not to buy me pizza since you were buying one. At dinner my brother started bothering me saying, poor thing, he doesn’t have pizza, I yelled loudly telling him not to bother me and my mom hit me. please help me
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asdasd
12/01/2021
I recommend talking to your mother or father, close relatives
Patricia
03/22/2022 Dear Fabrizio:
I’m sorry you went through that circumstance. My advice is to stay out of their game, meaning if they make fun of you, ignore them. Because what they are looking for is to provoke you and that is what they achieve. Furthermore, your mother reprimands you for defending yourself and not your brother for provoking you. The best thing is not to get into their game, as I told you.
YOU ARE WONDERFUL, VALUABLE AND BRAVE.
If you want to improve your speaking fluency, I advise you to read aloud and listen to audiobooks to improve your pronunciation. YOU CAN GET BETTER. Be consistent in this exercise. I KNOW YOU WILL MAKE IT. YOU ARE CAPABLE OF DOING IT. YOU ARE REALLY CAPABLE OF WHAT YOU PROPOSED TO.
So, cheer up, don’t let yourself be overcome by those things that they do to you, I know it bothers and hurts. But it’s not worth focusing on that. Do things that make you happy, things that motivate you… I hope these ideas make you feel better.
I send you a big hug!
Demo
07/01/2021
To be honest, I feel all this because since I was a child my parents never lived with me, my mother never lived with me since I remember, she never did, and my father, at the age I am currently, continues to deny that he lives with me but treats me like a person. x. What I envy most people I know is their relationship with their parents because I don’t know what it feels like to have an afternoon of movies, to have them help you do your homework. I just would like to feel what it means to be truly loved. I know that at my young age I don’t know much about these things but that’s how I feel. I feel like garbage as if I were nobody. Whoever stopped to hear my comment. Thank you for listening or reading me
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ivana…
12/08/2021
too late to respond but I saw your comment and it made me very sad since I live the same way and my parents live with me but it’s like they’re not there because they don’t talk or do anything with me, but you’re not trash, we’re not trash, they don’t know how to value us, I hope you can be better soon!
Patricia
03/22/2022 Dear Demo:
I am very sorry for what you say. The truth is that YOU NOR ANYONE DESERVES THAT. YOU ARE VALUABLE. And from here I thank you FOR YOUR COURAGE in expressing your feelings.
I want to tell you that everything you are looking for outside IS INSIDE YOU. That support, that love IS WITHIN YOU. Of course we all need to feel loved by our parents, but sometimes, that’s not the case. And it’s not because of you, it’s because of them, since they don’t love or support each other. How they treat themselves, they treat themselves.
Create your support network in other people. People who love you, who accept you as you are and who make you feel good with them.
Your age does not matter, human beings know when they want it and it is an innate need in them. But if your parents don’t give it to you, give it to yourself and create bonds with other people. Sometimes real family isn’t people of our blood and that’s okay. Choose those people who care about you and show you affection. And if you don’t have them at the moment, it doesn’t matter, take care of yourself, love yourself, support yourself and talk to yourself as you would like your parents to do.
YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOURSELF.
I hope this vision I give you helps you.
I send you a strong…