My Husband Watches Pornography, Is It Normal? – Why and for what

Gaby

09/15/2022

Why does my partner watch pornography while we are having sex?????

Sofia Sanchez

06/07/2022

Lately my relationship with my partner has taken a turn that I don’t know how it makes me feel, we talk more about what he likes than what I like about the experiences we have had in the past and so on and so forth I like that but sometimes I am very sincere and I have noticed that he doesn’t hide things from me or so and that doesn’t bother me and I also found that he visits porn many times a day, what makes me feel uncomfortable is that it is not random porn but rather that he searches for the page A specific girl where she only shows herself naked, dancing, talking about things like that, so that made me think that what she is looking for is no longer porn, if it is not specific, I will be having the wrong thought????? Someone to advise or guide me

Adriana

04/13/2022

Several months ago I discovered that my partner watched porn. I asked him openly and he denied it. I don’t care that he watches it, I care because we have stopped having regular relationships and I think that him watching porn is harming our relationship. I told him again about the porn and that I knew he watched it and he still denies it. We have always been open in communicating what we like and we ask each other what we like at that moment. It is something that distresses me and makes me feel very bad since a wall is being built and I feel betrayed.

Cecilia

01/04/2022

I recently discovered that my partner watched porn. What bothers me is that he deceived me because at the beginning of the relationship we made it clear what we thought about that type of content. He continues to deny it to me until now and all this makes me lose trust in him. I have already told him many times that he can tell me the truth and I have even shown him evidence but he insists that his cell phone has been hacked and that I must trust him. What should I do? I don’t like being lied to in such a blatant way…

ester hernandez

07/10/2021

Today I feel like trash, I feel like I’m not much of a woman because I do everything I can, I really do, and watching pornography makes me feel very bad, because I don’t understand it.

Lili Cortes

07/01/2021

My partner and I have been in a relationship for 3 years and I am now 6 months pregnant. I must say that sex has always been present in our relationship, although it is not very good for me because I cannot feel an orgasm most of the time, because this It has always been very difficult for me and the truth is he doesn’t cooperate much well anyway about a month ago he went on a trip with his family and when he came back he looked for me like crazy because according to him he was really looking forward to it and I obliged him in everything What he wanted, but I noticed a difference after the trip and that is that now he watches pornography and wants me to perform oral sex on him while he watches this. I don’t know what’s happening. I also feel uncomfortable because several times I have seen him in the bathroom watching pornography and masturbating. He doesn’t like that when we have sex I complain and moan but he tells me that he likes to listen to the old lady from the movie. I don’t understand what’s happening. Can you help me?

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Rosalinda poveda

06/24/2021

Why does my husband watch pornography?

And here

05/02/2021

My partner only likes to watch porn whenever he wants to make love to me.

Andrea

04/11/2021

Hello, I am in a relationship and living together, today I discovered that he watches porn, that would not be my concern, but that he always looks for teenage girls, and I have daughters who are 24 and 14 years old, he is 40 and I am 46, he was with one 5 years ago 20 year old girl, he has a 22 year old daughter, I talk about it, I kick him out of my house, is he sick or is he normal????

Laura Guadalupe Lesso Quiroz

03/31/2021

Thank you very much for your article, I think I feel better now, it’s just that I would like him to accept it and tell me that he does like to watch those types of movies and that he would share with me and not do it secretly. We are adults and I understand. I don’t close myself off from that event, thank you

Lu

03/30/2021

I honestly don’t know what to do, my boyfriend eats pornography for lunch, lunch and dinner, he likes to watch big ladies, women with big tits, women with big booties, for me that’s not normal, in the bathroom it lasts half an hour or more, for me this It’s not something normal and when I tell him he hit me, one day he almost hanged me, here I am alone I don’t know anyone, I lost my job, I have no money, in short I have nowhere to go and say goodbye.😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

Sanjua

03/29/2021

I need help. I’ve had a partner for 4 years and I’m a little small. I’m 20 and he’s 25. The truth is that since he’s single, my husband watches pornography and I’ve told him that it bothers me that he sees that but I’ve always done it secretly and I catch the porn videos. and I feel less for that because I feel that when he looks at women he looks at them imagining being with them. I don’t know if I’m exaggerating but it hurts me to know that he not only wants to be with me but with others.

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H.J.

04/24/2021

It happens to me, it makes me feel insecure but I think we are the ones who are wrong, we must work on our self-esteem, I understand you, friend.

Carolina

06/25/2021

Same with me πŸ™ I feel less every time he sees other women, he has told me to put on boobs and he buys me a thong and tells me that he wants to put it in my back just like he sees in his movies

ester hernandez

07/10/2021

Today my self-esteem has fallen so low to the point of wanting to run away, that the earth would swallow me, I feel trash, I feel like less of a woman, I feel that something I did wrong makes me feel bad πŸ™

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Julia

03/11/2021

Please, I would like to know what to do, I suspected my husband because he always locks himself in the bathroom for a long time, so I took his cell phone and when I looked at the history I found pages of pornography, until then I can’t find what’s really bad because I understand that there are men who do it, but the search topic is always β€œI sleep with my sister-in-law”, β€œmy sister-in-law this and that” and I have two sisters who are always with me. I don’t know what to do, I feel very disgusted that he is attracted to videos in that category. Should I leave it? Or am I drowning in a glass of water for something stupid?

Tamara

02/09/2021

Hello, what I hate the most is that I caught him with several types of videos and the entire history filled out. Our sex life has always been very satisfactory even with the distance, I believed that everything was fine that he would not see it for the simple fact that he is with me and that whenever we want we could do whatever. When you came to live together was when I realized that I had downloaded videos and a history full of searching for porn, I felt very bad and cried a lot because that was a disappointment for me, he denied it to me and my son got angry for having found it until he found me. He accepted it at the last moment, on other occasions the same thing happened and I always catch it and it makes me angry because he knows it hurts me and bothers me. The fact is that I started to move on from the topic and every time I saw something like that I asked him well and he didn’t even get angry or anything but he did get angry and blamed me for looking for him to fight and I don’t know why he keeps doing it. You know I always notice.
Since all this I don’t trust him anymore, he goes to the bathroom and I go every once in a while, I never want to leave him alone so he doesn’t see anything and things like that, I feel like I’m getting mentally ill and that this is not healthy , I love him but he knows that he hurts me and he doesn’t stop doing it, sometimes I wonder if he doesn’t care about me so much that he prefers porn over my safety, my peace of mind and my well-being.

Carlos

12/28/2020

I explain to you, I am a man and yesterday for the first time after almost 10 years of being together I confessed to my wife about my problem with pornography, I did it practically trembling, in a moment of speaking intimately, in my case I was the only one secret that I had in my life with her.
I tell all women that it doesn’t always have to do with liking other women, in my case it is to avoid bothering her for my satisfaction many times, other times to try to learn to satisfy her in the best way possible.
Despite looking for videos of various types, it never meant anything to me, I never liked any of those women or would like them more than my wife, just because I see videos of threesomes or orgies doesn’t mean that I’m going to like that in a real context. Having 50 people end up in a woman’s face may excite you, but in a real context it would possibly make me sick…
Do not judge their fantasies, because many times they are simply that, at least that is my case.
Finally, to support those people who don’t know what to do… I understood that my wife simply didn’t like the idea of ​​sharing watching pornography to get a little more in tune, why she doesn’t like the simple image or it disgusts her. , so we reached an agreement to read about erotic stories or something related, I agree and I find it interesting and I am determined to leave porn and individual masturbation for her as another act to strive for our relationship.

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12/30/2020

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anonymous

02/12/2021

That’s very good that you also think about her. If what you do bothers her very well, you’ve looked for something in between that both of you might like.

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06/17/2021

Hello, I don’t know you, but I like to know that there are men like you who decide to change for the better and not by saying thousands of excuses.

ester hernandez

07/10/2021

How nice that you value and love your wife like that, take good care of her, not just any woman stays by your side :,)

Carlos

03/23/2022

Well, you do love your wife because in my case my husband decided to end the relationship. We are married, we have been married for 8 years and we have a 7-year-old daughter. It makes me sad, but it is his desorption, I think that is stronger than his family.

Jade

12/27/2020

Hello, my partner watches porn for years, I found out I thought it was normal. Haora I found myself again in bed, I give her everything, I’m very good…. Thin, excellent body and I really don’t understand anything. I told him let’s have a threesome so you don’t see, he didn’t want to, anyway, after that when we were fucking, his penis hurt me. He blamed me because he didn’t. I move well to distract him so I understand that I feel small. And it’s more than 7. Days without doing I always have my needs. He says he’s tired but not to watch porn today, tired, I’ll end the relationship, I won’t give any more..

Ximena

12/04/2020

My husband also likes to watch porn. Look for women with butt or big ass and also busty πŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺ I won’t be a porn actress,… But I don’t consider myself bad in bed and I please him in sex as he wants and every time he sees those porn videos. He makes me feel bad, .. Like I’m not enough for him.. I’ve also thought about leaving him. It’s annoying to walk with him on the street and even though he holds my hand, I see how his eyes go to other women when they like him physically, it’s totally disrespectful to me. Because he wouldn’t want me to do the same.

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Karla Martinez

07/27/2021

That’s how I feel, I’ve talked about it with my husband…