Maria Julia
03/09/2022
With my daughter I don’t know how to act. She spent all day yesterday calling me, sending me messages, insulting me and today it’s still the same. She has called me more than 100 times. I don’t know what to do. She has a 9-year-old girl who is starting to not want to stay with her. They both live alone and as a grandmother I help her but she only knows how to charge at me. What limits do I have to set please? thank you
CARMEN MANNOLIA
02/17/2021
I have a relative with that type of personality, and he has truly been very difficult to deal with. The last recommendation from psychiatrists and psychologists is to go to the legal side to make them see reason with some issues.
Laura
09/21/2020
My ex-partner has BPD and a month or so ago he left me. She told me that she loved me but that she didn’t know what she wanted. That I don’t deserve someone like him… that he wants to be alone… then he believes that he wants to be alone… that he needs time. After all, it is prolonging an ending that he believes is not going to turn out well. I didn’t know I had this until I asked him why I didn’t deserve someone like him, and he told me and he didn’t tell me too because he really needed my help but he doesn’t ask for it… I don’t know if he’s leaving me because he’s afraid of me. that I would abandon him when I saw certain things… I don’t know!!!! He told me that he had suicidal ideas and paranoia… I offered him my help. He doesn’t want to, he says that he has to take this off by himself… that he doesn’t want me to carry him. with all this ! What I do??? Did he leave him because he is telling me that he thinks he wants to be alone or does he want to be alone or do I continue to offer him help? Because he reproached me that he accepts what people need or want and that he doesn’t see that others do the same. That nobody understands it etc…
vilma
04/27/2020
My daughter suffers from Bourdeline and when she is mentally ill, she isolates herself. She doesn’t answer the phone, she locks herself away, she denies all help. When she is well, she does not want to talk about her episodes and even less want to see a professional.
How I can help her
Now with the mandatory quarantine it is like this
Santiago spits
03/22/2020
A person diagnosed with a personality disorder can be dangerous for an 8-year-old child
Mair
03/21/2020
How does psychological therapy help a person with BPD?
Emma
03/03/2020
Hello, I was diagnosed with Cebero BPD in 2019. I am 15 years old. I read all the articles and nothing helps. I am confused.
Lourdes Rosario Ramirez Arana
10/29/2019
I am a divorced woman, my son was 10 and 12 years old, according to the teachers, he had everything. He was treated with medication at the age of 16. We had problems because he committed self-harm. He was taken to the emergency room to be treated. He was diagnosed with BPD and it was for a while until he decided at 17. After years of going to live with his father in Madrid, they continued to treat him until he came of age and said that he no longer needed treatment, a mistake because he stopped taking the medication and said that he could only deal with the situation and that he did not want more treatment. Having had several psychologists, not only one was telling the story, which tired him out. Now that he is 20 years old and at 21 he has understood that he cannot treat himself, he has self-injured himself again, he has finally understood that he should ask for help, they have given him an appointment with the psychiatrist in January, the date seems very long to me; But hey, he can go to the emergency room with a crisis, his father finally understands that it is an illness and it seems, according to what he told me, he gives him his support. I am a cancer patient who lives in Palencia and I was mistreated by his father. He separated me when my child turned one. year… reading this article has helped me understand that I am not guilty and how I can help him. I always gave him my support and I thought that what was happening to him was because he hung out with boys who were emo and I always saw him as a very sensitive child. Thank you
Patricia Tello
05/21/2019
My 18-year-old daughter is diagnosed with BPD. I would like to read more articles about how to manage day-to-day life with people who have this type of disorder, in order to help her.
Montse
03/29/2019
Hi Claudia. I have a 17 year old twin daughter. 10 years ago I divorced her father due to complex circumstances that cannot be described here. The fact is that a much more evident hell of harassment and psychological abuse began towards me from her father and I had to report him. I had a restraining order against him that was ignored several times but I did not report it. The thing is that my daughters have suffered a lot and I thought it was all over about two years ago, when they decided not to visit her father again. My daughter has always had behaviors that have worried me, but I have had a difficult time taking her to psychotherapy due to the protocols with divorced parents that required the consent of both parents to treat minors. Even so, I went to a regional government service and he had 4 or 5 sessions, after which they discharged him because they did not see anything that was extraordinary and not typical of adolescence. However, her behavior has been noticeably worsening to the point of showing aggression towards her sister and me. She doesn’t abide by the rules or the limits I set for her. The last thing was that she imposed the first punishment of her life: she is not going on an end-of-year trip…. And her father has gotten in the way and has sued me legally so that the girl go on the trip. This has reinforced him and it has made me absolutely uncontrolled… Now everything is screaming at home. There is no way for me to abide by my mother figure and obey and assume things. I have told him everything and he doesn’t reason. I have even invited him to go live with her father. I am very lost. I took him to a psychiatrist and he doesn’t tell me anything because he says it’s confidential and that my daughter doesn’t want to tell me. She has only referred me to psychotherapy that has not yet started because she may have BPD…. What can I do to help my daughter, protect her from her father (sociopath and psychopath) and not harm my other daughter ?? I would greatly appreciate your help. Thanks in advance.
04/03/2019
Hello Montse,
From what you say, you seem exhausted. I recommend that you go to a specialist who can help you better manage all the emotions that this complex situation you are experiencing produces in you.
Regarding your daughter, it is necessary to carry out a thorough evaluation and from there begin treatment. It seems that treatment will begin shortly. Brilliant! The professional cannot share confidential information about any patient, but we are obliged to notify family members when there is a high risk for the patient or other people around them. Therefore, they will notify you if there is one. Whether it’s because of herself, her father, or something that could harm her sister.
On the other hand, the professional must also advise you as a mother with guidelines to favor your daughter’s treatment, in addition to informing you about the disorder and the treatment and accompanying you in whatever you need, since it is a process that produces great emotional wear on the family members. .
I hope I’ve helped. Thank you very much for sharing your experience and I hope the situation improves.
Greetings.
Armando Javier
03/05/2019
My daughter has BPD and is in treatment although she has seizures every 5 days and takes her medication. She wants to go on a trip alone, how can I avoid it, or is she going to be safe? If she has a crisis without her parents present?
Ana
12/28/2018
Hello, I have a situation, my brother is starting with BPD patterns, my mother is a covert Narcissite, she is also a psychopath, she was my mother’s goat for 10 years, she has a hard time controlling her anger, she is already beginning to isolate herself, he saw her A psychologist says that there is a probability that I have also developed my mother’s personality due to physical and psychological abuse. She doesn’t seem to know what’s going on with her. How can I help you?
Juan José
04/10/2018
How to act in the event of an aggressive and irrational outbreak of a patient
Ana Rebolledo
02/10/2018
My daughter was diagnosed with BPD and CLUSTER B two months ago. There are days when I don’t know how to help her. Her changes are too rapid. I would like some guidance so I can help her and understand each other better. If you know of groups with people like that, recommend or give contacts. the experiences of others are always good
05/10/2018
Hello Ana, BPD is a disorder that is more marked in adolescence and youth. As advice to help her, you should offer her rigid behavioral guidelines (routines and taking responsibilities) but without imposing anything on her. Greetings and good luck!