Carolina Zapata
12/23/2022
Hello, and I have a doubt, I think my partner suffers from this, but his actions do not show so much egocentrism and arrogance to disqualify, but rather because he is on the defensive all the time that nothing harms him and that for this reason nothing harms him. It matters, he doesn’t have a superiority complex, but in the rest of the things he is very grounded to what I experience every day, can he still suffer from this disorder?
Luli
08/22/2022
I have a narcissistic sister, there is no way to help them. I make my parents sick with sadness because I lived doing dramas. Now he makes them for me. She doesn’t help paying for anything around the house and whatever she does she believes is to applaud her. If I gave you something, you don’t appreciate it, you think it’s my obligation. She gets up and goes to bed humiliating me. If you live with people like this, do everything to get away from them, they are irrecoverable.
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PAULINE
09/25/2022
They are people who have no empathy with others, they misrepresent situations or words to victimize themselves, or on the contrary they become cruel and ruthless, I don’t know if there is therapy for this but the damage they do is incredible. When they commit an obvious mistake and are discovered they become victims, when they can they become merciless towards anyone. Be careful, at first they use what is called “love bombing” to involve the people they choose to manipulate. Then comes disloyalty, discredit and sometimes discarding if they get bored of you. For me they are unconscious and ruthless predators, it is best to flee or get away as soon as you realize their pathology.
Manuelito tec
09/26/2022
Asuuu, but suddenly you didn’t receive enough professional help?
Robert
04/05/2022
I have this problem in the family, a brother, I saw him little since we stopped living together, more than 40 years, he is alone, he psychologically destroyed his wife and the children do not speak to him, we never created a bond that is why it is not difficult for me to be ” wax doll”, my question is if it can be useful to read about the disorder he suffers from, the article is very interesting, thank you
Eduardo
01/09/2021
I found the article very interesting. I would like to know in more detail and precision how to treat a sister who only talks about money, property and work achievements. Thank you so much
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Ali
02/10/2021
Hi Eduardo; In the case of family members, the gray stone method is applied, avoiding paying attention to them, interacting with them as little as possible and being very precise and specific with the dialogues that have to be carried out with them.
Do not give much information about your life, because they use everything against you and manipulate you, always seeking to harm and less value others… take away your attention and they become a pillar of salt.
Martha
06/26/2020
Other health professionals have suggested putting zero contact to these types of narcissistic people, I wonder if this is also valid, or does it make the situation worse?
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Erika
10/12/2020
Having zero contact is usually the best solution. It depends on the person and the nature of the relationship, but generally if they are severely narcissistic it is not advisable to continue a romantic relationship with a person like that.
aly
02/10/2021
Zero contact is always better… because as I have mentioned there are subtypes, in the dark triad, even the worst of the narcissists is the Machiavellian, always being close to a narcissist regardless of the level and subtype is a great danger to your integrity. . mail, zero contact, gray stone…
Pedro
04/16/2020
Hello, I congratulate you for this page. I have a daughter (43) who doubts our love for her (my wife (78) and I (70)), criticizes all our advice, very aggressive, very jealous of her two brothers (37-39), does not want and He slanders his brothers’ wives, and other aggressive and hateful attitudes. Thank you
Imelda
04/15/2020
Is there medicine to treat these types of people? And who prescribes it? I have a brother with this problem and he has gotten worse due to drug use, I don’t even want to lose him and I have thought about putting him in an annex so they can help him, but I don’t know if it is counterproductive, I will appreciate your advice
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Erika
10/12/2020
To date they have not found a good solution to treat narcissism. Sometimes antidepressants can relieve some of the suffering but remember that they are very resistant to change and help. One has to seek one’s own help-
Ali
02/10/2021
Unfortunately, there is no medical treatment or cure for these disorders, I know you want to help them, but they don’t even care about your compassion, pity, help… They feel that they are right, that’s why there is no help from themselves. An initiative to treat yourself would be another manipulation and even psychologists and psychiatrists do not like to give them therapy, because narcissists learn to manipulate others more and deceive specialists, it has to be a psychiatrist focused on the disorder, to give Cognitive Therapy Behavioral, but to balance and moderate behavior it takes 7-8 consecutive years of therapy without interruptions. The only thing you can do is understand that he will always be like this, no matter what you do, I know that it is a very difficult situation to process when you love a person who will never feel love for anyone, not even his own parents. nor children… they just use everyone for a benefit otherwise they discard it.
Kevin
04/07/2020
As I do with my sister, I cannot give my opinion that I don’t like something, she is always on the defensive and only she is right and if I tell her everything that offends me she ends up getting more defensive and believing that only what she thinks is worth it.
Silvana
03/03/2020
The article is very good, my question is: if you do not accept being wrong and have a hard time listening to others, how can we make you aware that your behavior is damaging?
Thank you
Katthy
02/19/2020
How can I help my partner, I am sure he has this problem, how can I have a good relationship with him, I love him and I want to help him.
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Yani
03/03/2020
I have a similar problem and I don’t know what to do either, what I have come to think about is distancing myself from him, we could love a lot but it is not enough, I have heard very repeatedly from my partner that wanting to make him change is a lack of respect on my part towards him. he. I have not been able to apply this advice either, it hurts to love and accept that distancing is better for both of us and especially for you.
gabs
08/03/2020
It is almost impossible to help a narcissist, because he will never accept that he has a problem or that the problem is you, most likely he is not even in love with you, remember that a narcissist acts only and exclusively if he has a benefit or praise in return
Ana
01/29/2020
A very well explained and easy to understand article, without so much technicality. It has helped me a lot, thank you very much
Fernando
11/29/2019
I work accompanying older people, diagnosed as Narcissistic, can you advise me how to react to their manipulation, thank you very much
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aly
02/10/2021
As a psychiatrist would tell you… I recommend changing jobs if this is possible because nothing is worth more than your personal peace and tranquility, than being close to these beings. But if you have no other option… you must learn emotional intelligence, gray stone, wax doll… how does this help you? Well, narcissists feed on the reactions of those around them, both good and bad, positive or negative, such as compliments, idealizing them, applauding them for everything… but that fuel tires them and bores them… so they do it. What feeds them the most is the bad supply… your anger, frustration, despair, impotence, crying, etc. This is the most pleasant for them to humiliate, abuse, subdue, undermine, deceive, etc. to others… then here you have to learn that it is nothing personal against you, as it can be done to you as it can be done to anyone, they do not see you as human beings, they see you as objects, as a shirt, a pen, a pair of shoes… just like that… you are good for something… but when they get tired of you, they will look for a way to get you out of their way, until they find someone to replace you. You should never believe anything they tell you, but nothing… teaching you to read their sentences always comes with hidden messages of what they will do to you or what they plan to do to you… and it is never good… narcissists are older and older. , they get worse… because they can’t stand getting older… and you have to control yourself so as not to express any type of emotion with them, neither good nor bad, that is called gray stone or wax doll… and be very brief your interaction, and clear, if they start to turn things around… beat around the bush, you continue in the same clear and precise sentence… without letting yourself get carried away with their ambiguous words. I hope it has been helpful to you.
katia rosa
11/21/2019
My husband is a narcissist in every sense of the word!! How can I make him understand it and get him to seek help? This is ending our marriage.
11/26/2019
Hi Katia,
You can help them, inform them, even accompany them and seek professional help. But in the end he must make the change himself and you can’t do it for him.
Ask yourself if the relationship gives you what you need and will help you develop as a person.
I hope I’ve helped.
Greetings.
Lore
11/14/2019
I would like to find a diagnosis for my partner, since he shows different personalities, he does not attack physically but verbally, yes, he deceives without feeling guilty and involves people so quickly, without saying that he tells meaningless lies, his entire life is a lie. And he shields himself by blaming everyone around him.
Nora
11/09/2019
I think all those points describe my partner,
Cecilia Cardes
04/21/2019
Can the narsicist tolerate physical or verbal aggression from his partner?
Maria
01/19/2019
Hello, I think your information is very good.
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Mildred
12/29/2018
I am grateful for all the articles you share. Thank you
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