Walter Flores
13/12/2020
If possible I would like to obtain more information about the three numerals of the index. It is helping me and my entire family a lot. We read it very carefully. Thank you so much.
Ivone
07/24/2020
What can I do to make my boyfriend forget the loss of his wife? What can I advise?
Lili Hernandez
05/30/2020
Hello! I’m starting a relationship, I’ve known him for a long time and he’s been looking for me for many years but until now I accepted him, but with this issue of the virus, his mother went to the hospital for pneumonia and began to settle down and didn’t answer the WhatsApp messages the same way. Today her mother passed away and I don’t know how to act or what to say to her, I know that she is going to be absent more and it hurts me a lot! Can you help me please!
Suzanne
02/22/2020
Because the wife of a friend and my husband were hospitalized at the same time, we have become more united in terms of friendship, both of us at the same time with the deceased. I overcame my grief by having had a bad marriage for 44 years, but on the contrary he has a good one for 25 years, over time we have met again and started to relate but despite saying that it is fine when we see each other he does not get over the death of his wife now he decided to go to a psychologist, my question distanced me or should I accompany him? That is to say, I would gladly do it but he pushes me more and more aside and he almost doesn’t answer my messages anymore, I think I should let him have it but my question, I fell in love with him a lot and it costs me a lot, I don’t know what to do to help you, but I don’t have the time to do it, what do I do?
Daniela Acosta
12/22/2019
Good afternoon, my little brother passed away 18 days ago and the pain is terrible, my husband has been a great help, but he has been drinking alcohol for years, and yesterday he arrived at dawn drunk, and it hurts my soul that he I cannot respect my grief, because it is another pain to continue in that alcohol situation, sometimes I feel that that will not change and with what happened last night I realized or I have the feeling that not even the death of my brother makes it change.. .. I feel very disoriented
aura rebeca
12/20/2019
My husband and I are facing the loss of my 10-year-old daughter, this was last July 13, I thought we were going well but my partner started drinking again, he says he cries at work and I don’t know how he feels. When in reality I also cry at work. I don’t know what is best for us to cry together or for everyone to have their own space. I don’t know how to help if he doesn’t turn to me for help and I would like to vent to him because I feel like he is the only one who can understand my pain. I feel that we both have deep sadness but we do not take refuge with each other.
Lucy Cordoba
12/20/2019
Good notes
Daia
12/11/2019
I feel broken by the loss of a very important family member and disappointed by a person who was practically my partner.
He was not with me at any time, he did not call me, he wrote to me and said that I would let him know if he needed anything. But the worst thing is that the two nights after my loss, he was out partying.
Now he asks for my forgiveness, says that he didn’t know how to live up to it and that he has realized that I feel much more for me than he thought.
It sounds to me like manipulation and wanting to feel less guilty by justifying a childish and selfish act. Supposedly she didn’t know if I would be bothered by her presence and chose not to ask and not be there directly.
When you love someone who is suffering you have to be by their side, that has to come from yourself, if it doesn’t come from yourself it means that maybe you don’t love that person as much. Your own insecurities at that moment don’t matter at all, it matters that that person is broken and you want to help them. Spot
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Valeria
03/06/2020
I tell you that my girlfriend suffered a loss and I really didn’t want her to feel bad at any time. I mean, I even looked for a thousand ways for him to manage not to think about it at times, but it’s impossible. I think you shouldn’t say that your boyfriend wasn’t there because maybe I can’t stop thinking about how you were and what to do, but even if you don’t believe it, it also hurts a lot where you see me, I also look for a way not to think about it so much, so maybe your boyfriend was the same and that’s why he went out to party, he just doesn’t know how to show it. feelings
tommy
08/07/2019
aver carnals how can I help my partner go through this??
Miguel
04/21/2019
Good morning, I don’t know who feels worse, my girlfriend, I think so or me,
One bad day one of the most influential people in his life died, and I didn’t know exactly how to react, I think it was normal, but I couldn’t do anything, he closed himself off from his family and I don’t think I was up to the task,
After almost a month of the fateful event, I have barely had direct contact with her, I think she tries to avoid me, as if making me understand that her grief is hers and that I can do little or nothing for her,
I don’t know how to act, the conversations are scarce and the answers are brief or practically non-existent.
She is the most important person in my life and I am afraid of losing her, I would like to have some advice on how to act, I cannot find it myself, and I am beginning to feel tormented.
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Abel
10/13/2019
That’s how I feel right now! I can’t find what to do
Daia
12/11/2019
Hello, I’m sorry if I’m going to sound harsh but because of her attitude she is disappointed and doesn’t want to continue with you. Look, the loss of a loved one carries irreparable pain that becomes somewhat lighter when other loved ones are with you supporting you. If you failed her at a time like this, it is normal for her to feel disappointed and she may think that you are not prepared to face important situations. 5 days ago I lost a loved one and my partner not only did not physically accompany me but he went partying while I was dying of grief at home. And now he is sorry for not having known how to manage the situation but I think that this is a question of human quality and empathy so I feel even worse than your girlfriend because the disappointment has been strong. Since you haven’t been with her at such a crucial moment, you should go find her so she can tell you how she feels about you, and face the consequences for her. All the best
Jaime Flores Ramirez
03/29/2019
How can I help a person who had a breakup, their ex-partner depended on them.
And at some point we thought we were there because we were there before but she tried to help him to return to him but then she realized that she was hurting him and she realized that supposedly she loved me but I want to help her heal and get rid of those memories and I I want to know how to act so as not to hurt myself and start a relationship before she forgets everything.
Misrain Nathanael Moran Rojas
03/24/2019
How to help my girlfriend who lost her son a month ago, the boy was 18, she is 46, she wants to die, she wants to be alone, she has locked herself in her world where she doesn’t want to know anything, I try to be close but she also doesn’t care anymore. I wonder what I can do to help her???
CLAUDIA
03/12/2019
Hello ! I have been dating my partner for 7 months. I think we are very similar and we laugh a lot together. I have done skits and sometimes out of jealousy I did another one last night because of a message that came to his phone from a friend of his asking about his mother. The mother is mentally ill, she is 90 years old and he is an only child since I started dating him, always taking care of his mother in an incredible way. The fact is that in order not to argue, I asked him to bring me to my house when he got off. I called him out of anger but he no longer answers me and he sent me a message that he can’t handle any more dramas in his life that he didn’t feel like talking to me and that’s why he didn’t answer me and that we would talk, I assume he’s breaking up with me? What I do? It really made me feel very bad
Micaela Gomez
03/06/2019
Hello, how can I help my partner who has lost his brother?
Ana Maria
01/23/2019
My boyfriend is in mourning, his mother died, how can I help him overcome his loss, he no longer wants to live, he is very depressed, help me help him. He is 39 years old. and his mother died on December 23
01/29/2019
Hello Ana María, first of all, thank you for trusting and telling us about your experience. Your boyfriend is facing the loss of his mother, so it is normal for him to feel sadness and apathy. You can help him by listening to him without judging, supporting him and encouraging him to seek support from people he trusts. I also encourage you to find a professional who can help you.
Greetings.
sarah
01/23/2019
Hello, a week ago my husband’s ex died, we have been married for two years and he was separated from her for three years, but this death has isolated my husband a lot from me, he becomes more and more absent, he doesn’t talk much with me, sometimes he tells me that he doesn’t feel like talking to me with love, he is with his friends all the time, if I say something it bothers him, he lives in the USA and I live in Mexico, we see each other every week, but it’s horrible to be on this side and not I know what to do my patience is running out. How to handle this reaction of my husband’s grief… he becomes very indifferent to me… and with his friends he feels sheltered and that makes me very bad because he doesn’t with me…
01/29/2019
Hello Sara, first of all, thank you for trusting and telling us your experience. Your husband is facing a change in his life due to the death of a close person and the relationship between the two is becoming complicated. I recommend that you empathize with his pain and offer him a space and time in which he can express himself and be heard without being judged. If the situation continues to make you uncomfortable, I encourage you to look for a professional who can help you.
Greetings.
MIREYA DEL ROCÍO LÓPEZ RAMÍREZ
01/17/2019
How can I help my partner grieving the loss of his father. He is very sad
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01/21/2019
Maybe you can find some helpful ideas in the article you comment on.
Sonya
01/12/2019
We just found out about my partner’s father and I see how he is going through it and he tells me when a person doesn’t have a bad time and his mother also worries me.
Maryury Corrales
11/08/2018
How can I help my partner overcome or what words should I use so that he can gradually get out of the depression that he feels at times about the death of his wife because he feels that way because he says I had everything, my family had everything in my house and now I spend my and my children’s needs.
Thank you