There is something that is not so simple at first glance: finding your place in the world, that is, being aware that you are at the point where you would like to be, living with the certainty that you would not change your situation for anyone else’s. However, in searching for the right path you may have had the feeling of being out of place, that is, of not being satisfied. How can you discover what is your vocation?
First of all, giving time to time. However, not letting the years pass in a position of dissatisfaction. There are people who realize in the maturity that they have wasted many years doing something that did not make them happy. Luckily, it’s never too late to start over, so don’t settle.
On the other hand, you cannot delegate your responsibility to be happy in the hands of third parties. Some people behave as if they were waiting for an unexpected miracle to happen to break the monotony. For example, there are girls who live waiting for a prince charming to transform their present. You are the driving force of your life, therefore, it is in your hands to decide where you want to be, where you want to walk and what people you want to accompany you on this adventure.
To find your place you have to banish prejudices and also have autonomy from your own family and what others may think. The most important thing is what you believe about yourself, therefore, be honest and authentic. To find your place in the world, you may have to make many changes in case your current life has little to do with your desired and dreamed life. Life is a fascinating adventure and this search is what makes any experience meaningful.
This article is merely informative, at Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.