I am going to tell you several cases, one of whom said that she wanted to get married because otherwise she would remain single all her life. At 28 years old, she only married civilly and did not go to live with the guy, but rather, like her father, He gave permission that with money from her work he would build his room but in the same house as his parents but independent with his bathroom, the guy was about 1.90 meters tall and after three months he changed, he first arrived at 5, 5 :30 pm from work after three months I started to arrive at 10 and 11:30 pm, sometimes other times at 1, 2 in the morning drunk, one day a police station called because the man had crashed the car at 2 in the morning and he was drunk and the father-in-law had to go look for him, so she told him well we can’t continue like this anymore if you are going to continue with that crazy way of living of arriving drunk and saying that you are going to your friends then keep doing it But we got divorced, since you embarrass me with my family, so the divorce turns out that the guy had another woman he was going to party with.
Another woman, after being a good secretary in a good position, manages to be given an apartment for her marriage where she lives with another guy equal to or worse than the previous one, who after having three children and living with her for almost 15 years, starts to arrive at her apartment some invoices for some furniture, then some invoices for a refrigerator and stove and she is surprised and says but I haven’t bought that and I already have my furniture and refrigerator and stove, she sees that the invoices have the exact address where she lives and in her name, and she goes to the store where said purchases were made and tells them, look, I didn’t buy this and they tell her, ma’am, a man came and said to send it to this address but the purchase would be paid for by that person. which she put on the invoice because it will be paid by her savings bank and she told her to give her the address where they sent those things and she left, she arrived at the place, she knocked on the door and a woman came out and said, look, you are charging me. some furniture purchases, refrigerator and kitchen, I don’t know her and the woman says, hey, my husband bought that for me, who is your husband? His name was so-and-so, it was the same husband of hers, that is, the guy had another wife and he intended or was going to furnish the house at the expense of the work of the mother of his three children and wife of the other woman he had, the guy worked as truck driver and spent from a month to three months without arriving at the house of the mother of his three children. After that, she made the decision to do the house, change the lock on the door and the other woman said that she was not going to leave him because she loved him very much and that he was the father of her child too.
In conclusion, as they say, each head is a world and we have to take a close look at who we are going to live with, since sometimes we think we know a person and it turns out that we know nothing and I imagine that these types of people are the ones who end up telling their partners who have mental problems to go to the psychiatric hospital and things like that, if they don’t want to see that reality, unfortunately, when we put feelings ahead of our self-defense.