I find it quite interesting, I am already quite “cold” with all those who are not from my main family circle. I mention this because I am attracted to a girl who is the complete opposite of me, I feel like she surpasses me and it makes me feel relaxed talking (listening to her talk to be more precise) with her.
I was always very cold, I don’t know why, but I recommend it to those who have suffered a heartbreak or who are in love. If it was a heartbreak, get out of your head that you need that person, dedicate yourself to improving your skills, to putting better order in your life, to progress in every way. If it is a crush and you don’t want to feel that way (like me), interact with that person, it will sound contradictory but there is a catch in this, with this you must look for their flaws, you must focus on that and, perhaps, you can fall out of love with that person. I’ve already done the falling out of love thing 2 times and it worked, with this one now it will be 3. I recommend that if you are insecure, talk to someone you trust who you are sure will not judge you.
Thank you for reading.