ENURESIS
Definition: Urinating involuntarily beyond the age at which we take control of the bladder, which is between four and six years.
Technical: 4th Embryonic Stage.
Conflict of brutal separation and constellation of territory: The manic phase is a conflict of “organization” in the territory, the depressive phase is marking of territory.
It can also be the epileptoid seizure of a territory marking conflict.
Biological sense: We must mark the territory in a context of great fear (a territory that I cannot control or organize and in which we feel helpless).
Conflict: Affectation of the two bladder relays in the brain (left and right).
Feeling of guilt and isolation in a child who does not dare to live his life anymore.
It can cause a fluid conflict that later affects the kidney.
Brutal separation conflict in relation to sexuality and father.
“Daddy won’t take care of me anymore«.
«I feel separated from my father«.
Positioning before the birth of a younger brother (family territory).
Fear of the child of not being protected by the father in a conflict related to the ancestors.
URINARY INCONTINENCE
Definition: Loss of bladder control and corresponding involuntary urination.
For infant incontinence the term enuresis is used.
Technical: 4th Embryonic Stage. Conflict of fear and territory, as well as years of repressed emotions.
Biological sense: Related on the one hand, with the marking of territory.
The act of marking the territory with the urinary odor is ancestral. On the other hand, it has the meaning of expelling “residual emotions”, due to the relationship between liquids and emotions. And finally, it has an important relationship with fear, because when there is danger, the body releases ballast to be able to fight or flee, both are difficult with a full bladder.
Conflict: Conflict of fear in the territory (marking my territory), added to years of repressed emotions that we must release yes or yes.
Bio-Emotional Dictionary. (Joan Marc Vilanova Pujó)
urinary incontinence, this uncontrollable and unconscious release of negative emotions that urine represents can be a means of receiving more attention and affection. The underlying cause of this may be a feeling of rejection, of being worthless, of insecurity, of being afraid of the future. Urine represents negative emotions normally released when they are no longer needed or wanted. This often nocturnal release indicates a conflict at a deeper level and of which I am not even aware. Being unable to “control” the loss of urine or stool, I am unable to control what happens in my life, particularly emotions, and this scares me. It is important that these inner fears and insecurities are expressed. I can also let go of things or people I love too easily, without having the courage or strength to go looking for what I want. Having many expectations in front of life, I am disappointed and I “let go”, this can be both in relation to my body and my mind. Great fear or nervousness can also cause incontinence, especially in children. I become aware that it is impossible to control everything that happens in my life. I learn to trust and I learn to love the new and the unexpected.
PIPI IN THE BED” (see also: INCONTINENCE)
The fact of letting go during sleep informs me about certain emotions of fear or fear that my son experiences against authority from parents or school. If I am this son who lives incontinencePerhaps for me, it is a way to release the emotions (represented by urine) that I repress throughout the day, often because I am afraid of being punished or for fear of upsetting others and not being loved. Just like the animals that mark their territory with their urine, the same I, as a child, can unconsciously feel the same need to operate in the same way, as if to define my “little territory as a child” because I am afraid that they will take it from me or violate it, living like this a lot of insecurity. My insecurity will also be increased if they make me sleep in the dark. As a child, I can experience a feeling of intense separation in front of someone or something I love, and it is as if, during the night, I asked for “help” because I need “warmth”. Therefore, as a parent or educator, I must become aware of the child’s sensitivity to authority, help him free himself from my excessive authority with words of love that transform him into increased confidence.
The Great Dictionary of ailments and diseases by Jacques Martel
ENURESIS AND URINARY INCONTINENCE
BIODESCODING: FEAR, SEPARATION AND TERRITORY
From a strictly biological point of view, all diseases or anomalies related to the urine They are related to territorial conflicts, be it marking, loss or territorial organization. The biological meaning of urine is enough to observe the behavior of any dog when it roams open spaces, is to leave a mark, the mark, on something that we want others to know belongs to us. It is a biological resource. Deep down, let’s not forget, we are still biological organisms, bearers of memories, resources and ancient instincts.
From the Biological Decoding we must bear in mind that the enuresis it always implies the coexistence of two active emotional conflicts. It is, therefore, a constellation of the cerebral cortex in which a conflict occurs with connotations of fear or security in the territory and another of marking or territorial delimitation.
Sometimes the enuresis It occurs in a context of abrupt and unexpected separation suffered by the children. It is very common for this disease to begin to manifest itself when divorces or separations occur. The new family situation that arises leads the children to feel in a distressing way the separation or departure from home of one of the parents, usually the father. Alternating children in joint custody, some days with the mother and others with the father, does not usually mitigate the emotional catastrophe. From this territorial dislocation an intense emotional conflict of not knowing their place or who they belong to, the father or the mother, can emerge. That is where the nuances that make up the cerebral constellation from which the brain arises come into play. enuresis. On the one hand, the desire to mark and delimit a territory that is not the usual one in which they develop their lives, a new home that they still do not feel as their own, in which it seems that they are only visiting from time to time, where they still not taken root On the other hand, the anguishing sensation of separation, mainly referring to the parent who left or had to leave the family home and who is no longer part of their daily lives, although there is periodic occasional contact.
In cases of marital separation, children can suffer a serious emotional conflict because they interpret that the father no longer takes care of them as before or that they cannot count on him, simply because they do not feel his presence or the affection to which they were accustomed. . They manifest that separation and that anguish through the enuresis which often arises in children who until then had not presented this problem because their emotional situation prior to divorce or separation was very different. However, the absence of one of the parents can only be emotional and unleash the same emotional conflict of separation in the children or not feel that they can count on the support and affection they need.
This same coexistence of the two emotional conflicts – security and organization within the territory, on the one hand, and territorial delimitation and marking, on the other – is also frequently manifested in cases of dethroned prince syndrome. The arrival of a second child can make the eldest feel separated, dethroned. He loses the absolute role that until then he had before his parents and experiences the “intrusion” of the newborn as a threat of territorial loss, a danger that unleashes the unconscious desire to mark or delimit what he considers his space. There is no doubt that the dethroned prince faces this situation alone and with fear.
On the other hand, other times that conflicting combination of security and territorial delimitation that causes enuresis is referred to the child’s fear of one of the parents, especially the father. The enuresis it always shows that the child who suffers from it represses his emotions. She can’t find the way out to express her anxieties and her fears. Children who feel the anguish of not meeting the expectations placed on them. In other, less frequent cases, the conflict behind enuresis is not separation anxiety, but precisely the child’s desire to keep someone away. This circumstance occurs when, for example, a boy or a girl has been abused -not necessarily raped- by another person, normally belonging to the family nucleus. The enuresiswith the dirt and stench that accompanies it, represents in these cases a biological barrier, an unconscious attempt to dissuade and drive away the abuser.
The study and analysis of all these nuances and of the family situation that surrounds the child are essential to successfully carry out the biological decoding of the enuresis. Only from the search and location of the underlying emotional conflicts is it possible to proceed to their correct decoding and, therefore, to the definitive cure. It is essential that parents and, from adolescence, also children who suffer from enuresis become fully aware of the situation and of the triggering emotional conflicts in order to adopt the appropriate corrective measures to neutralize this problem.
Source: Jesus Casla
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