Soul
09/27/2022
My partner wants to know every detail of what I do and everything is criticized and not approved, I got frustrated and decided to set limits but it is difficult because even though I tell him how I feel, the one who is still wrong will always be me. He has 5 of the 9 aspects.
No to psychological abuse.
03/22/2022
The worst thing is if it happens to someone close to you, like a friend of yours.
Rosy
12/19/2021
My partner meets 6 of the 9 points mentioned, I don’t have the courage to leave him, I’m 2 months pregnant, I really don’t know what to do, I do want to be with him and according to him he also wants to be with me, but sometimes he makes me doubt it, I’m afraid of what may happen in the future 💔😪
Manuel
04/22/2021
My girlfriend literally meets 8 of the 9 points mentioned in the article, I don’t know what to do now. She has even physically attacked me. I just want to be with her well and happy and for her to be happy. My family no longer accepts or approves of our relationship and I feel like I am getting further and further away from them and friends. I’m not able to leave her because I can’t imagine being without her but every day she finds less value in the things I do.
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JEAN PAUL
05/21/2021
It is very overwhelming not to be able to leave your partner because of your feelings or emotions… In reality, you love that person no matter what and endure anything.
Fran
06/29/2021
I recommend you get out of there now, I was the same as you, in fact I’m still here and it’s getting worse, I only feel contempt towards my partner, but I’m unemployed and I have two small children, so it also violates me financially, it’s very difficult to leave, but do it now!
Raul
08/08/2023
Something very similar happens to me, although everyone on some occasion if they push us too hard we fulfill some points, but it is worrying when your partner systematically puts up all kinds of obstacles claiming that it is his way, his character and that if you don’t like the woman you have, leave. house, if we are well we can do it but the truth is depending again and again on a person and their continuous variations
July
10/04/2020
Super recommended, this article is very helpful…
María Dolores Mercedes González
09/14/2020
Just. About experiencing an episode at the door of a friend, with whom we were chatting casually, since we had not seen each other for a long time. We had a good time of laughing and talking when the husband came out, forcing her to enter his house saying that he was a lot of time chatting, humiliating her to get inside now!!! Thinking he was joking, I was stunned and asked him if he was serious and he closed the door…apparently these humiliating attitudes are not the first time, it has also happened with other friends…it makes me panic to think, if this does it in public what won’t she do in private, in fact she has stopped coming down when it is time to meet the dogs in the park…she has taken it away…how should we act?
Yveth
08/05/2020
I have been in a relationship with my partner for 5 years and 2 years ago we already lived together, we had a 3-month-old daughter and my partner works due to his career and at the moment I did not study a career, now I only take care of him and my baby.. Well, now that he has another job, I see him more differently. He doesn’t want to. He doesn’t want to. His family sometimes talks badly about my mother. I get along well with his mother. However, every visit he wants to make is his family, so I said I wouldn’t want to go. He gets upset and doesn’t talk to me or you make me feel less because I don’t want to go to his family anymore. He even calls me ignorant, because I don’t know anything. I have to know how to express myself. I don’t know what he could do. We didn’t get married for reasons that there wasn’t much money yet and he’s just in a better job..because of the pandemic. I’m waiting for his response, thank you..
Naomi
07/03/2020
I have been with my partner for 6 years, lately he treats me very ugly, he tells me that I am no good for anything, that I am an old woman, that I am a sharp daughter, he tells me that I am ugly, that if I leave him, he won’t help me with the children, right now I don’t count. with a job I can do
Yudy Mendez
01/16/2020
I had a 15-month relationship where I decided to end it, because he offended me a lot, he treated me as if I were the worst woman, he only saw the bad in me, he told me that I was not a good woman but that he loved me, not anymore. I held on longer and finished, then I looked for him and he told me that he didn’t want to be with me because he was too jealous and didn’t trust me. 4 months passed and he looked for me to tell me that he loved me but that he preferred to continue without me, and well we continued seeing each other without any commitment, one night while asleep he took my cell phone and unlocked it and I got angry because I had worn a bathing suit on a beach in Chocó, Because I had deleted my WhatsApp and I didn’t have all the chats saved from 4 months ago, he told me that I was a liar, that I was an embarrassment to him and that poor husband that I managed to get. And he told me that there were two solutions, one was to help him stay away from me and not look for me because he loved me and knew he would, and the second was to continue sleeping while he finished his vacation and went to another city. I cried and I felt so bad, he is 11 years younger than me, he is 24 years old and I am 35, he is finishing his studies in another city, I live with my two children, I am a professional and I have a good job, I don’t I am a bad woman, but the simeore tells me that for him I am not, and that I can be studied and have many achievements, but I am a liar and a woman who cannot see a man because I melt. All of this hurts me, because I love that boy and he doesn’t realize how much I love him. I feel very bad, sometimes I would like to look for him and beg him, but then I remember everything he tells me and I think that that is not love, or perhaps as he says, it is a sick love.
I need your advice and help. I am not perfect and at the beginning of the relationship I had mistakes like not telling him things on time, but I never failed him nor did he look at strange messages or calls, I was very loyal to him. I love him with all this pain I feel. He is very serious, I kept calm with him because he always told things as they were, I told him that he would change what was stupid and offensive and we could be fine, but he told me that this was something that he could change whenever he wanted, he is too jealous, too much Even my way of dressing told me whatever, he didn’t like me going to the gym, he would travel with no one other than him. And it has been very difficult for him to stop being offensive, and how his words hurt. Help me and tell me if I should fight for it or it is better to leave. I don’t know what to do, I feel like my heart is dying, he tells me that he loves me too much but that he is aware that he hurts me, but that he doesn’t want to be with me because he lives uneasily, he says that I am a very beautiful woman, very social and that I am a liar and he hates lies.
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The A
02/12/2021
Leave him, arm yourself with courage, look at your children and realize that he doesn’t really love you and when he has another one he will leave, he doesn’t respect you or value you.
Ariel
10/09/2019
Is it possible that the abused person feels like the abuser after a long period of coexistence and mimicking the situation of abuse?
Valeria
06/24/2019
I think my partner is being violent with me, nothing I do is right for him even if I try.
SOLE AGUDO WALKER
04/27/2019
Hello, my partner makes me feel bad with his tone of voice on several occasions, he insults me, disrespects me and sometimes even doesn’t listen to me, it’s almost always what he wants it to be, he gets angry if I tell him one day in advance. I don’t feel like doing something with him, like the simple act of going for a run, he gets angry if I bring the shopping bag with a knot, instead of telling me, thank you for telling me what I asked of you, if we go to the mountains to Climbing screams at me so much that I get nervous and I can’t understand what he’s telling me. One time when I was camping, I was cold and snoring. He woke me up by talking to me terribly. Why didn’t he massage me and I stopped snoring? It’s like it bothered him. all the time, one day his daughter told him, dad, you don’t yell at your friends… and he even spoke badly to his daughter one day when we were watching a movie and she asked him a question and he responded rudely, fell down We are watching TV, he never tells me like the first few months how pretty you look, you are unique, never, and I usually make myself pretty, sometimes I don’t want to go to his house because I feel uncomfortable, it is psychological abuse, one night He told me that he didn’t understand what I saw in him, he was drunk and he also told me that if he was looking at other guys while he went out to smoke…
Zors
03/11/2019
Too easy
Anonymous
11/16/2018
Hello, I suffer from psychological abuse… my partner is always ridiculing me and makes fun of me in public. He always likes to contradict me. It reduces my capabilities.. I feel that this is destroying me. I am not the same person as before. I no longer feel happy.
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11/19/2018 Hello, good morning.
From what you tell me, it seems to me that it is time for you to make a decision. First of all, you have to recognize your value yourself and realize that if he is treating you this way it is to make you believe that you are worth very little and that makes you feel unworthy of him and not have the courage to leave him. I recommend that in order for you to be able to do it, you work on yourself and increase your self-esteem that you have been destroying since once you do it you will see that it will not cost you anything to leave it.
Remember that a relationship is there to make us grow and not to destroy us.
JESSICA
11/12/2018
Hello, three days ago I was traveling with my boyfriend, we had just reconciled with more than a month of having a very good relationship, however he got drunk on the first day of the trip and insulted me with grotesque words and many insults, on the other day he said he didn’t remember anything. Since then I have been very saddened and depressed by what happened but I have doubts if this case applies to violence or should I forgive him, give you another chance, I have known him for two years and he had never shown himself to be abrupt or rude and under the effects of the drink he never did. I had seen him like this, I told him that we could not continue with the relationship but sadness invaded me because I did not want to separate from him. What should I do?
daniela rodriguez
10/21/2018
I have been a psychologically abused person by my partner. I don’t know how to get out of this and I need help.