Juanmi
07/02/2023
Years ago I could understand that it was so difficult for me because of my problems with alcohol and so on, and because of that being overweight, I changed many things in my life first for my health because health always has to be above everything and second to try to have a better future both mentally and socially, today the only thing I can say is that I have left everything that was harmful to me such as drinking and smoking and from weighing 90 kilos to having weighed around 65 for many years. If everything bad can be left behind, I imagine that the good can also be achieved.
Jesus
05/02/2023
I am 22 years old and my mind betrays me a lot, hurting me by thinking that I am not enough for someone, because most of my friends and loved ones have a partner and I am still the only one who is not enjoying a relationship at this stage of my life. life, because no one notices me if I am more sociable, I have my responsibilities and daily activities. It’s horrible when your mind lowers your self-esteem and you think that you will never have anyone, no matter how great a person you are and how much better you are every day, when someone you are interested in or like does not show you love and affection for your qualities. Then I usually feel bad about myself for thinking if a woman can be interested in someone as thin and not as tall as others are, even if I exercise, play sports, and eat well. For these reasons I no longer know whether to keep trying and just focus on my studies and activities, and see if someone becomes interested in me as time goes by.
Jahir Alfaro
04/30/2023
Unfortunately I do struggle to get a girlfriend.
Sky blue
12/11/2022
The truth is that it is very frustrating to know what it costs for one to have at least one in five hundred simple opportunity to meet someone. The truth is I’m only 20 years old but I still get very frustrated because maybe I’m not as equal. to all young people today, the majority do have an easy social life, couples, friends, etc. In my case it is not like that and being surrounded by those types of people that you see that they do have and you realize that it is difficult for you just frustrates even more, since at my age many people have already had some relationship or the they have at this moment and I have even tried to search on the internet but things only get worse, two men just played with me and got me excited and then said that everything was not true and something that sometimes makes me wonder if I am not destined to find a person with whom I could fit in and not only seek satisfaction like today, so the only idea that I have seen the most so far is: love myself more and completely cut myself off and resign myself to the illusion of meeting someone and getting used to it and stay calm but very happy, loving myself and continuing to enjoy youth since another idea in favor does not work, so success for all of you, I see that it has also been difficult for you, but that is before wishing you that you find a good person, I wish you to also be happy, since first of all it is giving priority to yourself.
Lisa
08/20/2022
I am 32 years old. I had a beautiful relationship that ended in 2015. And I have been alone since then.
I’m about to give up and seriously assume that I already knew love and that it will never happen to me again.
I would like to be able to repress that human need that we bring of wanting to have a partner. It doesn’t do me any good. But hey, that’s life. Seriously, maybe I gave up.
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HELBER VELASQUEZ
08/31/2022
I’M ALMOST 40, AND I’VE NEVER HAD A PARTNER, SOMETIMES IT HURTS! BUT I HAVE ALREADY RESIGNED MYSELF TO SOLITUDE
Traveler
08/14/2022 Better to give up, falling in love is for beautiful people or people with money, others do not have the right to fall in love because they do not meet the physical and economic demands.
Good luck with the difficult journey called life.
sora
03/05/2022
Hello, I am 39 years old, I am professional, with good feelings, a good profile and I am single. I consider that I have lowered the level of demand. I have accepted my singleness with patience, I am a believer in God and I think at the right time the man with whom I can form a home will arrive.
I have read the information material and I consider at first glance that I do not have the problems raised, because I am sociable, I easily start conversations and I am usually empathetic, I was accepted as I am, however, I am still alone.
I look around me and feel the years go by and I’m still alone. It gives me some frustration not having a family of my own, that is, my husband and baby. However, I am the one who takes on life with the biggest smile.
I think I’m not doing something right, even though I want with all my soul to have a husband and be a mother, for some reason I haven’t achieved it yet.
I’m looking for help because I really need my family. Sometimes I avoid it to avoid getting depressed, which is why I tend to busy myself with work and always be optimistic.
Thank you for your contributions to help those of us who are alone and want to have a stable partner.
God bless you.
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Yesith
03/09/2022
I live the same story every year, I say that this year I did find my better half but this year I felt like it won’t come anymore. Now that I am 39 years old without having children or a family, living alone because my closest relatives are far away, I feel a sensation of having wasted my youth. at least we are now 2 with the same story
sora
03/10/2022
Yes, patience. You can never lose hope. If others have achieved it, so can we
Hernan
04/21/2022
The same happens to me. I think that some people are not born to be in a relationship in this life. We have everything we need and nothing. On the other hand, other people with less have their ideal partner. Only God knows why.
Arturo Aguilera
03/21/2023
Hello Sora, I am a Christian, I have an 11-year-old son and I think the same as you, if we are of the same faith and get to know each other if you are interested and it is not too late😃 I would like to meet you. May God bless you and multiply you
Enrique
07/19/2023
We all have in mind getting the best Person, the more the years go by the more difficult it is…, however we must never let our guard down and continue with what we dream of, having a nice Family, Children, house and pets, I know that with time and patience better things will come for everyone, loneliness is not the best ally, going out with friends is good, work and doing what we like is part of life, looking for what we like is basic to living Better, these are my tips…
Gabriel
02/11/2022
It’s been a while since I’ve been with a woman, a partner… I live alone. And I feel that society at this point is not good… I suffer a lot from not having a partner. And I am very sad because of that
Daniela MF
09/06/2021
Hello, well, I am the same as all of you, I am 27 years old, I feel that I am above average, I have studies, a good job, I do not consider myself ugly, I am understanding, hard-working, I have a lot to give, I would like a family, not to feel so alone, because almost everyone I know already has children or a partner and well I don’t. The truth is I haven’t had that many partners, the few I have had haven’t left me with good experiences and maybe my fear is experiencing the same thing again and I don’t know where else to look, or I don’t know whether to look or give up now.
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Yesith Sanch
03/09/2022
Hello, I can relate, sometimes the people I know tell me that they envy me just for having a good job or the material things I have, but they really can’t imagine living alone in a house every day without having a person to talk to. I’ve tried to coincide with someone someday but something always happens it seems like I don’t have the right to fall in love someday and I try to avoid friends and family who know little about me so that they don’t ask me about my love life because it’s hard for me to tell the truth. I don’t have anyone at 34 years old. It’s hard to know that at your age and everyone I know already has a partner or at least has children even though they are without a partner and I have nothing, it’s very depressing to live without family and alone
Enrique
07/19/2023
Fear is the worst enemy in relationships, what happens happens, experiences help us grow and know what we do not want in our lives…, although there are times when we stumble, but falling is not bad, when we were children We fell many times…, we learned and so we did not fall again, I think it is a good life lesson that we must move forward no matter what happens, the time of life is very short, we only have a one-way trip and many times we stop and miss the beautiful things that are out there, never give up, many times the opportunities are in front of us and we realize, it is worth continuing to fight =)
John Fernando Ochoa
08/22/2021
In reality I had always thought that happiness depended on oneself, but as time has passed I felt the need to find a special person, it is difficult to need someone to complement your life, but we were born with the need to be loved and loved ones.
Despite my good status and behavior, it has been very difficult for me to find a partner because it is very difficult for other people to understand your points of view on life. Nowadays it is very difficult to find mature people with their shoes on well. As the Bible says, sometimes we give bread and they give us back a stone, we give fish and they give us snakes back.
Unfortunately harsh reality.
Saya Garcia
07/27/2021
I have read some emails here.
I read the article and well, it doesn’t have the answer I need or want to read.
Apparently I’m not that ugly, but still, it’s hard for me to find someone. I don’t know, I’m too lazy to waste time, now many guys only have a brain because it’s part of the anatomy to carry it,
I also find it silly to date guys who are too intellectual, they bore me.
I hate those who are too funny.
Well, really, it is difficult that as time goes by, humans become more distrustful and bitter. It hurts me, but I accept that this is happening to me.
I know that happiness doesn’t depend on anyone but yourself, but it’s a bit annoying to know that all your friends have a home and one doesn’t.
I would like to have my own family unit… But not because I am desperate would I put any man as the father of my offspring.
In these times it is difficult to find someone who is spiritual, far from materialism.
Sad but true
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John Fernando Ochoa
08/21/2021
I very much agree with your attitude and comments, society is advancing more and more and everything is becoming more unserious.
Robert
08/23/2021
It is sad but true, finding love is difficult, and even if people don’t like it, but when you like someone, if that person doesn’t like you no matter how much you want, nothing is going to happen and sadly, love sometimes enters first through the eyes and I’m not just saying it, but I’ve proven it, I don’t have a romantic partner either, well I’ve never had one hahahahaha, greetings and good morning.
sandra
07/04/2021 Well…