JAVIER MENDEZ
04/27/2022
Hello, I have two problems, I hope you can help me solve them:
1.- I want to know how I can change my way of being so negative, that is, stop being so pessimistic, I have never really been able to be positive, like others, everything always goes wrong for me, or at least, not how I do it. I hope or wish
2.–The other problem is how can I stop being Shy and overcome the fear of approaching a woman and telling her that I love her and want her?
wenifer
09/10/2021
because I fell in love with someone who liked me at one time and now has a girlfriend
Brayan Daniel Montano Hernandez
06/22/2021
I have liked my best friend for a long time, I knew she didn’t feel the same but we both took a trip and on this trip I told her that I liked her (My worst mistake knowing her feelings) and now she is moving away from me, I miss her a lot, and I would like to recover at least the friendship since I consider her to be a person special enough to leave my feelings aside and be able to be with her at least as friends. This happened 2 months ago and mentally I am worse since I think about it every day almost all day, the topic is already exhausting me. We haven’t been able to talk because she doesn’t want to, 3 weeks ago she told me to keep our distance for a while while everything calms down. but I feel like that’s losing her
Daniel
03/08/2021
Hello, for some time now I have begun to feel something for my friend and roommate, for a long time people have told us that we make a great couple when something happens between us. Even we ourselves have said that we know we would make a good couple but we are friends. This turning point seems to be starting to be a little different for me, I see that I feel good with her, I like spending time with her and we have many things in common, but I always think that there is a spark or a trigger missing for me. That could be true since, so to speak, I see that the matter is very much in the friend zone. I also don’t want to risk everything for something that may be temporary. In short, we spend all our time together, since we also live with a couple who spend most of their time together, so we have ended up making it together. So right now I think I feel like exploding on a emotional level because I don’t know how to deal with these emotions.
Victory
02/06/2021
I have read this explanation and I am very grateful. If I agree, I am afraid of getting emotionally involved and my imagination recreates what is ideal. Thank you.
Anonymous
10/29/2020
Hello, I am a man and I am 35 years old. In my adolescence I had some girlfriends but then everything was like a curse, I thought I would find the person I had always hoped for but they always cheat on me, or just when I start to believe that I am going to have a relationship suddenly the person changes, I have realized I realize that they always use me to make others jealous. Loneliness is killing me. The women I have been with always bring up on Facebook that they have had to suffer in love. I wonder, does he really not realize what he is doing to me? I’m already tired of always repeating the same thing over and over, and over and over again.
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Val
01/21/2021
Hello, don’t get down if you believe in God, trust him, he knows when to put the right person in your life. Seek the love of God first and everything else will come in addition. Bless you
MariaCastro
07/03/2020
Good morning, I would like to know how I can maintain a friendship with my ex if I still like him but he doesn’t want anything to do with me and we live in the same house in a separate room.
Anonymous
02/07/2020
It is normal to fall in love with another person, only that love is optional, whether it is two hearts or just one heart and the other does not, do not cling to a person, that is bad, it is hurting yourself, I advise if a person does not love you and tells you in person it is It is better to respect the other person’s decision and walk away, someone will arrive who truly falls in love, love comes and goes and very few couples love each other and they really last, others due to more personal problems move away, one falls in love, the other doesn’t feel anything because he doesn’t. loves the best and recommends walking away, if you have the strength, don’t beg, that’s not good, stay away from that person so you don’t get hurt. For example, if a battery doesn’t work and it’s out of energy and no matter how hard you try, the device won’t work, press and nothing and they insist the same thing happens in a relationship do not insist if you do not want to end there are women who get ahead alone and do not need a man to be happy a couple here what makes you happy is to be yourself and achieve achievements like having family friends and having a job or studying doesn’t make it any less important for you to have a partner or to tell yourself that I’m alone or alone because everything is done with patience and in due time. If you have strength and love each other, it’s better to stay away and if you really find love, take care of it, because just like that, no more. There are couples who are unfaithful and that is bad and there are consequences such as losing an ideal partner or relationship and that in the end you lose true love you lose everything so that’s it and as I already said if not find love keep going a couple doesn’t make anyone happy they only think about each other they can feel in company but everyone does their own activities
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unfaithful never
08/17/2022
a lot of text, sorry
Irma
01/18/2020
I fell in love with my daughter’s father… our love was beautiful, cute, he did many things for me, we lived very beautiful moments… but after we had our daughter, everything changed. But he left, he didn’t understand what had happened… they spent 2 years apart and we came back, I thought he really wanted to be with us and my happy daughter adores her father… for my part, I love him with all my heart… but he It doesn’t show that he’s getting worse and worse and he breaks my heart twice as much with his attitude and his words.
Ana
10/12/2019
I fell in love with my teacher, he is beautiful but he is also brilliant but he is married and he is a Christian…I feel like I love him but it is impossible. We are the same age but he is very serious and I told him what I feel. He hugged me and told me that we should be friends and that he will be there for me but he showed me his ring…while he tells me that I am his best student that I am capable, intelligent, brilliant, I am pretty, what surprises him? My husband tells me that I am a failure, that I am stupid, that I am ugly, that I am no good… but I can’t stop thinking about it, I already found his FB and I keep looking at his photos… and thinking about it day and night…it’s true that my grades are the best but sometimes I just go to be close to him…oh God!
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anttone
01/05/2020
The reality you live is sad. You are a woman and that makes you very special and important. I don’t blame you for how you feel about your teacher, because who doesn’t like to listen or feel valued. However, that illusion that nestles in your heart, in the end it hurts you more because the reality is different. Meditate in your life on who you are and what you are worth, never accept in your mind that you are no good because someone tells you so…my greetings and respects.
chirly lombana
10/08/2019
This alone hurts so much that I have become negative, I am not distant and lonely, this alone changes many aspects despite only being an impossible love but if one comments on it it seems a bit silly in reality that is why it is better not to say anything and just ignore the fact and try to not pay so much attention to what I feel
Fernando guevara
09/14/2019
Why doesn’t my partner want to have sex with me? She’s always tired. She feels bad. Suddenly she gets angry and scratches her left wrist with metal. Suddenly she feels sad and she’s always worrying about her older sisters and suddenly she feels like crying and An uncle or family member talks to her and she talks nice to her and she falls in love with whoever and gets angry with me. I’m her partner. Anything makes her angry and she’s not very affectionate with me. We’ve been living together for 9 years. Can you tell me why she acts like this?
Andres Gpe. Martinez Quiroga
05/31/2019
I really like a girl for 9 years, at the beginning we had a very nice friendship, everything was going very well, until her attitude began to change, she no longer answered my messages, and she avoided my conversations because of Messinguer, without any reason, the last time I saw her and said hello, but she ignored me, my question is: what do I do?
Mario
05/30/2019
Since I was a child I have felt in love but not with a specific person, I feel the need to have someone by my side, but I have not been able to find that person in whom I feel is the person I have always loved
Martha
03/19/2019
Everything you say is true. I’ve spent my entire life fixating on someone who doesn’t reciprocate because I have very low self-esteem. To overcome it you have to raise your self-esteem again.
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