Philip
09/29/2023
A few years ago everything was different, now I have stopped communicating with my family, those I love, I only talk to my mother, I stopped going out and when I go out I feel like I am not in my habitat. I don’t know if it’s dysthymia or depression, however, I usually go out, walk, but sometimes I don’t want to do anything; They usually visit me but I remain silent, I feel like there is nothing to talk about or change, I value my friends but I think they have stagnated, I would like to talk about science, literature, economics, something more transcendental. I hope I don’t make you uncomfortable, sometimes I don’t want to wash anything, I hope everyone gets better, namaste.
Abigail
08/21/2023
depression
Joaly
08/15/2023
Everything overwhelms me, nothing catches my attention, it’s like living on automatic, I don’t know where the emotions are, it’s a constant feeling of feeling strange, unimportant, I don’t talk, I feel lazy, I feel like it’s not worth doing if In the end what I will say will not be important to the rest, much less to me, I have gone weeks without saying a single word, continuing to chat with someone…
Juliana
11/18/2022
I have problems with socializing and my family and boyfriend expect so much from me that it overwhelms me a lot. When I’m with my boyfriend’s friends I can’t connect with them and they all stay away from me. I’m so serious and I come across as arrogant. I am one of a few very selected friends. I only make friends with people I feel good with. I have problems getting a job because of my attitude
Whenever I have to go to an event or meetings where there are many people. I fear being there and being talked to. I can’t connect with anyone or look them in the eye.
Monica
06/10/2022
I live with my husband and I can only say what he wants to hear, I can’t have my own opinion. I talk to my family but they won’t let me get close to them. I prefer not to talk so he doesn’t get angry.
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Alexander
07/21/2023
You live with a narcissist… inform yourself about the issue and flee as urgently as possible.
Alexander
07/19/2022
In my case, I have never been sociable in my life, I have had less than 5 friends at different times and I end up distancing myself from all of them once I haven’t spoken to them for about a week, I turn the page and I lose all trust; A while ago I graduated from my second university degree and I am moving further and further away from society. Currently, I am teaching university classes, because I did not want to work, I have always been excellent, they always ask me their questions, I have a very good memory, they ask me for advice in the complicated cases, but I simply don’t want to deal with people anymore, I don’t want to go to work, an insecurity and mistrust grew in me that I don’t understand the reason because as I mentioned there is no reason, I don’t want to do anything that has to socialize, I even teach classes because they gave me the online option and I am able to resign if they force me to go in person, I no longer even want to leave the house, it is difficult for me to go buy food, I only talk to my wife, she works in one of the careers that I have, she does not care that I I didn’t leave the house, I always felt strange haha, although it has given me options, for example, to go to another area of the degree, such as laboratories, because I was excellent in those subjects at the university, but even so, I am so distrustful of doing that, trying something new. Having to go out, socialize and prove myself again is like I feel like everyone is going to criticize me or demand a lot from me and I honestly don’t know where that comes from.
roi
05/02/2022
I identify so much with the first paragraph that I feel like I wrote it myself. It literally happens to me often and the worst thing is that I don’t even want to get out of this, it makes me very tired, I’m very tired, I don’t understand myself even a little bit and that exhausts me twice as much, I really want to disappear haha
Virginia
04/28/2022
My problem I don’t know how to treat it anymore. Could someone tell me what’s wrong with me? I only like to talk to my parents, my mom and dad, but with my uncles and cousins and all the people, for example, friends or all of those, I don’t like to talk to them and I feel bad because they always say that I don’t consider them my family and I don’t know what my problem is that they don’t make me want to talk unless it’s with my parents…
Ana
03/26/2022
Hello, I precisely feel that way.
Lucy
03/15/2022
I have finished an exam that I did not manage to pass and now all that happens to me.
Rosy
02/23/2022
I just ended a relationship even though I still love that man, but many differences separate us. And on top of that I have other problems, I am overwhelmed, overwhelmed and that is why I feel better when I am alone in my room, I don’t even feel like talking on WhatsApp. If it weren’t for the fact that I have to work or interact with my family at home, I wouldn’t talk to anyone.
Anonymous
02/18/2022
Hello, I feel the same, I have depression, thanks for the post.
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Anonymous 2
02/19/2022
we are already two XD
Rosa Hernandez
12/14/2021
I can’t relate to the people around me, when I talk to someone I know I feel like I’m talking to them out of obligation but not because I want to; I really like silence, being alone gives me peace of mind as opposed to being surrounded by people, even if they are acquaintances, I feel like they absorb energy from me, I have had the opportunity to love a man, I have been excited many times, I really get so bored with talking and I feel that I must say things carefully analyzing each word, otherwise people tend to see me as if I had said something annoying, even if that’s not the case… I feel good about being so quiet about not having anyone by my side to talk to because if I do, I would be forced to have to talk even if I didn’t feel like it.
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Louise
12/31/2021
I feel totally identified with you when you say: “I feel like I have to say things carefully analyzing each word, otherwise people tend to see me as if I had said something annoying even if that’s not the case…” I have been suffering from depression for almost a year, it started with a family argument between my husband and my son, and from that moment on I can’t get up and I can’t recover, I always tell myself “I’ll wake up better tomorrow, I need more time”, but the next day I wake up the same or worse than the day before. In my case, words are what have made me this way, I see how other people can express themselves how they want and they do not have the pressure that I have in my life to justify everything I say because the cause of my problems is what I say, how I say it, sometimes I think I’m going to stop talking, maybe then my problems will disappear, even if I stop being me, but I cannot allow another human being to destroy me in that way.
Adriana Corona
09/07/2021
For some time now I no longer want to go out at all and when I manage to make an appointment or have an event I always look for a way to cancel if I don’t go out I simply do not want to go out either to the store or some other sale I do not want to talk to the people who They were my friends. I want to be locked up but I’m connected to networks. I still have a cyber life but I’m no longer interested in going out with people. I want to know if it’s depression because I’ve never felt anything like that. I’ve never gotten to the point where I am in my life now where. I don’t want to go out at all where I feel like a nuisance everywhere I go, could someone help me?
Noel
08/15/2021 Hello, good afternoon.
For a few months I have had no desire or desire to see or talk to anyone. Except family and people from the faculty. It’s going to sound a little silly, but I feel like I’m charged with their energy and I don’t want to put up with other people’s problems or their lives. If I have to help someone, I do it but don’t put them in my house or me in anyone else’s.
I don’t feel sad, on the contrary, I feel very happy, confident and eager to focus on my studies, my body and achieving the goals I have set for myself.
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Kari
12/31/2021
That’s exactly how I feel.
Lu
08/09/2022
I feel the same way, I only like to talk to some people (my partner is a fundamental pillar, he is practically the only person with whom I am interested in having endless conversations) and I don’t care much about the rest. I don’t wish them anything bad, I simply have no interest in giving an opinion about other people’s lives that I will never live. I am also willing to help, if necessary, but it happened to me many times that there are people who abuse that and now I set many limits and I only help when I think it is worth it (before I was capable of putting others above me and my needs, I don’t do it anymore and that bothers many, I don’t know why)
I don’t feel sad being like this either, I have managed to focus on myself and the things/people that interest me. The more time I spend away, the better I feel (having sporadic or virtual contacts). And sometimes it depresses me to see certain people again. In those moments I rethink many things, whether it will be okay or not to be like that. It’s like I get depressed by what other people expect of me. I used to make an effort to meet the expectations of others and I no longer do it (I feel good about that, but others demand it from me and that generates a conflict in me, I don’t know how to handle it. Because my intention is not to hurt anyone, but to be myself, without doing things out of obligation or commitment)
Brayan Gomez
07/09/2021
In fact, before I felt very sad and I didn’t feel like talking to anyone because of my low self-esteem. 3 months ago I started going to the gym and I gained more self-confidence but I still don’t feel like talking to someone, it gets boring or they are not topics of my interest. I like to be alone and be in quiet places but somehow it worries me to think that I am moving away from my family, I love them and everything but I don’t want to talk to them either, but even so I don’t want to be ungrateful.
Luzdata
06/17/2021
Not wanting to talk to anyone, I think that’s because I don’t believe in people, I think that the principle of loyalty has ended, everyone seeks their own benefit and convenience. By having friends, you are allowing your children’s life to enter into your life, which makes me uncomfortable that they are asking me about my private life. For this reason, in recent years I have distanced myself a lot from acquaintances and family, even though sometimes I feel alone, I feel the need to call someone and talk a little even though deep down I feel that they do not fulfill me. I am not interested in doing new friends maybe I am wrong in my way of thinking, why deep down I am not happy either, being almost always alone is pleasant, it is a total relaxation but the moment comes when you wonder what happens if the man is fit to live in society
JAIVID PEÑA MORENO
03/25/2021
Excellent recommended..
Santiago
03/23/2021
I never knew how to relate. I have a couple of friends left. But I know how things are going to end very well in advance. Relationships same case. Zero family. And I was bad about that for a long time. Today in a moment of enlightenment I realized that it is more functional for me not to have ties with absolutely anyone than to try and make mistakes. Animals are my thing. Very anxious also the surroundings of the city. Today I realized that the best thing is to accept it. Once you get used to it it’s beautiful. Needless. Sorry. TO…