I read this article avidly, because I see myself portrayed in a certain way by it. I like solitude, I am a married woman, for a long time, and my husband is also a bit lonely, and that is good for me, because I like my space and I really like being alone. He walks in one room and I in another, I knit, I read, I find out what’s going on, I listen to a lot of documentaries, I like crafts, and I spend the day busy and I don’t even have time to want to talk to someone on the phone. Sometimes this seems a little strange to me, because the few friends I have like to talk, go out, and many of them need to communicate with family members every day. None of that happens to me, I live in my world, and I enjoy my solitude. My children are married and I call them from time to time, and although we have a very good relationship, we do not communicate daily.
I wouldn’t want to say it that way so openly, because I may sound like I’m being independent or selfish, but the truth is that I love being alone, I’m not selfish, I help whoever I can and I don’t have hatred or suspicion, nor am I hurt by him. world. I talk to myself, I think and I respond to myself. I don’t feel like I need to constantly associate to feel good. I can be at a party, I reaffirmed, be happy, make jokes and make jokes, but when I get home, I am already the same loner as always. Anyway, I think there will be beings like that, who don’t need to be in constant hustle and bustle and among other people to feel complete. Thank you.
Gabriel
12/08/2020
I consider myself a loner, born since I can remember that I like to be alone, it’s just that it bothers me and I can’t tolerate seeing another person or smelling their smell. I really enjoy reading, writing, and making paintings or sculptures.
My happiest moments in my life were when I sat in the library at home, and later when I was older, I went to the public library.
Yane
07/09/2021
Exactly the same thing happens to me, I even came to believe that I was the only person that this happened to, I don’t even know if it is bad or good, I only know that I am intentionally harming my family and I can’t be there because it is definitely stronger for me. and I can’t control it, many times I try to be different, and I can’t, I also feel selfish, but I can’t find another way of being and my family doesn’t understand it.
Sarah
10/02/2021
How happy it makes me to read that you are like this, I always thought that something was wrong inside me.
You have explained your life exactly as if it were mine, including the husband. He has given me peace reading it. I appreciate her contribution.