Alicia
09/21/2023
Hello, I am 11 years old and my younger sister is 10. It happens to me that when my parents go to work (which is like 9 hours) my sister hits me and insults me. It all started when I was 8 or 9 years old and I don’t want to tell my parents because they wouldn’t believe me and I have also told my parents many times and they tell my sister that she doesn’t have to do it, but she doesn’t understand and she tells me. He has insulted you emotionally and physically.
My self-esteem has dropped a lot 😔.
what I do?
Martha
09/07/2023
Since I was little, my mother has taken care of me, pampered me and loved me. My older sister always said that I was the favorite. When I grew up as a teenager I isolated myself a little, a phase that I think some teenagers have. Still nothing changed. Sometimes I would say that I would be a failure who wouldn’t pass the course because I repeated it twice. She messed with me more but she gave me kisses, she still loved me and cared for me. When I grew up I went through eating problems, anxiety and toxic partners and that made me gain weight. She told me that she was chubbier, nothing was wrong, she laughed from time to time but nothing alarming. In recent years I have developed a serious eating problem. But I never talk to them about my feelings or anything. I don’t even explain anything to them. Little by little I opened up but they didn’t take me seriously. I have never been as fat as I am now and she can’t stand my mere presence. She looks at me with disgust from head to toe. Even though she passed by her to tell mom what time it is. Her look of contempt is unbearable and she tears me into pieces. He insults my father and yells. And he says that we are in a plot that we hate her. And my father does practically everything to her without objection… being with her is insufferable.
Gaby
03/27/2023
My sister started hitting me when I was fifteen and no one said anything to her and out of nowhere she hit me. I didn’t say anything to her and she hit me. Twice I had to go to the doctor because she left my hand injured, she was wearing ice. She’s seven years older than me and useless. She still keeps pulling me down. When I was 19 I ran out of the house. I got tired.
I left home with my boyfriend, now he is my husband, I made my life, I forgot, he is a hindrance. Now that I live above my dad’s house he keeps bothering me about everything he tells me. I don’t know what I did to deserve this but oh well. I try to avoid not seeing her and for many years I haven’t even spoken to her but she comes to tell me things and my parents didn’t do anything. That bothers me. But well, it’s a downer to have a family member like that and above all, shame and not being able to tell people because it made me look bad.
Liam
07/10/2022
I’ll be quick, I’m 13 years old and my brother is 10, but he treats me too badly, it has affected my way of thinking, and it makes me feel like garbage, I have tried to solve it but I can’t, because my parents defend him and they don’t take it into account. , I have a friend who helps me but my parents don’t like her, I don’t believe what they tell me, and they are too liberal with my younger brother…What can I do?
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Gaby
09/25/2022
Exactly the same thing happens to me, I’m 13 years old and my brother is 10, my mother doesn’t do anything about it, every time she hits me I don’t do anything and I just cry, Liam, do you have a solution yet? how do you feel? I cannot give you any solution to your question since the same thing happens to me, I hope you are well and are better since you published this comment :]
Gabriel
02/11/2022
Well, my name is Gabriel, the truth is I haven’t been well these days because of my older brother, he’s 23 years old and I’m 12. The truth is, I harassed the dog and put a ball in her mouth, with a little force. And well, the dog didn’t want it. My brother saw it and told me that if I would like to feel the same, he made the ball and was putting it in my mouth. I didn’t let him and he took me into the house and started to choke me and I was choking and he let me go, thank you. My 16-year-old sister and he pushed my sister, then he slapped me and started talking and well, I didn’t even mention it, but the truth is, thanks to him I want to kill myself…
Sofia Elenes
09/10/2021
I can’t stand my family anymore, I left a game that my brother and I were playing and he got angry and paid me with the tip of his tablet *it doesn’t have a case* and my mom got up and just told me to shut up and left
Maria
06/17/2021
My brothers always get angry at everything because I don’t do my things like clean my room and also wash the dishes and wash the bathrooms and wash the dog.
Anonymous
04/30/2021
I am 15 years old and my 12 year old brother does nothing but be rude to me, treating me badly and hitting me, threatening me and wanting me to obey him.
I tell my mom and she always defends him, she says that he treats me like that because I’m the same as him, when that’s not the case, he always plays the victim in my house, they are always very violent, they always talk bad about me, hitting me because everyone is They feel entitled since I don’t have a dad or mom to defend me (I live with 3 uncles, my grandparents and my brother and mom) I don’t know what to do anymore, I’ve put up with it for years now. I don’t know what to do
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Sofia Elenes
09/10/2021
You are not alone or alone I always vent in a notebook or when I am alone I put on loud music and start saying the things I feel
Jose Luis Ramirez
04/29/2021
I’m very frustrated, I need advice before I go to the psychologist…
Firstly, my best brother (16 years old) is at the age where he begins to put his skill, strength, etc. into practice. (I want to clarify that he is a boy of approximately 1.74 and is strong) Sometimes he bothers me and makes my life difficult, I know he does it while playing and sometimes I even go along with him to a certain point but, sometimes I don’t agree. humor or with the patience to endure it (I’m about to finish my degree in engineering and normally I’m always tired and sometimes annoyed by stress) well, recently we started an argument that started playing, to such a degree that the hitting started, I just blurted out one blow and he with many more.
As a result of that, my brother no longer talks to me or looks at me and the truth is that I feel guilty for hitting him, I already asked him for an apology and he doesn’t agree, in short it is a torment that I carry in my head because, I love him very much. my brother and it hurts me that he no longer speaks to me.
Anonymous
04/22/2021
I’m 12 and my brother is only 9, but he hits me all the time, my parents don’t do anything, he always tries to get my clothes in front of relatives and they don’t do anything.
Ana
03/18/2021
I have my dad and my mom but they always monitor us, they have a GPS to know where we are in the house, they give us screen time for 5 minutes every day but for classes there they do everything and you spend 12 hours a day on the screen it is the same as playing a game for 30 minutes and it is less, and we are not teenagers either, my brother and I are still children
Yani
02/20/2021
My brother is 23 and I am 25 and he hits me when he is angry and leaves bruises on my body, I don’t let myself and I yell at him and my mom doesn’t scold him for it and I try not to show my feelings so they don’t laugh at me , I’m about to call the police and report what he’s doing to me. Don’t let them call the police and don’t just trust your parents because many don’t care about those problems.
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Isabella
03/03/2021
Maybe my sister is 9 and I’m 10 and she hit me once and almost left me blind :C
Anonymous
01/24/2021
I come to vent my anger, my older brother hit me when I was younger, he always did it and whenever he got angry I received hits and also ridicule from him and from his friends. He never did anything to take care of me from all that and he only hurt me now, not anymore. He does it, he stopped when he was 13, although I’m still a little afraid of him when he gets angry he attacks me verbally and I have a younger brother who is about 5 years old he is very attached to my brother but he always ends up crying when he is with him sometimes he ends up Being beaten, my older brother is now 15 and I am worried about what he might do. I have told my parents and they challenge him but he continues the same, although what hurts me the most is that when my brother hit me my parents never did anything, they just did it. They scolded and that’s it, but he continued and now I don’t have a good relationship with him, he is affectionate with me but I don’t want to, he hurt me, I know that holding on to the resentment is wrong but he never really did anything to apologize and he always justifies himself by saying that I am rude and My mom is always on his side, I’m sick of my mom always trying to get me to have a good relationship and says to stop seeing it as the worst thing in the world but he hurt me and he never showed regret for what he did.
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Anonymous 3
04/06/2021
I understand how you feel, the same thing happens to me, except that I am 18 and my brother is 26, he no longer lives here in my house but every time he comes he gets angry very quickly, and about things that are not even relevant, I really don’t know what to do. I guess since I live here I’ll go with my father for a while.
Celeste Gurevich
12/22/2020
Hi, I’m celestial, I’m 10 years old.
And my little brother 6
My parents always say
“Don’t get close or play with him, he’ll hit you”
And my little brother always (sometimes) comes close to me, he told me
Leonel brother: Shall we play?
Me celeste: yes… (I doubt it so as not to look bad but sometimes I say NO)
And we always go to bed, I play a game that you have to fly over a plane, you lie down, you put your knees on your belly and you raise your hands so that you don’t fall.
Well, the thing is that my mom and brother and my dad always go to help or work, my dad goes to work and my mom or/and brother go to help a little.
Today 12/22/2020
I was playing the game that I told you in the comment and I got it wrong xD (another game)
Well, the thing that I accidentally threw away and he told me
Leonel: Ayyy, be more careful *He hits me*
Me: Ehyyy FYE UNWANTINGLY * lr tear out my hair *
We left my parents’ room and started hitting each other and pulling out each other’s hair.
I, as always, the polite ŪnŪ
I record it (I recently started recording when my mom or when everyone leaves, so they believe me)
Told me
Leonel: I’LL BREAK IT FOR YOU EH IF YOU MAKE IT I’LL BREAK IT FOR YOU!!!
Me: well well….
Leonel: *STARTS TO BREAK A TOY THAT ISE*
Me: Nooooo what are you doing!!? *hit him* IT COST ME A LOT
I grabbed the cell phone and started recording it now when my mom comes I tell her and show her the video I SCRATCHED EVERYWHERE: on my finger, shoulders and I hit myself with the TV control on my head and also where I had a bump ( on the eyebrow) but with the hand
Well, thank you very much, it helped me a lot UwU
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Isabella
03/03/2021
That’s what happens to me, my sister gets angry very easily and sometimes she throws things at me pointing towards my eyes 🙁 And I found this paradise when I was playing on the internet and then I looked for funny things and then I looked for what happens if my sister hits me uu
Pablo
12/02/2020 Hello, my name is Pablo, I don’t feel comfortable saying my age, my sister’s age is 10 years old.
She takes my toys and hides them from me, it’s not jealousy since they please us 50% to 50%.
He hits me, mistreats me, verbally hurts me, insults me.
She is already starting to hit my dad and he is also getting sad, angry, depressed about the situation, I need someone to tell me what to do, by the way, when I defend myself she plays the victim and they scold me, and …