Manuel
08/14/2023
Everyone simply betrays me, I don’t have to come first and I give everything in emotional relationships such as family or friendship. My wife betrayed me by falling in love with a student because she said that she was not attentive when she was trying to save our economic situation, which was very critical. My parents, being the first-born and having been in all their businesses, left me aside when I got married, they hated me from the moment I was born. My great-uncles, who, having spent a good part of it with them and after getting married, due to the closeness always pending with them in their death, surprise me by leaving everything to my sister. My brothers have used me and betrayed me with stabbings in the back. My friends only want me to make fun of me or turn their back on me when they feel like it. My colleagues laugh at me behind my back except when they need a favor. My mother-in-law hypocrisy to the fullest extent of her. Between the adolescence of the minor and the fantasy of the eldest, I almost do not exist for them although they are my only reason for living.
Priscilla
06/04/2023
Thank you. I was feeling very very bad… it helped me a lot.
Fabian
11/09/2021
Since I was a child I was always rejected, at school they bullied me for knowing how to play soccer or not being good at sports, I was the whore or faggot, I never got over it, I grew up and started a family, throughout my life I have made very good friends but unfortunately they don’t live where I do, I see them very occasionally. I feel like I am extra in all the meetings, I am authentic and I do not approach out of fear
Richard
06/10/2021 In my case, I tend to be rejected by people, it is something that I have noticed, since it has happened to me that when they see friends on the street, they pass by and do not even bother to say hello, others Friends who live far away, when I write to them, they only exchange a couple of phrases and leave me alone, others talk to ask for favors and disappear.
I must admit that for the rest, I am a boring person and no one is interested in spending time with me. Out of self-love, I no longer bother to write to those friends, I am ceasing to be helpful to acquaintances, I prefer to give my affection to close family members and animals, I avoid asking for and giving favors and I only have fair and necessary interactions, either professionally or when I need to buy something. I am blessed that my family still listens to me and has tremendous patience with me.
Friends reject me, couples, although it can all be very nice, for some reason end up leaving me and choosing another man. I don’t want to have a partner or friends anymore. At the moment I prefer to enjoy life and be happy in my own way, whether that means learning new things, doing the things I like and focusing on work.
Well, I leave my greetings to all of you.
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Cynthia
03/16/2022
I think the reason you feel that rejection is because you don’t have many topics of conversation, as you said, you only say what is necessary and that bores people, also because you hardly talk to your friends and that distances the friendship too much, and If someone close to you asks you for a favor, give it to them because it feels very bad that your friend doesn’t want to give you something. Just as I’m going to know, I’m a teenager
Lilly
08/16/2021
Very good and interesting article. In my case I identify a lot with the reason of wanting to distance myself from others. I have always identified myself as a very shy person, so making friends has always been a challenge for me. However, over time this has created emotional instability in me when it comes to social relationships. My problem has been that I always distance myself from people and then I complain that I don’t have friends or that no one is looking for me, etc. This causes me a lot more anxiety than I already suffer from, which is why I wonder if this is one of the reasons why I distance myself from people a bit, due to my anxiety. Deep down I am a kind woman, with a good sense of humor, helpful but no matter how hard I try, it has always been a great challenge to be able to make friends. Good luck for all of you.
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Jhoany Noh Moo.
02/17/2022
I felt very identified with what you shared with us. Thanks for sharing.
Jenna
04/16/2021
Yes I feel like it, I’m working on it. I discovered that my problem was that I unconsciously distance myself from people and I don’t really understand why I do it, maybe I feel insecure. I thought they were rejecting me but in reality I was the one rejecting them. Now I have no friends and I don’t know how to approach people since the lack of these has caused my insecurity as I have mentioned. I have set the goal of talking to people without expecting them to become my friends. I hope I can move forward.
brayan loaiza
02/10/2021
I was rejected by women and classmates and teachers and I had no one to talk to. I was phenomenal and strange. My family didn’t believe. I said I never had friends. I was always alone. I have dyslexia and yalexia.
Christina
01/26/2021
I feel very identified with this article, in my case I have always been quite lonely and when I was younger I didn’t care, but now I feel very alone and the simple fact of meeting someone for a drink is very complicated for me, since the Few of the friends I have are almost never available, and all the attempts I make to make new friends don’t work. I am very lost, it has reached a point where I no longer know if the problem is with me, if there is something in me that does not attract others, or if it is simply that I do not come across the right people. I am a kind, friendly person, with tact when treating others, people say that I am nice and that they like me, but no one wants to spend time with me. There have been three or four times in the last two years that I have tried to make friends with different people and in all cases it has been unsuccessful. In a WhatsApp group of about 6 girls that I was in to meet up with each other, all of them were kind to me but when it came time to go out, almost none of them wanted to be alone with me, I being kind, friendly and always willing to meet up with all of them. . However, another girl in the group got a boyfriend and started going out with us completely, and getting super rude when we said something to her about it. Well, everyone is crazy about meeting this girl, even some of those who criticized her because she left us when she had a boyfriend, now prefer to be with her rather than with me, who has always been available. And I’m already fed up and disgusted with the fact that the better you behave and the more you want to be liked, the worse they treat you, but if you go on your own and speak badly to others, it turns out that that’s when they value you the most. I have checked several times that it works like this but I don’t understand it. I know that if I change by doing my thing more and not trying to be liked, people will hit me more, but I don’t know if I’m interested in gaining the friendship of people who only value you if you behave like shit. I’m already depressed and very burned out on people, I don’t know if I’ll keep trying or limit myself to enjoying my own company, which is the only one I’m guaranteed.
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Silvia.
06/13/2021
Cristina, wrote on 01/26/21, hello, I’m from CABA, exactly the same thing happens to me as you, I feel that all women especially reject me, I go out a couple of times to have a drink and there isn’t a second one, very few contacts on Facebook, if I don’t write they don’t do it, I was widowed more than 10 years ago and I don’t have children, I recently retired and every day I feel more lonely, I spend my days and months without talking or going out for a drink with a neighbor, even if it’s a neighbor, my psychologist says that I should see what I’m doing wrong, I always helped neighbors to admit them, take care of them, give a good opinion when they ask for it and then some of them no longer need me or say hello or if they do, it’s a commitment, I don’t know what to think, yes I am very frontal, I do not tolerate hypocrisy and I say it, I travel with group outings to be accompanied, to escape my loneliness, I don’t know where you are from, I wish you good luck, take care of yourself. Silvia.V Moreira.
Nadia
10/03/2021
Same thing, I don’t know if it’s me, or the world is on edge, or I don’t know, I’m throwing in the towel.
tereza
08/19/2022
Exactly the same thing, today I realized that they were waiting for me to leave so they could go out, I still know that I’m half crazy, but I don’t know what happens with everyone, I have had strong problems that have weakened me, and the people who They reject me, I don’t like them at all, but those who do, it’s the same, and when I’m fine, emotionally that’s where they approach, but a little seriously and they move away, they talk bad about me, I’m still expressive, and sincere, Before it didn’t happen so much to me but now it’s abnormal, how bad do I have to be for this to happen to me?
José
01/11/2023
The same thing happens to me, I don’t understand anything about what happens to people with me because they reject me and walk away from me without a reason.
Stephen A
01/24/2021
The truth is that what the article says is very true, and I must say that I have had many friendly disappointments just for showing myself as I am and expressing my feelings and that really makes me very sad with a lot of sadness and depressed because I don’t have any friends and When I try it is very difficult to find them if not impossible. Anyway
Esteban
01/24/2021
The truth is that I feel absolutely identified with the article since to tell the truth I DO NOT HAVE FRIENDS precisely because I am authentic and very direct when saying things that, being myself, they always see me as a weirdo and to this day it is difficult for me to make friends sincere since in the long run they end up disappointing me and above all making me very sad to the point of getting very depressed especially if one tries hard to do the right thing which frustrates the most. Finally greetings to all
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Nadia
10/03/2021
Ditto for ditto, I don’t know where to go now, I give up
Loles crespi
10/31/2020
I think this article is focused more on why people reject you rather than why you feel rejected. Feeling rejected does not mean that you really are, many times it is just a feeling and we should rather consider where that feeling comes from and what is true about it.
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a curious
02/11/2021
I would rather say that, in most cases, the feeling of rejection corresponds to reality: there is rejection. Or, more than rejection, indifference; although it doesn’t matter, because, at the end of the day, in certain circumstances there is no difference between rejection and indifference.
Axel
10/07/2020
Thank you for sharing this article, it will be very helpful to me, greetings.
May
05/20/2020
Well, honestly, I feel that it is the luck of having the ability to make people like you – or not – that will allow you to have friends. For example, I tried to be nice to people, always say hello even if we are not trustworthy. I tried to talk to some people out of pure cordiality and they gave me a rather annoying cut off. And the funny thing is that I have seen that there are arrogant people, who mistreat people, have terrible habits and have many friends. Their…