What to do when someone suddenly ignores you – 5 tips

Lizzie

09/22/2023

Why is it so difficult to keep the relationship stable?

manuel ortega

05/25/2023

Phew, it helped me a lot, thank you

Anne

12/18/2022 The pain is real. So real that it hurts to even breathe when you feel like that person doesn’t care about you at all. Going from having it all, or at least, from feeling full while you have someone’s love and attention to losing it like this, suddenly, without explanations and without being able to understand it. The pain is even double if possible because, on the one hand, you don’t understand what is happening and on the other hand, you have to get used to the absence of that person. This leaves you in such a state of confusion that you don’t even know where you stand. You look for answers, reasons, motives, you blame yourself, you hate yourself, you think you did something wrong, something serious, for something he ignores you and is gone, but you don’t know why. You feel an anguish that devours your soul. You are drowned in anxiety waiting for a sign, one that may never come.

But I dared. With my heart bleeding in my hand and without understanding it, I told him that I wished him well. That I didn’t understand the reasons but I wanted him to be happy even if he wasn’t by my side. For him, that was just a message from a friend. For me, the most bitter farewell.

I will never be able to understand how someone can make you feel like you are their everything and suddenly one day, ignore you as if you were nothing. The worst of all is that deep in my heart I still have good feelings for him and I cry when the memories come back to me, having already passed a year and a half since that time.

My advice to everyone, if this happens to you, it is not your fault. You gave the purest thing that can be given, love. If you loved someone so much that you didn’t value them, imagine when you find someone who does. You’re going to explode with happiness. Cheer up ❤

Alisson

05/27/2022

In 2019 I met my half cousin, he behaved very nice with me and we always played. In 2020, he had become very close to me and the truth is that it never bothered me and he behaved very affectionately and the truth is that I thought he liked me but I didn’t take him importance until 2021 had become very cold to me, the truth is that it felt very ugly that he ignored me but this year he continues to ignore me, the truth is I don’t like it and it feels frustrating that he ignores me and it also makes me uncomfortable, I think it’s because of puberty or something like that but I don’t like what’s happening anymore

Brandon Yacht

03/24/2022

Well, today I have a friend and she talked to me on break because I was alone and everything started well. She made a video call to me on the first day and we talked about many things, about a week later she was with her friends and I was uncomfortable going to talk to her, and some classmates pulled me to the hay so that I could talk to her, that same afternoon she told me that I was acting strange, I told her that some classmates forced me to talk to her and after telling her that she became very defensive end, and yesterday he ignored my messages and didn’t want to talk to me either during break time or in chat, in truth I do think that he’s not interested in me… but the most important thing is to love yourself.

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Mr Python

01/05/2022

I was best friends with a boy who betrayed me and I hadn’t spoken to him for 2 years and it turns out that 2 years later he sent me a friend request and I wrote to him telling him that we could no longer be friends because of his betrayal. and he let me know and now I want to thank you for this article because thanks to this I now know how to react to this situation God bless you

Philip

09/04/2021

Whenever I start a new job, I behave sociable because I want to get along with others so that the work environment is good, but if as the days go by I start to notice rejection and that they ignore me, that’s as far as it gets, I I limit myself to work, and I think they fired me from a job because of that, but I didn’t care because I was always very professional and treated them politely and did my job.

eymellamo

08/23/2021

I have a friend who said hello every day and now it’s been 2 weeks without talking to me hey if you read this I love you and I love you but talk to me bastard if I miss you sweet baby

Malena

08/20/2021

Hello, a few days ago my boyfriend stopped talking to me, the last time we proposed to each other, the last call, the next day I spoke to him because he didn’t talk to me, he told me about the call, in the end, nothing, it’s not strange with me, he went with some friends one weekend, he treated me like a stranger, a stranger and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong but if I don’t talk to him he doesn’t talk to me and I don’t know if I didn’t have to look at his statuses or I don’t know if I’ve put something bad in my status I just post phrases I don’t know if I’m wrong or what he’s done wrong. Something happened, he doesn’t want to talk to me because he just removed his profile photo, he hasn’t blocked me, hello, how are you, he doesn’t answer me or connect, we didn’t say we’d see each other these days, I don’t know if he can meet up today to talk or another day, but I don’t know what he would like. What happens if something I do wrong doesn’t make him feel comfortable with me? I don’t know if he’s the one who’s had something happen to him, he doesn’t want to tell me. Yesterday, some friends left, I wasn’t going to talk to him. He was connected all day on all the networks when I log on, he sees He never connects he says hello to me I don’t know 3 days he doesn’t talk to me only yesterday I was going to call him by surprise I was a little tired I didn’t make him see him connected he didn’t talk to me I don’t know well if he answers me today if not I’ll call him and we’ll talk because but to understand what’s wrong he also managed I work and maybe he doesn’t have a photo that’s why my brother works a lot well he took off his profile photo so I don’t know it’s all very strange I love him very much I know he loves me I believe it he always tells me that recently he said he felt for me some super nice words When these things happen I’m bad I don’t sleep much either I get up super early I don’t know why the profile picture was removed and I’m super bad I don’t know what to do go out for a walk or stay at home I don’t know what to do I’ve never fallen in love that’s how I want to understand it He also told me he was in love with me, I don’t think he let me know what he told me, well when we met for the first time, it was bad because a friend of his got into a WhatsApp group and she told him everything, she spoke badly about his back, he felt really bad but I listened to him, he called, and well, he relieved himself and felt better, I will always be there, he is one of the best friends I have ever had, I don’t know what’s wrong with him now, he’s very sentimental, he keeps everything inside, he’s very shy, I don’t know what to do if I don’t call him more. late I don’t know he connects I don’t know what happened he never lets me know if he sees it he answers me in case it’s late I’ll talk to him

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Juan Carlos

02/14/2022

Well I’ll just tell you something very interesting about that, sometimes it’s good to go to a place still free from the truth.

Jose Juan

02/24/2022

Forget about everything and focus on yourself… the person you have to please is you, do what you like to do most and let your dreams take you where you want to go, Let things flow beautifully and yes a friendship or relationship is not flowing, something is wrong.

maria paulina

06/26/2021

I want you to help me recover, my partner ignores my messages but if he is online I don’t know what is happening

Anonymous 😀

06/11/2021

At my school, some of my classmates went in person due to the covid issue, the fact was that a friend (I like her) with whom I spoke very often, almost never spoke to me when I invited her to spend the break with me, I started to worry thinking that I did something wrong, however I forgot that she was not very sociable, so I had the idea that she could be avoiding me, for not interacting with others (I’m too sociable).
When I got home he sent me a message clarifying what happened, and here is the message: ‘I’m sorry for not agreeing to go with you when you proposed it to me during the first break, you know that I didn’t socialize very well with the others and they stay away from me. as much as they can about me, next time I will try to be more sociable and try to get along with others to spend the break :>´´

Anonymous / I am a woman / 18 years old

05/13/2021

1 month ago I met a boy through a Badoo app, he spoke to me and from the first moment he was already launching, I found it a little strange since I am not that extroverted, I also liked him, he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We started talking very sentimentally, from the beginning we talked almost every day, but as is my bad habit, I always get distracted by everything, I’m not that big of picking up the phone all the time and that’s why sometimes I don’t answer, he wasn’t complaining. both at the beginning, and well I kept doing it because I disappeared and I didn’t talk to him, on Sunday afternoon he talks to me and tells me that if I’m going to disappear all fucking day that I should let him know, I told him that I was busy and that I should apologize but he didn’t give in, I got fed up and told him to finish everything, help because I like him and I really love him psdt: he told me that if I really loved him I had to show it and not talk to him during those days or even before he disappeared, that I didn’t want him 🙁

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Robert

06/10/2021

Recommendation, from the point of someone who also lives busy and is not a fan of being glued to the cell phone. I know it’s hard, but you have to let it go, because if that person doesn’t appreciate the free time you dedicate to them (which in itself seems to be little in general), then bye. Now, it is not a bad idea if you have a romantic partner who you know will be very attached in the future, to let him know that you will not be available or busy for a certain period of time, but it is not an obligation nor should he require it of you, especially when not even They are not even something formal yet. Good luck and greetings.

Steamed broccoli

06/29/2021

He is manipulating you or he is socially or psychologically sick. Love is built, it is not to be demonstrated, love is born and felt, you cannot confuse attraction and desire with love and commitment, they are different things.

Anonymous

05/01/2021

Hello, I am anonymous, my case is about a girl that I like, I met her at our 6th grade graduation, she and I talked and then 2 years ago I saw her again, before the virus arrived, she came from I came back from my high school and I found her on the street, she and I stayed talking and in one of those moments she stole a kiss on my cheek and hugged me, then I found her Facebook, Antiel wrote to her on Facebook but she left me unseen and then I wrote to her again but at night and she answered me, then I made her laugh and then the next day I wrote to her again and she let me know, she didn’t answer me, right now I need you to help me please, tell me what to do

Anthony

03/30/2021

Two years ago – while I was doing my senior project to graduate from university – I met a beautiful girl who lives in the same neighborhood as me, to the point that, little by little, I fell in love with her. . However, there were a series of problems between her and me, so much so that she ignored me and stopped talking to me for almost a year, and of course I was sad and depressed because I cared and still care a lot about her. Just a month ago, I gave him an excellent…