Jesus
06/27/2021
I want to ask for forgiveness for what I have done to my partner for the damage, but how and when can I tell the truth to talk to her about my feelings for what I have done to her or to me, everything that she has done to me, I need to talk with her alone to ask for forgiveness to forgive her and I have really missed being with her every day thinking about her but I need to recover and I don’t want to lose her because I was very in love because it hurt me to go out to another man What she likes for surrounding her out of jealousy that I had for her was for the girls because I should be jealous of her also for hurting by speaking badly about her but I really love her I have her things I have her in everything yes but it is My girlfriend is my part of my family and I want to be with her more time to reflect on my relationship with her. We are boyfriends or a couple but I was crying. I don’t want to lose her because she has gone with her in the places I was with her but I’m alone and she turns her back on me. The first day I was in love with her and she was also in love. I like her and that’s the only thing I love. I knew her before.
Anonymous
11/01/2020
Well, it happened to me that I am now 13 and since I was little I fell in love with a girl (I won’t say her name) and I screwed up like I was 8 or 9 years old because I invited her to my house and I didn’t go over or talk to her, I just played video games and although This person that I love is not beautiful, I like what he has inside and how he treats others. Well, soon when the quarantine is over and you are older or now I will tell him my feelings. I also fell in love with a girl but she is going to be my stepsister and I don’t know. If she loves me and I don’t want us to have something later and I have to explain to my stepfather and my step-sister and step-brother that I got her pregnant ugh it feels good to have gotten all this out thanks for reading 😀
Flower
12/20/2019
I must apologize to a friend who stopped talking like this for almost 16 years because the last time we talked I felt the need to kiss him, hug him, an attraction that I couldn’t handle because at that time I was in a relationship and had a baby who was about 2 months old, I looked for him A long time ago he accepted my invitation on Facebook, we are both connected but we don’t speak and the truth is that I looked for him because I wanted to apologize. Years go by and I remain silent, I only greet him for his birthday, I should approach him and leave him there.
Ramon
05/06/2019
Excellent explanation, at almost 80 years old I learn of the big difference between apologizing and asking for forgiveness.
“Sorry I didn’t know before.”
Thank you so much.
Ramon.
guette duncan
04/10/2019
Excellent, it already sounded strange to me to apologize.
Javier
01/02/2019
For almost 2 years now, I can’t stop thinking, that I argued on WhatsApp with 2 colleagues over something stupid, a misunderstanding, at first they thought it was a joke, and suddenly we started insulting each other on WhatsApp in their group. 2 against me, I was in my last year of high school. The thing is that the year is over and we don’t talk to each other anymore, and every day in my head I feel like I have to ask for their forgiveness, the thing is that I don’t know if it’s because of cowardice, because one of them knows how to fight. taekwondo and I’m afraid that one day if he finds me he’ll do shit to me. I don’t know how to fight. The misunderstanding occurred because of me. I don’t know where they live to go ask for forgiveness, I don’t know if it would encourage me because they might be waiting to cross me to hit me.
Can someone help me and tell me what I have to do please, I don’t want this year to be like the previous 2 years where my head won’t leave me alone thinking all the time that I have to ask for their forgiveness. Help please!!!
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Brandon
02/10/2019
I don’t know how impulsive your former classmates are, but I don’t think that because of something that happened 2 years ago, they still have feelings.
And try to go with them so that you can heal yourself, look positive, relaxed and transparent if you find them again. Locate them through social networks, most likely if you find them with common contacts from the place where you studied.
And seriously, I highly doubt they want to hit you.
Sarah
11/12/2018
I just went through a situation that has me confused.
In a cooking class I asked a classmate to clean something, he said no, he had already cleaned, to which I responded that we were all cleaning, he replied that while he was cleaning we were all talking and he had advanced his work and I I responded that we all worked and we all cleaned even though he said otherwise, the person got upset and started shouting and answering in a challenging and aggressive way saying that no one was in charge of him, least of all me; and that I should say it to his face because things are said face to face and he liked things face to face (I never understood what I should say to him) without shouting I answered, I told him face to face and I turned to continue fixing things; When people shout I don’t like to play along, I feel that it is useless to continue trying to solve something because he has already gotten out of his temper and is unlikely to come back at that moment. The person left, and my companions came up to tell me not to take it into account, to act as if nothing had happened, they started talking about how he never cleans and acts stupid, I told them that they would have told him that. When he was yelling telling them not to do anything, not to say it now that he was gone, everyone had an excuse to justify not having intervened despite having something to say.
The point is that after that I was left with regret or I don’t know what, I think about it again and I get a certain pressure in my chest, my hands are sweating and I feel desperate, I was left with sadness or I don’t know; I am a person who never gets involved in those things, I do my things and that’s it, whether others do it or not, I don’t intervene. I like to acknowledge my mistakes and offer an apology or forgiveness when I think it is necessary or feel it should be. I don’t know what to do in this case, I never offended my partner, I didn’t raise my voice and I answered very calmly, the coexistence in the group was quite pleasant and I could say that it is the only problem that SD has had. Should I apologize or ask for forgiveness, talk to him as if nothing had happened, or stop talking to him?
I hope you can help me. Thank you.
Chunkio
03/20/2018
As far as apologies are offered, they are not requested, that is, I must say: “I apologize for this or that,…” this is because one is the one who feels bad for what he did without intention, and in In the case of forgiving, we ask for forgiveness, “forgive me…” And it must be sincere, perhaps even begging for forgiveness from the person we have offended.
Eunice
08/22/2017
That explanation cleared my doubts. I knew there was a big difference, but I couldn’t explain it. Thank you.
Manuel
07/07/2017
What an excellent definition of these two words which seem the same but are not, thanks for the concept… greetings.
jesus rodriguez
01/18/2016
Thank you. It has been very useful for me to be able to differentiate these two terms.
Greetings
jempdulintre
10/22/2015 Better late to realize than never.
Greetings…
edwin street
10/17/2015
Thanks for the illustration, these two terms are very interesting.
Leonard
02/10/2015
Excellent.
Gilberto Agudelo
08/27/2014
Very interesting before All topics. Thank you