What is needed to biodecode the family tree?
The family tree is structured according to a specific nomenclature, which is internationally accepted.
In this structure, the genosociogram, the specific data that the consultant can provide is detailed: dates of birth and death (if any), divorces, abortions, migrations, serious or very prolonged illnesses, traumatic situations of all kinds, both personally and family such as work, and goals or dreams not achieved (which could be transmitted by “inheritance”), etc.
Every individual is “pulled” by two forces, both equal in importance: an “imitator” force that comes from the past, channeled from our family group; and a “creative” force that we could say comes from the future (or “pushes” us into the future) that is managed by what some call the Universal Consciousness.
We can all have a positive or negative view of our ancestors.
Psychogenealogy, a tool for healing symptoms and diseases, works through the family tree and is enhanced with the contribution of another discipline: , insofar as this allows it to investigate those symptomatic repetitions that influence the unconscious family gene as a kind of “genetic caller” that summons the offspring to resolve the unresolved.
And the family tree, depending on how we approach it, can reveal itself as light or dark information.
Actually, it is both and so we have to learn to explore it without falling into its trap while discovering its treasure.
No one can decide to be alone. Even if it is, it is always part of a larger group (that of being born in a certain country, for example). Just as any organ in our body is part of a larger unit that comprises it, each one of us is an element within a larger whole, although it may have different sizes or limits. We are becoming “aware” of belonging to it and this perception of being part of a whole will be consolidated, a “structure” that is above each one of us. Something that exceeds and encompasses us. Something that is not only greater than us, but that adds a “plus” to us.
In the most consolidated systems, such as that of a work or sports team, this is natural. Even if we don’t pay attention to this dynamic, we feel it right away. Someone is missing and everything is no longer the same: other things happen among those who are, better or worse, but different.
If we meditate calmly, we can begin to feel part of different systems… and consciousness can extend to broader dimensions and limits without losing the configuration of the whole.
Our family is a system to which we clearly belong, beyond the feelings and relational knowledge we have of it. Whether we know our parents or not, think what we think and feel what we feel about them, we are children of a mother and a father. And they, in turn, of theirs. Our grandparents the same. We are genetically related, and for something even greater: Family awareness.
Training makes it easier (for yourself and those accompanied) to recognize the unconscious programs that command your life, to break those ties that allow you to rebuild yourself and be the creator of your own destiny. Enough with family “mandates”!
We all have the experience of loving: we feel liberated by loving. Love, when it is “healthy” and true, breaks the boundaries between one another. If this strong feeling, which goes from the sexual to the spiritual, did not exist, we would live in a toxic and permanent inbreeding system.
Loving what is different, and even “the opposite”, is what produces growth. You need to grow in awareness for it. The famous expansion of our primary consciousness. Love what is, as it is. For the simple fact of being. That could be our highest purpose.