Fernando
06/02/2022
This is precisely what I am going through, sometimes I feel a lot of anxiety and sadness.
This article has been very useful to me, THANK YOU
Pedro Luis
08/14/2021
I’m reading this because my divorce is very possible but I’m very afraid 😨☹
Daydene palaces
06/21/2021
when it starts
One to feel better after a divorce
Eddson
05/27/2021
It hurts and it hurts a lot. Stop always blaming me. Enough of wanting to be well. Stop pretending that everything is fine. It’s time to think about me. Start loving myself, everything is going to be fine even though I feel alone and the pain burns inside me. It’s worse thinking about the children. I don’t know why I feel this way if I gave it my all, if I gave it my all, I wish I had a reset button and things like that to do things differently. Or maybe I’ll do them the same again. But I think that a couple who gets married always, above all things, go out together. For something is marriage, I thought it was forever, but for it to work, both of you have to take part. It’s of no use if only one wants to do it. Even NC is bad. It’s been so long, I already feel tired.
Alexis
10/16/2020
I am experiencing something similar today, my partner abandoned me and I have pain and sadness that I cannot contain. I love her but she no longer wants to continue, I know that I must accept it but how to turn off my feelings and my pain is impossible, my love is a true love to all proof. I don’t find meaning in life and everything is insignificant to me, what I valued before no longer matters to me, my life is over.
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Eddson
05/27/2021
I know what that feels like. I’m about to get divorced, it hurts a lot. In theory it is something that destroys and tears. But we have to learn to stop thinking about the person you love. Even if it hurts. Think about yourself now. The problems occurred even if I solved them quickly and it will be a vicious circle because we blame ourselves even if we don’t have it. We have to be strong. No longer asking for forgiveness for something we don’t do. Turn the page, make a full stop. The pain is immense but there is no evil that does not come with good. It’s time to think about you.
Stephanie Herrera Mejia
09/01/2020
My husband is divorcing me, he says that it is just a role but that we will always be together, for me that has a lot of meaning even though it is a role that I can play to overcome it.
Richard
08/16/2020
I think it’s a good article, we should work a little on inclusive language, about the aggressor, parents, children… Ignoring this, just saying that the bond of dependency is not love, someone is converting because they are loved, life is wonderful and it is not free to enjoy it, it takes time and effort, which, without a doubt, is what is most valuable in life
Eve
08/12/2020
How do I get over a divorce, when you don’t have a father or a mother to support you, or a friend because you dedicate your life to one person and your two babies.
I feel like I’m dying, and I don’t have anyone to give me a hug or listen to me at least.
Mile
07/31/2020
How sad to give everything and in the end he decides to leave after 20 years of relationship and 10 of living together, without apparent reason or motive and the worst thing is six months since we have no deal and we continue living together under the same roof, I am afraid to move forward alone But I know I have to do it, he doesn’t love me anymore and he even has another person,
jasmine
07/30/2020
It is so sad that after giving loyalty and love to your partner he repays us with lies and deception, for whatever reasons and reasons, nothing justifies the fact, I am going for the second official and last infidelity and I say official because there were many others as if I had opened Pandora’s chest… disappointment and pain is imminent and although there is still love on my part, I can’t stand my life with him anymore, it disgusts me and makes me sick knowing the kind of person who has been with me. Today, with the pain still in my heart, I manage to overcome so much damage to myself, I don’t act like a victim because I gave him the opportunity to continue and fight, something that didn’t even last a year when he was already involved with another… I just have to say goodbye forever and move forward with my three children.
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Marine
02/16/2021
I understand you so much. I forgave a first infidelity, I thought he had left her, but he was still with her for another year and a half. Meanwhile, I dedicated myself to raising my children, to loving him like no one else will love him. I became pregnant with my third child. I caught him in another infidelity again, now I know that even when I was pregnant he cheated on me with the new one, who he also cheated on with two more during my marriage. Three children, 19 years old. I keep going. No one deserves so much pain, but my greatest revenge is to get that terrible person off my back and pass the punishment on to the new lover.
José
07/26/2020
What to do if after 28 years together of which, 22 married and now she asked me for a divorce and said atrocious things about me and I about her, but now loneliness comes, in bed, when you go out for a walk, etc. When she talked to someone she calmed me down, but most of the time I break down. How can I get over this?
Devour
06/16/2020
What to do to overcome the fact that you waited ten years for your partner and suddenly he asks you for a divorce because his plans changed and now he will start a new life but you are not included
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Johanna
10/25/2020
Hello friend, I am in a similar situation, my husband and I have been together for a total of 4 years but he wants a divorce and return to his country, he changed all his plans and the life projects together that we had and changed his mind, I Like you, I am not included in their new plans. I feel alone, how have you managed to overcome that?
Incognito
05/01/2020
It’s been more than 3 years since I separated from my daughter’s mother, now I’m 28 years old. After the divorce I decided to be strong and stay away from her and my daughter, then she got married again a few months later and since we have a daughter in common we still write to each other to find out about our daughter, I am responsible with my daughter because I love her a lot , but separating from them left me finished even though it was my decision, now I don’t think I will fall in love again or feel like I want to have another family, my ex often writes to me to make me feel like he still misses me but I don’t want to anymore, I stop and I feel like I suffer more because I reject her because I break up my family but it’s not okay anymore because she’s already married and that’s life. To date I have not found that peace of feeling that I want to have a family and get married again, I myself seek to be alone and I have already lost the desire to fall in love again.
Eve
03/24/2020
I am about to sign the divorce but I still love him and it hurts me a lot, we have been living in different countries for 5 years, we have 4 children and he has not seen the girls for 5 years. I visit him every 3 months but he distrusted me a lot. and I was jealous of everything even knowing that I am always at home with the children; Now it turns out that he is the one who asked for the divorce and he even informed my children. I asked him the reason and what he told me is that he lives happier without me because that way he doesn’t get mortified thinking about whether I’m cheating on him or bothering him. me for jealousy and that he can’t change that, that he still loves me but that for him it is easier to live without fear and that also I am not the same as before because before I did not defend myself and now I do (because now I when he starts asking me what clothes I’m wearing, who I’m talking to or if a taxi driver greeted me are examples) he wants me not to confront him or defend myself, he says I’m a feminist.
He is an excellent father and very affectionate with me and very detailed and very responsible. The truth is, I don’t think I can imagine that there is a better man than him… but now he told me that there is no turning back and that the decision has been made… I really feel desperate and very very sad…my children are suffering too.
Claudia
02/21/2020
I caught my husband with love messages on his cell phone to a girl I know, this is the third deception in my 16-year marriage. I have three children, one 14 years old, a 10-year-old girl, and a 3-year-old boy. I tried to get him to leave the house but my children got sick and cried uncontrollably. I love him but he didn’t trust me. Now I’m very disappointed. I want to separate but I feel too weak to endure the divorce.
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jasmine
07/30/2020
friend, third deception, there is already too much mockery, they do not change, as long as we are forgiving them….they will continue doing it….and what about your life? your happiness? Here it is a two-way thing and you also deserve respect and honesty.
A lot of strength and I hope you make the best decision.
Mary of the light
02/17/2020
How do I face the separation with my partner who, because I have anxiety for more than 10 years, I can’t take it anymore, it’s unstable and my way of seeing life has changed. I’m already in the mood for nothing and I feel a very strong burden. It hurts to leave him because I love him very much, but I’m already tired
Abraham
02/06/2020
how to overcome fear
ENRIQUE
12/29/2019
I am so surprised to read the situations of this group, some bad experiences and others worse than mine, but what catches my attention the most is that even though this world is so full of people, we feel so alone!, that it is so Our codependency on our partner is so great that due to the fact of this breakup this feeling of loneliness emerges in us when in reality there are more and more people who go through this situation every day. My point is that there should be self-help groups on this topic as well as Alcoholics Anonymous, Neurotics Anonymous (in Mexico of course and in their countries of origin) and sales groups on Facebook, where we could meet people who share this topic and who We will help each other by sharing our experiences, opinions, reflections in order to lighten our sorrow. I see an importance in this since I have noticed that the help of friends and family is sometimes not the most convenient at this point, since due to the fact of this link they do not tell us the truth even when we are making a mistake, the excess of Pampering is nice but it is not the solution, better someone who tells us things straight so we can react and make an accurate decision. I hope that no one feels attacked by my comment and in the hope that we can all resolve our situations in the best way, I wish you success and in turn thank you for opening your heart to this medium that gives me the opportunity in the first place: to see that there are people who They are in a much worse situation than mine, two: giving me the opportunity to feel useful to be able to do something for my neighbor.
jessica marquez aguilar
12/29/2019
how to overcome the fear of loneliness
LUIS RDZ
12/18/2019
THE PAIN I FEEL IS SO MUCH TO KNOW THAT 21 YEARS WERE THROWN IN THE GARBAGE, AND I COULD NOT DO ANYTHING TO AVOID IT…. BESIDES MY DRY, COLD, DISTANT AND LITTLE RECIPROCAL CHARACTER THANKS TO MY FATHER… IT WAS WITH HIM LONGER AND MORE CAUSE OF THIS BREAKUP…THE ACAVOCE WAS THE SUDDEN LOSS OF MY MOTHER…AND BY NOT GIVING GOODBYE TO HER AND CRYING FOR HER AT ALL TIMES, IT MADE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE GET SICK OF ME… .
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Juan MMT
05/12/2020
I understand…