THE CONFLICT IS WHEN WE TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE, WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR 15 YEARS AND ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS WE STARTED A RELATIONSHIP.
BUT ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF AGO WE STARTED THIS ADVENTURE AND A THOUSAND PROMISES TO CONQUER ME.
WE UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER PERFECTLY ON A PHYSICAL LEVEL AND WE HAVE MANY THINGS IN COMMON.
WE BOTH HAVE CHILDREN OF DIFFERENT AGES, AND HE HAS JOINT CUSTODY AND MY SON IS ALWAYS WITH ME.
WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE AND LIVING TOGETHER, BEFORE HE SAID UNTIL THE SENTENCE, THEN WHEN THE WORK WAS BETTER, NOW THAT HE DON’T WANT TO MOVE HIS SON FROM HIS CIRCLE.
I SAY THAT WE LOOK FOR SOMETHING IN THE INTERMEDIATE SO THAT NONE OF THE CHILDREN FEEL BAD, BUT IT’S NEVER THE TIME.
HE SAYS THAT WHEN HE FEELS IT’S THE TIME HE WILL SAY IT.
I GAVE IN THIS, BECAUSE HE TOLD ME THAT SINCE WE HAD TWO HOUSES WE WOULD SHARE MOMENTS.
THE REALITY IS THAT WE ONLY SEE EACH OTHER WHEN HE DOESN’T HAVE HIS SON.
AND SINCERELY, I TELL YOU THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT STARTING TO SEEM BALANCED TO ME.
I DON’T ENTER IF YOU’VE STOPPED HAVING DETAILS, OR WORRYING ABOUT A THOUSAND ELSE THINGS.
I DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START RIGHT NOW, BUT I TELL YOU THAT THIS SITUATION DOES NOT MAKE US BUILD A FUTURE TOGETHER, BUT RATHER A SEPARATE PATH.
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