The person who hurts the upper part of the shoulders has the impression of carrying too great a load on them. Since the arms are attached to the trunk, this pain is related to “wanting to do too much” for others. This person prevents himself from going in the desired direction because he believes he is obliged to take charge of the happiness or success of others.
In general, this pain manifests itself in the person who has the ability to act. His message is not to stop doing different things in your life, but to do them out of love instead of obligation.
If shoulder pain prevents you from moving your arms, the message relates to your difficulty embracing a new person or situation.
RIGHT SHOULDER (in right-handed people):
CONFLICT: Devaluation of oneself with respect to the couple (80% of the time). Identity conflict (non-sexual) husband/wife or worker: My affective relationships. (Symbolic couple).
RESENT: “I’m a bad husband.” “I am not a recognized worker.” “I’m not a good student.” “I haven’t protected my partner enough.”
LEFT SHOULDER (in right-handed people):
CONFLICT: Devaluation of oneself in reference to his image as a parent or guardian. Devaluation in relation to “mother/son”, godson, pampered person. Identity conflict in a particular framework, linked to what we pamper.
RESENT: “I’m a bad parent, child.” “I have not sufficiently protected my
children/parents. «I have not been able to keep someone very close under my wing.
DISPUTES:
Protection: To my children, to my husband. It is the archaic of protecting under the wing, or of not having protected it enough.
Sports devaluation: They are specific sports.
The slap: I slap too hard, and I admit I went too far or “I can’t stop the other’s shoulder, but I’m going to block mine.”
Affective: The shoulder is tenderness. When we want to help someone who is sad.
Carrying the weight of the family: There is the expression “I don’t feel supported.”
Shoulder dislocation: “I want more freedom in my role as a human being” I want to be myself, I don’t want to be trapped in my family, work, etc. It is as if I want to take my “head” of the humerus to another place.
Let’s remember; The shoulder often hurts, it’s the tendons… It’s a conflict in the present, currently, if it’s a joint capsule, it’s a notion of protection. If it’s the ligaments, it’s a future conflict.
Your shoulder pain tells you that you impose tasks that are not necessary for you. By wanting to do a lot for others, you force yourself to carry a weight that does not belong to you on your shoulders. As long as you do, others cannot learn to take charge of their own lives. I suggest you check your commitments. Did you promise those people that you would take care of everything? Or rather… do you think this is automatically understood? It is time for you to review your limits and your needs and that you only carry on your shoulders what corresponds to what you want.