Yocelin Figueroa
10/20/2023 It came out average, personally it is not difficult for me to commit to a relationship in any sense (engagement or wedding), nor to pay special attention to my partner and so on, but I am somewhat afraid of people, they always end up failing me in some sense. And they usually hurt me a lot to the point that I have isolated myself and I am very hurt, type, little trust in myself or others due to bad experiences.
There are people who tell me that I’m exaggerating but it does affect me because it’s hard to work on myself for me to hurt you just like that, and not take you seriously. In any case, I would like to have a partner but not with just anyone.
Angie
11/28/2021
Can a person be considered to have phyllophobia despite being 17 years old?
I will not say my name
10/22/2021
Well, I’ve always been afraid of falling in love with someone. I’m younger, I’m 12 years old. Love for me is shit. Love at the beginning can be nice but it is hard it is painful even for those younger than my age I like a boy in high school I won’t say his name he is about 11 to 13 years old but… the thing is that he likes two of my friends my own age and I don’t want to confess what I feel out of fear. I really like one of my friends.
noname
09/09/2021
I have already learned a lot about the subject and I am sure that I do suffer from this. My score was high. Although I love love, I have never had the opportunity to experience it because when a person reciprocates I automatically feel too anxious, as if it suffocates me knowing that another person expects something from me. I am 18 years old and I realized that something was not right when I was 12 years old, I still don’t have a serious relationship but I already had a very strong emotional connection with someone that I pushed away because of this stupid disorder. I am not willing to live like this for too long, as soon as I can I will seek professional help. I can’t let my life go by without fully enjoying it and I don’t think anyone should.
clear
09/07/2021
It seems to me that the test does not have much relationship with psychology. The questions are very basic, very obvious.
mmmjo
03/12/2021
I got AVERAGE, personally I think I have to overcome what prevents me from trying, whenever things want to be serious or I feel that that person has feelings for me, I panic at the thought that they might really like me, Does anyone have advice?
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67u8io
05/06/2021
Hello, come on, I’m the same, there’s a boy that I’m liking, so to speak, well, I screwed up because I told him to get together with my friend 😀 because I don’t even dream of being with him because he gives me a strange feeling since then. So I’m not talking to you._. It’s been about 4 or 5 days since that and I’m not confused and I prefer not to get too close, I’m afraid that he’ll end up liking me and that he won’t walk away and we won’t talk again although I prefer to walk away and that he’ll walk away is not fair but no I think it’s the best, plus I’m a kid, what am I talking about about Barny? I’m not crazy
laila
03/09/2021
I have a pretty good relationship, he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend yet, but I feel like my brain wants to sabotage him because he is very serious and it scares me, before if I have sabotaged him, or when someone said he liked me I would run away or push him away, when Someone I liked was the same, it causes me a lot of confusion and now with this person there are days when I can love him a lot, but there are others where I am afraid of the future and sometimes I think that maybe I don’t love him 100% but I understand that that makes people believe The fear of commitment is self-deception, right?
Kokoro-chan
02/03/2021
What if you are aromantic? They should consider that or at least report it.
kyra
02/23/2021
I am 19 years old about to turn 20 and I have never been interested in or felt attracted to any boy or girl and when they approach me to talk to me I feel an unbearable annoying heat that makes me stay away from that person, but if they are boys I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me, It’s annoying but I’m fine like this
888
06/10/2020 9/10
It makes me anxious thinking about it.
You feel a deep feeling that carries you for years and you avoid it, you avoid it again but it hurts. Now that you finally have friends, try to be superficial so as not to mix topics. But then one lies to avoid feeling, claiming to have a partner so that others do not see it in a romantic way (internal discomfort).
The devil takes me
I feel like an idiot
efren aldo
08/18/2020
I didn’t know anything about this topic
Veronica
11/17/2019
It came out high for me. I think my problem comes from my family, they are rude people from the countryside who have never known how to show love. I never felt loved and now because of that I have reached the irrational fixation that I do not deserve to be loved nor do I have the right to fall in love. In fact, it terrifies me when someone falls in love with me. He shows some interest in me and I automatically reject him. I think I’m afraid of love
The girl from the comment
11/05/2019
It came out average but I didn’t know how to answer many questions, I’m 18 years old and I’ve never liked anyone nor have I been physically attracted to them, I’ve only had one boyfriend and I didn’t start a relationship with him because I would like him but rather to experiment, go out with him. It was tedious because it was difficult for me to dedicate time to him and be affectionate, I simply went along with him. I don’t know what’s wrong with me because at my age all my friends have fallen in love, had a few boyfriends and talk about how handsome a boy can be, is this normal, someone give me some advice, I’m about to think that I’m asexual.
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♡Jungkook_It’s_BEAUTIFUL!♡
11/21/2019
Have you not been even a little attracted to girls either? Maybe that’s it….
Kimbra
12/02/2019
Look, my advice is that you’re still young, don’t rush if you’re not interested, don’t force yourself to follow the tide. Everyone develops in their own time. At your age I wasn’t interested in love either, to be honest, I couldn’t explain what I felt about it. that topic because I didn’t feel anything.
I would say that you deeply self-analyze, in my case I discovered that I have certain traumas that prevented me from moving, I also thought I was asexual but you would be surprised what fear can do. That lack of interest was on purpose made by my subconscious to take care of my greater fears and not repeating traumas, love makes you vulnerable and in my case I did not receive the love I wanted from my parents, they are not bad but emotionally they are not the best. I have a lot of emotional burden with them that made me have many insecurities I didn’t know I had them until I analyzed myself, nor did I know that it hurt me how my parents treated me in my childhood and that it had such an impact. So first give that a chance before jumping to hasty conclusions.
For now I haven’t made much progress in terms of love, but I have made progress in terms of sexuality, I let myself get to know myself and I saw that a large part of my sexual disinterest towards men is that usually straight men are dominant and I don’t like that, I don’t like being submissive, my Ecstasy is seeing a boy blushing and all trembling, I like to see vulnerability in a man. There I discovered that I have more sadistic and dominant desires that did not conform to what is normally expected of me, curiously now it explains my keen interest in him. Yaoi. That made me see the profile of the man I like, which is looking like a more feminine man, not so masculine in attitude, because of this it explains why I did not have a sexual interest with the boys I met, they did not meet the innocent appearance what I was looking for. If you want to test if you like those men who are like fairies more since you don’t often see them in reality, I would tell you to search on Reddit rolereversal where it is lightest and the most similar to soft bdsm would be gentlefendom.
Out of curiosity for asexuals, I think they have no sexual interest of any kind, they don’t even masturbate, in my case I did masturbate, which made me half think twice about that, I also had sexual fantasies, they used to be more in the third person with the Yaoi thing. and then later I realized that the one who is usually the top was my representation and thus I unconsciously discharged my libido.
Good luck and I hope it helps you!
Ligia Tatiana Garcia
10/28/2019
What is the score to obtain the results or how do they rate it?
Oscar
07/02/2019
After 8 years of not having had any emotional or sexual connection with another person, out of nowhere a person appeared who in just 15 days of dealing with me shook the floor and when I felt that sensation the first thing I did was make a number of excuses not to. see or be near him. I don’t want to live that 13-year experience again where you hand over everything and realize that everything was a lie.
ALEX
04/21/2019
What is the problem, the couple that I was finally able to contribute that is really indispensable: nothing
kanndia light
04/17/2019
The truth is that if I am afraid of love, it is that once I accepted a boy without feeling anything for him. I just wanted to have a boyfriend to know what they say about having a boyfriend, but the boy was very fast with me and I wasn’t ready to start a serious relationship, so I left him alone without breaking up with him. But now I haven’t given myself the opportunity to meet someone because I feel like it’s going to be the same.
Maria Jose
03/12/2019
How can I know what to do about philophobia or if it is actually philophobia? What can I do to overcome philophobia?
Johnny Esleider
03/10/2019
I don’t even know how to express it, I haven’t had formal relationships, I have never done anything serious in terms of relationships and it has been a constant over time, perhaps with the idea of getting worse thinking how the years go by and nothing different happens in my life, At times it worries me, other days it makes me withdraw, or I want to ignore everything regarding the subject, but I know deep down that I have something that doesn’t let me feel normal, I simply prefer to avoid it.
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Comments! :v
11/21/2019
I haven’t had formal relationships either… they always lasted more than a week… and yes, I’m a little afraid… yes, I like guys, but I’m afraid… of the fact that they’re all going to be the same… .. 🙁
MARIA
02/15/2019
Yes, it scares me, and the article is excellent.