laura salazar
10/18/2023
I have many internal problems since my partner follows women on Instagram, they are women with little clothes and sculptural bodies and the truth is that this makes me feel insecure about myself because I feel that that is what he is looking for and I am not enough for him. We have already talked about the subject and he tells me that it is normal for a man and he does not do it because he is looking for a woman, so the women he follows are from the artistic environment and not women that he knows or wants to know, he had already eliminated those profiles but as time passes he adds them again claiming that it is what he likes and there is nothing wrong with doing it because he does nothing wrong he only sees women like every man does but I insist I don’t like it and it makes me insecure, it makes me Could you help with some advice, I would greatly appreciate it.
Rebeca
11/11/2022
I had never used social networks because they seem unnecessary to me and that is how I have always lived well even when I am young, but since I have been with my partner I decided to create a Twitter account, I really liked being able to give my opinion on interesting things. Once he got angry with me because someone commented on a post complimenting my intelligence and other things, but it was just that, I have no communication with this person, I follow him because he is well-known and a very good analyst but nothing more. I told him that it was absurd that I would never abuse his trust, he told me that he was very afraid that I would leave him and I gave him complete assurance that it was not going to be like that, a few hours ago he was sleeping, we were on the phone because we have a long-term relationship. distance and fell asleep, I wasn’t sleeping because it’s still early here, and I heard him typing loudly, it was almost 3 am there, I decided not to pay attention to it but then he hung up the phone on me. I called him immediately and he didn’t answer so I told him why he hung up on me and what was going on. He told me nothing (he was on duty at the hospital and it was his rest time) I told him what he was doing and he told me that he had fallen asleep and then he responded to a message but he didn’t want to tell me from whom. And I remembered that one time (at his insistence because I swear I don’t like that) he gave me his Twitter password, I told him that I didn’t want any of that, that I didn’t need it because I trusted our relationship, but at that moment I was so anxious that I entered his DM and had conversations with two people (when he always told me he didn’t talk to anyone and even swore it to me). At almost 3 am he was answering a message from a person in English and saying how are you? I lost it and told him the four truths about him, I told him that he lied to me and that I feel very bad, he told me that he had not done anything wrong but the reality is that he feels that he has betrayed me; He always bothered me with his insecurities that he hated when certain people followed me or liked something of mine, but now I see this and I feel very sad: instead of trying to talk to me, he told me that he couldn’t believe that I would do this to him and he said ok we’re done.
Brenis Gleciano
08/11/2022
It seems unacceptable to me since society presents many vices and people in my case who have a relationship who are rather seeking to pursue business, health, aesthetics, gastronomy, etc. But people??? In the case of man? I do not think
They do not respect the relationship and it is interpreted as a first step towards being unfaithful or seeing or exploring what is so interesting or what you can achieve. Now, if you have known that person for a long time and they know your circle and your personal position as a woman, there is no problem.
Maria
07/22/2022
Hello, my current partner is chatting with girls on Instagram that he doesn’t know and flirting, saying to some how pretty you are or how sexy you are in that photo. What I don’t understand is why he does it if he’s with me. If I tell him wrong because he feels guilty. I’m losing it, I don’t know what to do, I’m eating it alone.
Andrea
01/12/2022
My daughter has a 4-year relationship where she has discovered her partner having conversations online with a particular woman, in addition to many others in which he is the one who searches and flirts with them, my daughter, despite having discovered it, has not been able to reign in that relationship and he no longer has peace, he hardly trusts him and social networks have become a nightmare, he doesn’t change because Save Whatever happens, my son forgives him, what can he do and if it’s okay, let him continue with that horrible relationship.?
Javier Ignacio
09/03/2021
How stupid that they are alone, if they want to add a man, if they want to go out with their partners to the bars and clubs, they should be alone. Reality is a social construction like that. Be careful and reason shows you that society is very contaminated in all areas.
When a person’s work life is more important than their personal life, that person is not for you. Marry your employee or your co-workers. And when you have your projects she wants you for the night just to go out and she is not even capable of paying half or inviting you once she is not for you. We are in the 21st century, they didn’t want gender equality? You as an individual also want to raise money for her projects, but if that person doesn’t see what you do for them in your actions, they don’t deserve you.
Atte: It is the story of a man who makes his defense, since he finds that that person did not value him properly.
Lemon tea
08/13/2021
All these tools make the guys do whatever they want later, if they have so much time and desire to socialize with girls that they stay single and don’t fuck around, do they have free time? Let them watch TV or wash the dishes. Nothing is enough for them. They need the mines to give them attention all the time. Things as they are STOP justifying them and let us be the ones who have to adapt to them. It’s called AFFECTIVE RESPONSIBILITY. Because let’s see… They don’t casually talk to the ugliest, right?
Gabby
05/26/2021
Hello, I just saw this article that helped me clarify some things. My partner is very insecure, the point is that he can see my Instagram notifications from his mobile. He is very jealous and usually assumes that I am cheating on him if I talk to another guy. It bores me to make excuses or explain who that person is. What can I do, I don’t have anyone to talk to about this topic, that would help me a lot.
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Javier Ignacio
09/03/2021
When you say that you don’t have anyone to talk to about this topic, at most you should talk to a psychologist, but NOT friends or co-workers since these are couple issues and each couple “makes their own world.”
Marcela peralta
04/26/2021
Hello
I want to see therapy for me and my partner since we have been unfaithful for many years and he has been unfaithful to me. We came back and we separated and it is impossible to continue like this. We don’t know what to do. We need professional help. I want to know how much the consultation costs to see if therapy can be done.
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Gabby
05/26/2021
That would help them a lot, not only to clarify doubts but to understand each other better and in the long term to have a stronger bond of communication. You could search in your city, there are several places but I recommend that you see the customer reviews so you will know which one suits you best. Greetings
Lemon tea
08/13/2021
Marcela, does therapy but to stop! He was unfaithful to you! You are not their object, surely there are many men who want to be with you!
Christian
04/21/2022 Boyfriend or husband?
Boyfriend: Leave it immediately; But if not, it’s okay because both are equal.
Husband: Fix things.
Fernando
04/06/2021
My partner has roles in a group where they create fictional characters and they have had Horny conversations with some of them. She says it’s not infidelity, so what is it?
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Lemon tea
08/13/2021
Hysterique for me is infidelity too. Don’t let me take you for a fool
Abamento Tempo
07/24/2022
Set boundaries in your relationship if you don’t want it to happen again. If you don’t agree, you should still rethink things.
Maria
10/03/2020
Good evening, my name is Maria, I found this post while I was thinking about why the person I share my life with adds people from the same area and likes suggestive photos of women that I can meet on the street. I don’t like him doing that. He is growing his company on Instagram, he designs clothes, he has an art gallery, etc etc and he says it is work. It makes me anxious and insecure. We’ve already talked about it and that’s his response…
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Lu
12/02/2020
I’m in the same situation. My boyfriend adds only girls who upload only one type of content to their stories and feed. This post didn’t help me. I think I am a very open person, I would never think badly about joining random people even without knowing them. But he only adds young women who upload sexy photos and are girls from my city. I can’t find a way to tell them that they bother me, because I don’t want to be a toxic person and I’m looking on the internet for someone who has the same thing happening to them. This post didn’t help me 🙁
Lemon tea
08/13/2021
Look, some guys or almost all of them add one excuse or another: work, it’s a friend, she added me, etc. As a tip, start uploading your photos so even if you are not a model you would be surprised by the number of guys who are going to like you. And the one who follows Thousands of asses while you make your squad.