My Partner Has Children and Lives A Lot With His Ex, What Should I Do?

Red Rose

07/31/2023

It turns out that my partner has a teenage daughter, the issue is that from time to time she wants to go out to dinner with her mom and dad and obviously I am left out, many times and she tried to get me to join since I am her partner of 5 years and she already Little girl must understand that I am part of her father’s life and that has generated several arguments with my partner to the point of me no longer wanting to continue because I do not feel respected by him.

Danny

07/15/2023

I feel very sad because I don’t know if I am acting badly with jealousy or not. The fact is that the mother of my partner’s son is a very dominant woman and she dominates him at her whim and it hurts me that he leaves when he is so hard with me and so soft with her. I don’t know how to fix the relationship because even though she is married to someone else and has another child, the relationship with my partner still makes me uncomfortable because I don’t feel sure of her love for me when she puts her first before everything. And I know that for her sake, her son, it’s good that they treat her, but that they treat her better than me, it’s devastated me and I can’t help it.

aleja scallop

06/15/2023

Hello, I have an ex with whom we broke up several times and we returned, then I didn’t hear from him and then he wrote to me and he told me that he is going to be a father and that his son is about to be born, but that he wanted to tell me many things that he can no longer say and well I told him that I no longer wanted to hear from him because it hurts me, but I would like to know why he wrote to me and told all that.

Val

04/15/2023

My partner is separated with two children, his ex just got pregnant when they already separated, so the baby arrived during their separation. I gave him the space to fulfill his obligation as her father, 8 months have passed and I was empathetic with the situation. The issue is that he goes out with his entire family and doesn’t tell me about it, until I find out and ask him, we agreed to be honest but he believes that going out without warning to a place where his ex is going to be is fine and I already I get to the point of complaint, because if we agree on something he doesn’t fulfill it, a Message is written in seconds, I only ask for honesty and respect and he sees it badly.

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Adrian

06/12/2023

The truth is, you should run from there, learn to be alone and when you least expect it you will find someone else, no one comes out well when they still go out or see their exes, do not end up in the middle of those love triangles

Pablo

10/04/2022

Hello good. I have a problem. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and we have a 5-month-old baby together. But when I met my partner, she already had 3 more boys with her ex-partner, 2 of whom are of legal age and the 3rd is 8 years old and lives with us. The problem is that my partner goes to his children’s house (they are older) and stays there every weekend. That street where 2 of his children live, who are the oldest, is the family house (that is, the house where my partner and her ex attacked at the time) the problem comes because she stays to sleep there in that house where her ex-partner also lives, that is, the father of her other child… and the worst thing is that just on the weekends her ex has Frank. I have already told her many times that it doesn’t make sense to me that I prefer that she go and come sleep in our house. Accordingly, she assures me that nothing happens with her ex that she goes with her 2nd son… now I think it’s a mistake Regarding what my partner does… I don’t know what you think. Am I wrong?

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renata

10/03/2022

Every time my little daughter gets sick, she gets very crying because of the fever. That’s normal because she doesn’t speak yet. She’s only 1 year old. My partner decides it’s better to go to sleep somewhere else to avoid keeping him awake and she doesn’t talk all day, even in the morning. The night he comes home from work and if the same thing happens that the baby starts crying again, he gets out of bed and leaves. What should I do? Is it not convenient for me to be with him? (he is not my baby’s father)

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Jorge

12/01/2022

Rather, it is not convenient for him to be with you.

Sarah

08/31/2022

I think that to solve all these types of problems the best thing is understanding and communication. I have been with my partner for 12 years, we have 1 child each and 1 in common. At first it wasn’t easy because her ex still hoped to resume the relationship, and it was hard for her to see her relationship end permanently and her ex-partner rebuild her life without her. But little by little and with patience we were able to start talking and for many years we have had a wonderful relationship with her, in fact she gets along better with me than with my husband and I consider her a friend of hers. If she needs something, we give it to her. If you can’t bring it today, then nothing happens, I’ll bring it. Thanks to that we also realized that the little one took advantage of the situation and often demonized the other and victimized himself to get what he wanted. If you really believe that your partner is hitting you when he is with her ex, you will have to look at the reason why you distrust him, if that distrust is really justified, then to hell with her. But it may be that this mistrust is generated by your own insecurity and that nothing is happening, and in that case it is better that you solve it with a specialist because you are going to limit your partner’s life for no reason and in the end things do not end well. Something that I am clear about, in case it helps you, even though I’m not here to get excited, is that if my partner decides to be unfaithful to me, I’m not even going to worry, at some point I would find out and I would send him away, so I live Don’t worry because I am clear that I am a person with a lot to offer, and if it happens to me, I would keep going 🙂

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Maricela chavez

07/12/2022

I don’t know how to act with my partner, when he goes to visit his children all day he is stuck in the children’s mother’s house, it is normal

Erendira

01/14/2022

Good morning, I have a question, my partner has children, I know that it is normal for him to have communication with his ex because of them, my question is should I know, when they are msg or organizing things for their children, my partner should tell me when it happens that? since my partner does not mention anything to me about it, and we barely had a conflict over that situation. I thank you very much for your attention and support.

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gabriela

10/05/2022

It happens to me the other way around, I notice every time my partner talks to his ex about the girl and it bothers me a lot. I would prefer not to find out

Nancy Perez Gonzales

01/11/2022

Why does my partner tell his ex everything?

Robin

10/12/2021 Hello everyone, my girlfriend has 2 children, we have been together for 1 long year and I would dare to say that her children love me. The problem comes when they go on vacation and the dad wants to see them. He lives in the United States and demands that she take them because, as he says, “either everyone in the bed or everyone on the floor.”

I don’t know what to do, I told him that if he went we would finish and he was still going to do it for the children (“he tells me he owes it to them”). But since it was only 15 days, her ex-husband told her no, 3 months. Now I feel disappointed, she had more options, but her ex only finds it useful for her to go and take care of them. The grandmother had offered to take them, it was just that this man was asking her for a favor. But no, he just wants her to go.

Although it wasn’t, I get the impression that it’s going to happen and I don’t see it like before. At the beginning of the relationship she went and it was the worst, she tells me that she didn’t give him a single kiss. But the truth is I don’t believe much, I refuse to be so innocent…. aaaaaaaa help me what can I do?

Andrea

09/09/2021

Hello girls, I wanted to present my case to you and ask you. My boyfriend has a 9-year-old daughter and she turns 10 in 2 days and for xoy reason the mother lives under the same roof as my partner along with his mother and the girl. I have tried to be understandable why he says that he has no feelings for her and has nothing for her. No relationship with her and I believe her why his mother talks to me and knows that I am the bride and that we would like to get married in a year, it turns out that she lives with her mother for financial reasons and that it is temporary in what she She gets money and leaves and to make it easier for my partner and to be able to live with her daughter. But now it also turns out that this Friday, which is the girl’s birthday, they will take her to celebrate her birthday somewhere with only my partner (the father) ; the ex-wife and the girl. It bothers me and that hurts me. Do you think I’m wrong and exaggerating? Or is it normal?

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Anonymous

10/21/2021

Baby, be sure that he doesn’t love you
And you don’t care either. You are in passing time and surely he is a hunter always looking for new victims. If he continues under the same roof with his wife he does it because he has advantages with her. Because Sun, in her wrong way, “loves her” and deceives her by saying that she is the only one of her. He who ventures into a new relationship does not do so by having a partner.
It separates itself, it thinks about it, it eats it, it assimilates and then whatever arises
There are many who believe the stories of married people. They fall into their traps, end up lying and destroying the life of a woman who surely loves her husband madly and what she can endure from him only God knows.
Do you want to be a future cuckold? Love yourself and look for a free man

Do

03/29/2022

Hello Andrea, I really hope that you are no longer with that guy…if he would respect you and really be separated, he would have already gone to live somewhere else…I am separated and the last thing I would have wanted is to continue living with him Same man, don’t let yourself be manipulated and deceived…they rub it in your face that it is because of your son but in the end…either you allow yourself to be manipulated by the woman who wants you to share with your daughter and with her mainly or is it that he He doesn’t leave because he wants to return to her…and the one who is going to end badly is you, used and hurt….look for someone who belongs to your place and who makes you very happy. 🙂

Aranza

08/24/2021

How to deal or what to do, when my ex-wife goes to my boyfriend’s house every night to drop off her kids and have dinner and she leaves super late, am I exaggerating?

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Pillar

02/13/2022

I would ask him why he does that, it is disrespectful towards you.

Eve

07/16/2021

And what happens when you have been with a man for 7 years, in a relationship, and living together who has two children aged 19 and 22 and does not want them to know you, or see you together?

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Aeneid

10/07/2021 Hello girl, I respond to your comment because it touched my chest. I am with a man much older than me, to be exact, I am 29 and he is 47. We have been together for almost 3 years, we live under the same roof. He has 4 children, ages 14, 16, 19, 21, whom I don’t know nor do they know me. Whenever his children or his ex-wife call him on his cell phone, he locks himself in his office or goes outside to take the calls. His ex-wife still makes certain plans in which none of them even say, “Will you come with me?” In the cars he has, if I leave a bad lipstick on or maybe some of my or my son’s things, he hides them when he visits his children.
I don’t know why I’m selfish but there are still many more things.

Tell me and are you still with your partner?

Cease

07/15/2021

These types of situations cause many problems. It requires maturity and compliance with the rules, agreements or limits, having your say. I don’t think it’s necessary to have so much coexistence with him/her…