Silvia –
01/27/2023
My partner has always lived with his mother, he is 64 years old, we built a cabin near the sea 500 km from our house to spend our days there, with a lot of effort. He only goes 5 or 6 days and has to return because the social work care service fails him. Her mother is 97 years old and she has been a selfish mother, she always wanted to be in the middle. She never valued our relationship. The last time we went to the cabin, he had to return after 5 days and I stayed, my brother was nearby. He was able to take me three days later. I got tired of the situation and decided to end the relationship. I miss him. We thought about selling the cabin that cost us so much effort. I’m sorry for the loss of this dream we had. I am 65 years old.
Kelly otero
09/23/2022
My husband’s family has so few values that his sister wanted us to move to Peru, she and my husband are Peruvians, we lived in Venezuela and we came to live here, since I arrived I started working and I didn’t spend much time at home. home and as soon as she was there she made me feel so bad that I left in the middle of the night. My husband by then we did not have children over time. We moved to a room, but when one of them got sick they went to where I lived to be treated, then they gave him a piece of the house, so that we could live independently, when I got pregnant they made my life a gang… From As they were building and they blocked everything with earth, then my husband forced me, being pregnant, to give COVID treatment to one of his nephews. They burst the drain and did not repair it. Me, I simply don’t say anything to my husband, I’m just waiting to get my daughter my nationality without his last name, so I can leave the country without a problem. I think they are capable of killing my daughter, they always show her all the contempt. That’s why I think I can’t take it anymore.
Henry Castillo
08/06/2022
Thank you very much for this article. Something similar happens to me and reading this guided me a lot.
YbaG
07/25/2022
Hello, I have been with my partner for a year and a half and he doesn’t let me visit my family because from the first moment my father kept quiet about him because he insulted me for having a relationship with my partner without his permission and now he doesn’t accept my father. Because he really is my adoptive father since I was 1 month old and I have his last name and he doesn’t accept it because of that and I have a baby and I have given her my father’s last name to the baby. That has been a problem and now he He won’t let me visit my family because he tells me I can visit them but not take my daughter. What can I do? I need some advice, please.
Sonia Arias
01/12/2022
My partner has not met my parents but he does not stop me from seeing my mother because he thinks my mother is bad. For a long time he has reported to my father because he punched me. Since that day I have been living on pension for only two weeks. mother has been with me and when I decided to live with my partner I have the feeling that if I do something my partner will get angry we already had ours more or less but he insists that my family kicked me out and that is not the case in the trial they put my father away towards I couldn’t go home and every time I told him something about my mother, he told me the family, the further away the better, and he will never understand that my family is different from his, I’m blocked because on the one hand I want to run away from my partner to live. calm down and on the other hand I am afraid of my father’s family and not my mother’s since my mother maintains the relationship and I don’t know what to do I feel like something is missing to be completely happy
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Suzanne
03/10/2022
Open your eyes over time you will realize that your mother will always be there and your partner will not, and men have thousands of defects.
Sari
10/27/2021
My husband has been married for 12 years and we are workers. My case is that my husband distances me from my family. Only my mother lives with us and every time we fight she tells him to leave. We have a son. My mother takes care of him, repeatedly. My husband hits my child because he leaves things in the place where he puts his things. Sometimes he hits him hard, says my mother, and she gets involved and the fight breaks out. I think that if he can’t stand my mother, he will obviously do the same to me. they think
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Debys Moreno Murillo
03/05/2022
I experience something similar, the truth is I’m already tired of seeing my husband’s attitude towards my mother.
Henry Castillo
08/06/2022
Just with the little you comment, it can be seen that there is not a good prognosis in your relationship. Violence is not justified by anything and even worse if it is against a child. Your partner’s abuse of your mother gradually destroys your life. You must strengthen yourself as a wife and mother. Talk to your partner and suggest seeking professional help, couples therapy, if he doesn’t accept, stay away from him, no one deserves to experience this. Thank and love your mother every day, she is an angel who takes care of your child and you. Spend more time with her and enjoy the few years she has left. We come into this world to be happy with those who love us, never forget that.
Laura
08/18/2021
My partner, when we just met, collided with my brother, and from then on he can’t stand it,
My brother made the mistake of saying something ugly but it’s not a big deal, everything also happened because they didn’t know each other.
Now I can’t see him, I can’t talk to him, and we live in the same city and our parents are far away, it’s very sad, because it makes my day if he mentioned him.
I don’t have friends from going out because he banished them all, they all dislike him.
I don’t like going out with her to dance or drink because she wants to be the center of attention when she gets drunk and everything becomes bad.
In general, she is super good with me, it’s the most special thing, I try to talk and the only thing is to get angry, tell me to finish then, and I tell her in a good way because I liked to go out dancing from time to time now it gives me laziness.
Manoli
07/25/2021
Hello, my son’s partner, you don’t want to come to my house if my granddaughter is there because when we went to Madrid she told my son that she didn’t like her because of WhatsA and she saw it and on birthdays she doesn’t want to come because my son is there. granddaughter because it happened 6 years ago and my granddaughter is 19 years old and I think that my son does what she wants
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Henry Castillo
08/06/2022
How sad it must have been for you to go through this. It has been a year since your comment on this page. I hope you have been able to reach out to her granddaughter, if she hasn’t already, it’s never too late. Also approach her son, one day she will thank you. It is never too late to show the love we feel for our loved ones.
Julls
06/27/2021
My husband has never gotten along with my family, and when he is drunk he offends me. He left home 7 months ago and he blames me for being like this because of the relationship I have with my family. Between my parents and him there were already shouts because in every argument he walked out and left me with my daughters and didn’t give me even a fifth. Do you think it is valid to return to him?
Martha
06/01/2021
It doesn’t work, I already told my husband how I feel, and he didn’t care.
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Diana
08/18/2021
You’re right, I’ve tried, as it says in all the texts, and what he does is get angry or leave.
eli
05/30/2022
The same thing happens to me, he doesn’t want to understand or try to understand me, it’s a little selfish on his part and I feel that the situation is very tense and at some point I will end up walking away from my partner.
Mitchell
07/16/2022
The same thing happens to me, I live far from my family (mom and siblings) and I can’t even talk to them on the phone because every time my husband notices, he gets in a bad mood or talks to me so I have to hang up the call. Every time he can he humiliates me by telling me my family’s defects and I feel very bad because because of them I got ahead without the economic and moral support of my brothers and mother would not have been able to support my husband so much now but he doesn’t see that. and on the contrary he always gets upset with me for the same thing. I tolerate him for my daughters but there are times when I really want to separate from him. I do maintain a cordial relationship with his entire family, but no matter how much I tell him not to be selfish and allow me to see my brothers, he won’t let me. I don’t know the truth, it’s very complicated.
Vivian Gonzalez
10/14/2020
When my son was born I went to live at my mother’s house because I had a caesarean section. As the days went by my husband got drunk and offended my mother and sisters by saying that their house was disgusting and that it was poor. The days went by and he I apologize, but my mother was still indignant and felt the atmosphere was toxic and apart from discussions when I saw that I gave up going with my partner and son back to my house due to the problems and my sister and mother beat my husband and as a result of that action he hates them. And he doesn’t want anything from my family and throws away all the gifts that come from them…. I can no longer stand his lack of respect for my mother to the point where I think I hate him.
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Light
03/08/2021
I think the best thing would be, in a situation like this, no matter how much you love your husband, it would be to leave him.
Or give an ultimatum, if it doesn’t change, think for yourself and your daughter. Sometimes there are things that cannot be fixed