Raphael
09/23/2022
I think my wife is cheating on me
Lisa
07/12/2022
We have been married for 32 years, our children have become independent, I thought that now we would be fine, we would travel and enjoy our relationship more and grow old together… and I found some chats with a co-worker talking about sex… I asked her and He says that they were just chats, that nothing has happened… that I forgive him, that he won’t chat like that again, but the truth is I’m very sad, I don’t want us to separate you at this point, I love him and I want to be with him …how to overcome this that hurts so much!!??
MONI
11/12/2021
I met my husband in 1997, and we got married in 2003. During our courtship we got along very well, I had swinger type experiences (with women), about 4 times… After we got married, all those forms of relationship were lost. relate and unfortunately I was losing sexual desire with him, a long time ago, years…
He always connected with chats with women, making them participate in virtual sex, but they never knew him as he was physically and he never met them. But a person appeared, who had a very good relationship. Since he did not have children (I did from a previous marriage), the girl who is 23 years younger than him told him that she always wanted to have a child, because she was married and her husband did not want to know anything about children (he had them). with another woman, so it hurt her). Until that moment I was unaware of the existence of this woman, but one day he told me that she had asked my husband that she wanted to have a child and that she would choose him. I accepted, because I thought it was something noble, given that my husband never had children and it would be good for him.
The issue is that on weekends he goes out, claiming that he goes to a friend’s house, who I have never seen, I don’t know him… I know that he goes to this girl’s house, because there are several details that I have discovered that make me suspicious… and with good reason
In my house (which was where he lived as a bachelor) I have put a lot of money, and now we are undergoing renovations, so I have no intention of separating, plus his age is 67 and I am 63… But the deception hurts me. I never cheated on him with anyone.
I don’t know what attitude to take… because when I told her, she gets defensive, denies it, and says that since the project was presented nothing has happened to her again.
I want to clarify that I discovered porn videos… and that he supposedly did it virtually…
ALL THIS IS TERRIBLE FOR ME..
Lor.
08/28/2021
15 days after our marriage in the Catholic Church, I found messages sent to his cousin’s wife.
Where he proposes that they escape and dedicate a day to him.
My life collapsed.
Total depression.
Belkis
06/29/2021
My husband cheats on me
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Juana Ortiz
09/27/2021
My husband cheats on me and denies it
Tati
06/17/2021
My husband cheats on me but he doesn’t admit it, he is still loving me, and the sexual relationship is more alive than ever. But I have proof that he is deceiving me. And I asked her because of a message I saw and well it says that she is a friend. And the messages are compromising. Do not know what to do? 🥺
)lol
03/17/2021
Hello, I’m 30 years old. My husband is already about 5 years old and I discovered that he has relations with another woman. I have a lot of anger. I still love him and I confronted him but he denied it. I barely discovered that it was not 1 but 3 and I don’t know. What to do I have nowhere to go or someone to support me, what can I do?
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Mari
04/01/2021
Hello, I am also 30 years old.
And I’ve also been through the same thing and I understand you.
The best thing you can do if you don’t have anywhere to go is to save your money either by adjusting for food or something else that you can adjust so that you can save for yourself and be able to go because a man like that doesn’t deserve a woman be at his side. Do you have any children ?
Sea
03/14/2021
We were about to celebrate 14 years of marriage in which I forgave physical blows, humiliations and now what was already seen coming, lovers. I can’t take it anymore, I can’t continue being your rug. It’s over
Second
03/10/2021
My partner lives somewhere else and I can’t talk to her because I live in my house and she has a daughter, she is the one who caused her mother to separate from me.
Be so
02/24/2021
I cheated on my girlfriend, I live in Spain and she lives in Nicaragua. Before coming to Spain, I found some messages from her with someone else, the questions said about meeting up to have sex. Anyway, she says she didn’t do it, after I was in Spain for approximately 6 months I had relations with another girl and I felt exactly afraid and ashamed because I had been a traitor, I did not know how to handle it because it was my first time being unfaithful and what did I do to hide the betrayal and as time passed I fell into sadness and it was because my conscience She didn’t leave me alone and to the point of feeling guilty if something bad happened to those around me, until 4 days ago I told her the truth and now she hates me because I destroyed her, I was so afraid that I couldn’t tell her the truth and whatever I tried What I did was separate myself from her but nevertheless she insisted because she didn’t have a reason so I behaved even more badly and now she hates me with good reason and that’s because I’m a rubbish person.
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Lily
05/22/2021
And if you are
prisila
01/19/2021
Yes, I just discovered infidelity on the part of my partner, I am in shock, now my thoughts are totally negative towards him, and just imagining that he was with that woman… it makes me sick to see it… and now I don’t want to know anything about him…. because I will always have that mistrust, my relationship was lost….
isandra
12/09/2020
My partner is unfaithful to me and yet I think that infidelity is our own fault. because we don’t know how to treat him like he tells me, don’t fight me, don’t kick me out of the house, if I didn’t want to be with you, I’d leave… and now I think and reflect that it prompted him to do that because he fought a lot, sometimes stress doesn’t make him explode and we don’t know. control us
gladys leon
11/11/2020
My husband is cheating on me, he is discovered, it has been painful for me, because I no longer trust him, I don’t know what to do, I have nowhere to go and I don’t have a job either, with the pandemic I haven’t been able to get a job. I don’t know what to do, these have me paranoid, desperate I don’t know what to do.
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Maria
02/07/2021
I’m almost in the same situation as you 😕 and I don’t know what to do
Jorge
02/14/2021
I am experiencing something similar and sou man
cinthia carmen
11/05/2020
My husband is cheating on me and doesn’t recognize it, what do I do? and I don’t want to be with him
Karol
10/24/2020
I think my husband is cheating on me, I feel very sad because I have always had bad luck with men, I don’t understand people, what a man is looking for? I am a working woman, I am always attentive to his things, if he is sick I worry about him. I don’t know why I have failed so much. I have discovered several things about him, he deceived me and he denied me. All of this fills me with more anger and resentment towards him, because people are so cruel and do not know how to value the love that is given to them. Honestly, I really feel so disappointed 😢
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Maria
01/29/2022
The same thing happens to me, but I understood that we give more than we receive. But don’t feel bad, I’m sure you’re a good person, so you don’t persist, Nada was the one who lost you, luck and a big hug, ahead, your true self will be there. love, the one who is going to love you. think of you
Pedro
09/06/2020 It was already very evident, they saw it, I forgive him before God and after three years I discover a message and not very
I can’t find the way out thirty-three years of marriage and holding on being suspicious when it was discovered he was forgiven after three years again and of course now WE ARE OLD GRANDCHILDREN FAMILY AND MY SUSPICION THAT HE CONTINUES COMMUNICATION IN CONTACT AND IT MAKES ME ANGRY AND MY CHAIN COMES OFF OLD AND EASY WHISTLE?
William
07/26/2020
Why always in articles about partner abuse, infidelity, psychological abuse, etc. They say that it is the man who attacks or deceives the woman and never that it is the woman who is deceived, she psychologically abuses the man, she blames the man for having pushed her to be unfaithful.
Both men and women cheat and mistreat their partners. Of course as a man it is very difficult to accept it. But I would like to read an article that could help me since it was my wife who cheated on me, I just found out that she had a relationship for more than 10 years, and of course. It was my fault because she neglected her, because she was not a good lover, because I am a failure who does everything wrong. And to finish grinding her, so as not to seem jealous or savage, she told me that he was her great friend and that since he was sick she had to see him, and she saw him, at his house, and he introduced her as his wife, and yesterday when he I confronted her, and she told me yes, because I am a failure and a bad lover and she has needs that I cannot attend to. She is sick and suffers from hypertension and every time her blood pressure rises she tells me that it is my fault, that if something happens to her, she should tell our children that it was my fault.
She was my life, I dedicated everything to her, I left my family, I stopped talking to my parents at her request, I left friends, I left jobs. We have been married for more than 30 years and she has actually been with someone else for 10 years. My life fell apart, it ended with me and I don’t want pity, I just want to say that gender doesn’t make one person end another’s life. Both men and women can do it, it’s not a gender thing, it’s a person thing.
If a man cheats or violates the home, he is the one who has to leave and she stays at home with the children. And in my case, well, I have to go and she stays at home with her children.
I wish there was help for anyone who is going through a problem like mine, whether man or woman.
Thanks for listening to me
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Jero
08/17/2020
I agree with Guillermo on almost everything. The problems should be stated in a more general way, perhaps, “My partner is cheating on me and doesn’t admit it…”
My partner, Ana, whom I thought I knew and I was wrong, when I began to open my eyes and see that it was possible for me to do things that I would never suspect would be done between 2 people who love each other, and I began to discover that I took advantage of it when I worked It was to deceive me with others, and every time I found something strange or out of place and I tried to talk about it with her, I screamed like a hysterical that I was crazy and saw things where there were none, like when I used the excuse that I was with her daughter. sick and couldn’t even answer a message about how you are, but nevertheless her daughter in that same situation, kept chatting with me for hours, and so on for thousands…
Almost 8 years of relationship and she deceives me, herself and everyone because she continues to deny everything, for 5 years, as far as I know at the time of writing these words.
I had to go home, after seeing in our garbage, remains of used condoms and tobacco, when he hadn’t had sex with me in weeks and we didn’t smoke, but I had to…