Maria
01/19/2023
Hello, I would like you to help me solve this dilemma. I have been married for 11 years and have a 4-year-old child. I have my own house, or rather my husband’s, but I already feel like I can’t handle this situation. He is increasingly attached to money. Everything is a fight for the smallest thing we argue we no longer respect each other there is no communication I talked to our parents to separate we decided to fix ourselves but everything he does bothers me I know I have to leave it’s not what I want but I’m also afraid not of him future I really don’t know what I’m afraid of, I also know that I don’t love it like before that’s why I just want to leave and not say anything else but I have nowhere to go maybe that’s why I’m holding back any more advice
Angie
11/14/2022
I no longer love my husband for 5 years, my marriage ended but we are still together, I decided to leave him and I told him that I don’t love him but he didn’t want to separate, we gave ourselves a chance but I don’t love him anymore, he always left me alone, he was never like man or partner always made decisions alone, and I resolved matters alone. He is a good father, he is responsible with money but that was not all I needed, I wanted to count on him and he was never there and he even asked me to never talk to him like, for example, love, come! And things like that he said were nonsense and I do want a person like that in my life, I found a wonderful man who has been attentive to me, loves me, takes care of me, provides me when I need it, listens to me, supports me in taking decisions, he doesn’t judge me, he doesn’t treat me badly and I’m in love with him and he’s asked me to go live with him and my children but my daughter doesn’t even accept him as my friend, and I’m determined to leave my husband but I have I’m very afraid, because my children won’t understand it and they will stay away from me, and I also feel sorry for leaving my husband because of the damage I’m going to do to him, but I was clear with him and told him that I don’t love him and we don’t have a marital life alone. We share a house and a bed to sleep in and now, sexual relations no longer exist. I don’t know what to do other than I have a very aggressive son who is in favor of his father and I’m afraid. Please advise me what to do
LUCIANO JAVIER
09/16/2022
Hello, how are you, I love this page.
I have a dilemma and I think that out of self-love I want to make a decision but it is difficult, I am 25 years old.
I am currently with my partner of 8 years of relationship, we live together, but I have this big dilemma, since I was young I have been very sexually fiery and I realized that I want to be in the swinger world, I like that, but my partner doesn’t, he She likes sex too traditional, over time I have wanted to cheat on her but I have always held back.
The problem is, on the one hand I love my partner but the only thing I’m not happy with is sexually, I have never forced her to do anything, I respect her, I suggested swinging but she doesn’t want to, but on the other hand, I as a person young and eager to enjoy, I don’t feel comfortable living repressed either, I want to enjoy my years of sexual power. I would like advice from people with more experience, I’m confused, which is best for both of us?
Pearl
07/30/2021
My partner and I have been living together for 10 years. We have a 3 year old daughter and now I am pregnant with him again. I cheated on him in December with a young man, which I didn’t plan and I don’t know how it happened. I went with my daughter to the countryside and everything happened there. She discovered the affair to me a couple of months ago. And everything has gone badly. I’m really very sorry and I would like him to forgive me, but even though we slept in each other’s arms and lived together without a problem. From time to time he posts hints about what happened in his WhatsApp statuses. I really don’t know what to do? Whether I should cut him out of my life or keep trying. The panorama is much more but here I give you an idea of what is happening.
Anonymous
07/12/2021
Well, they already said how to tell your partner that you don’t want to live with him, if your partner is calm or kind, but… What if he is aggressive and violent? How do you tell him without him trying to kill you?
Marieleng
04/08/2021
Should your partner threaten you and yell at you whenever they want?
light
02/27/2021
HELLO, I know I have to get divorced even though deep down it’s hard for me, I’ve been married for 30 years and I’ve become very dependent, I don’t have university studies and entering the world of work is difficult for me right now, my husband doesn’t want to get divorced , that’s why we divided the house in two and 3 years ago we slept separately, but living together is difficult because ‘he doesn’t want me to talk to him, I can only talk to him when he asks, that situation distresses me, because we are in a country that still doesn’t I speak the language, I have no family or friends, only 2 cats, this situation makes me sick, if I leave here I don’t know where or how to go.
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Anonymous
07/12/2021
Keep going, he is waiting for you to submit. He be strong and keep looking at alternatives to get away from him. Living as you live is not life.
Elena
12/11/2020
separation after a long time my children hold me back because they do not accept it anymore, my daughter is married, my son is a professional, I am happy with a secret relationship that I had a great time, my situation with my partner was not as nice as I imagined, I thank him because he gave me some children who are my happiness…I love them, but I no longer love them, it’s customary… after a long time, what to do now I think I’m happy with my secret love, how to tell my children’s father no more.
Roger
10/23/2020
What happens if the other party becomes aggressive or wants to continue by force?
Zaida attention huanringa
08/26/2020
How to make him understand that your relationship no longer has a solution and he is clinging to another opportunity
ALBA SPINE FLOWER SAENZ
08/18/2020 More than 10 years ago, the relationship has been deteriorating, since since I started working, he began to be jealous of me, to distrust me, to arrive at my work by surprise, all of this made me feel full the drink and I ran out of love for my husband, we have 2 wonderful children (13 and 15) of whom they have witnessed the problems we have had. He is undergoing psychiatric and psychological treatment, but the expected results were not obtained. Due to everything said above I have made the decision to separate, what worries me is one of my children does not want to accept and I do not know how to act, I feel fear.
I appreciate your kind collaboration.
Maria
07/19/2020
My partner is unfaithful. He doesn’t want us to end the relationship, he’s adorable when he’s with me but when he’s not there he cheats on me. We have talked about it, I gave it several opportunities and it doesn’t change.
I don’t understand why I can’t put an end to the relationship. I want to end the relationship but I can’t. I understand that I don’t know how to resolve the situation. I’m stuck.
ROSA ELENA RAMIRZ MONTIEL
06/27/2020
HOW TO KNOW IF I AM WRONG BECAUSE I WANT TO SEPARATE FROM MY PARTNER BECAUSE I FEEL IT IS NOT FAIR
Teresa Garcia Miranda
06/26/2020
I want to separate but I have to tell him because he is very violent
peter
05/21/2020
I don’t have a girlfriend, but if I need to end a relationship, I will definitely turn to this post. 10/10
Honorato Ramos Cabezas
04/02/2020
I have been married for 30 years, I stopped loving my partner, I don’t feel anything, I don’t hate her, not long ago I told her to get a divorce, she doesn’t want to agree, I’m 55, she’s 50, we have a son over 11, 3 of legal age, there’s total wear and tear. In the marriage she changed everything for about five years, she became very bitter, she disrespected me and insulted me, she lost her sexual appetite for me, but I love sex, I can’t live without sex. For all that, a while ago I looked for a loving friend, I always did it with her, we broke up, it was just that (sex) now I find myself alone, I decided to first be free of partners, first get divorced and later find a new partner because I love to love, find a partner until the end of my existence. Now I would like some advice on how to carry out this divorce. It is worth emphasizing that I already told my partner about it. I realize that she wants to be with me only out of habit or because she believes she may be left alone or because of a feeling of loss, but I can’t take it anymore. I currently sleep in a separate room and she does her thing, I haven’t had sex with her for like 8 months, I’m tired of this whole ordeal. To begin with, what type of procedures would have to be carried out. Thank you so much.
delia
03/24/2020
I have 12 years with my partner and a 10-year-old girl and I have never lived with him. He calls me every day to check on us. He always tells me that he wants the three of us to live and he never makes up his mind and I want to leave him. I am 39 years old and he is 58 years old and I feel that he has deceived and used me. thanks for your comments
Danny
03/14/2020
Hello, I am having a bad time because I discovered that my husband was unfaithful to me, I discovered it accidentally and my world collapsed…. He has asked for my forgiveness and sworn that he is going to change and that the woman he was with was just a adventure and that he doesn’t feel anything for her But I feel devastated and I find it difficult to forgive him…. I am in a process in which I don’t know whether to continue betting on my family AND him or separate and continue my life with my children. …I feel destroyed 11 years of marriage and 15 together… How sad all this is. I have remained unconditional and he himself recognizes it, he says that he does not want to lose me that he loves me that he made a mistake due to fever but he broke me in the middle… What do you think? I listen to you, thank you
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Karime
05/22/2020
I went through the same thing 5 years ago, same story and I thought I could live like this.
But it is not the same. Unfortunately trust is lost. .you live frustrated. Bitter and believing yourself stupid for forgiving. .lower your self-esteem.
And it’s never the same again. .
I advised you something that I didn’t do and I regret it.
And that advice is that it is better to separate for your emotional health. And above all physics.
Why was I recently told that I have cancer? And that’s horrible. .I know it is a product of years with this hatred.
Maryuri
02/11/2020
Ask where to go when you want to repair family well-being
Blue Danuvium
01/24/2020
Hello, I have been with my partner for 20 years and have been married for 16 years. We have 2 children, a 19-year-old girl and an 18-year-old boy.
With my partner there is a big age difference since we didn’t meet when I was 18 years old and at that time he was 48 years old. I have spent most of our life as a couple putting up with his infidelities and his addiction to Marijuana. I have wanted to separate for 9 years but the fear of losing my children has prevented me. A few months ago I met a man almost the same age as me who has allowed me to think more clearly about my relationship situation because today I have not had sexual activity for three years and I need it. Today seeing that my youngest son is As I come of age I feel that I am ready to separate permanently, but I feel that I could have my children against me, taking into account that my partner’s age is advanced, since I am 40 years old and he is 70 years old He still goes out with his friends and has fun.
He is a very healthy man, but he no longer attracts me as a man. I feel that I can still give myself the opportunity to live with another person and enjoy what I have been holding back on for a long time now…