Love comes into our lives to leave us important lessons, whatever the situation: thank you, because now I know what love is not. Letter to my ex: thank you, because now I know what love is not Ending a love relationship can be incredibly painful, but with the passage of time and the rethinking of your priorities, your ex becomes a mere memory that no longer exists. The floor doesn’t even move.
Managing a situation with the ex-boyfriend is a total labyrinth, we start to meditate so much about what happened and what didn’t happen that we end up realizing that the separation was the best thing that could happen to us. Upsocl published an article that will make you reflect on that ex who did not know how to value you. Here we share it with you:
“Letter to my ex: thank you, because now I know what love is NOT”
“Hello stranger. Yes, I miss because I don’t know you, because even though we were together long enough, the person you are today is a total stranger to me. I miss because the boy I thought I knew is not there, because I realize that I fell in love with the idea of you that I created, not who you really are.
Sometimes I don’t understand that the person for whom at some point I did so many things is now just another stranger with whom I sometimes run into on the street, and with whom I don’t even cross my gaze.
But you know, the day has come when I can thank you. Because? For breaking my heart and giving me one of the greatest lessons of my life, the desire to love in the most beautiful and sincere way possible.
Maybe it sounds strange that after everything you did to me I thank you; But I’ll explain, I understood that if I wanted to see so many good things in you it’s because that’s what’s inside of me, and that’s when I understood that you’d behave in such a foolish way, because in the end everyone gives what they have.
Thank you because I learned that I can be the best person with someone and that does not guarantee that they will be with me, so today my eyes are open to what I give and receive. Thank you because I learned that I can’t make another person value me, but that I’m not worth less if they don’t and above all, that I can leave when that happens.
Thank you because I learned that not all people are sincere, that some even lie when they say ‘I love you’, you were unfaithful, but that I am not going to live worried about that, because I can never be completely certain that someone is sincere, I I can only trust
Thank you because I learned that when I love a person I am as sincere and unconditional as possible, even more, because sometimes you were so bad that I supported both of us, and when the rest left I was there, with you, and that they make very few. Thank you because I learned that love is not selfish, that if someone loves me, they do not feel jealous of my triumphs, much less try to overshadow them by feeling insecure about theirs.
Thank you because I learned that what I thought would hurt so much was actually the best thing that could have happened to me, and don’t misunderstand, because of course it hurt, but only a little, because when you hurt me so much I knew I wasn’t going to miss someone who didn’t I deserved Thank you, because with everything I lived by your side, the one who grew up was me, in the end I don’t care if you don’t recognize the woman I am, because it was already more than clear to me.
In the end I thank you, because I learned that there are two types of people, those who, like you, do not know how to love, and those who, like me, do not know how not to do it. And as I said, I’m not afraid, the only thing you left me was the desire to meet someone who gives everything. I can’t wish you well or badly, only as you deserve. Good things come for me because here I was not the one who lost.
Every day I repeated a phrase that has become my mantra; “In life, sooner or later everything happens, this too will pass” and this bad experience that I lived with you, is over.”
Letter to my ex: thank you, because now I know what love is not via falling in love