Divorced, abandoned, cheated on or simply disenchanted with men and you think you will never find love after 40? Don’t worry, because the news is encouraging: according to experts, romance may be better the second, third, or fourth time around.
At this age, after almost half a century, love has already traveled roads, turned corners and even opted for crossroads. That’s right, he’s already made a mistake, he’s already hit the mark, he’s already slipped and regretted it. Love was lived, love was lost, some by the hand of God and others by the weakening of life as a couple.
At 40 they have already loved, they have had a partner, they have suffered setbacks, they have been left alone and when they no longer expect anything else, love crosses the path and they are reborn again: clumsy, unusual, excited and very prudent. A second chance to live love again and be happy.
Time passes, and the lack of love illusions leaves traces in the body, and excuses in the soul. But love is capable of reviving each of the sleepy cells, speeding up the pulse and making women prettier. Falling in love after 40 is almost a conversion, an act of faith.
Mature Love comes slowly and likewise stays in our life, without time to finish, because the walk between two is more serene, there is complicity, affection is more spontaneous, and we do not inhibit ourselves in the face of wanting, the harmony is complete and the memories are deposited in the album of nostalgia that we keep in time that will not return.
To really fall in love at 40 is to have tenderness in your eyes, the brightness is more intense, the desire not to be wrong is stronger, the construction of the walk between two is the sum of want, it is the meeting of two souls applauded by two hearts that divide the emotion of love.
For this reason, living as a couple is the joy of the company, of the tender caress, of the still passionate kisses, of the insinuating looks when the desire is manifested and the promise in the look of each dawn, it will be the most beautiful day between two beings who finally found love.
Remember that women become beautiful when they fall in love. It is immediately noticeable on their faces, on their skin, their eyes shine. The forty-something woman who is passionate is willing to go to the end of the world with that man who made her feel full, young again. The secret of the beauty that love produces is in endorphins, an almost magical substance that we secrete when happiness invades us.
Making love relaxes us, the placidity erases the wrinkles between the eyebrows, all the lines that indicate concern. In addition, love leaves us a good memory. Remembering pleasant situations increases the circulation of endorphins through the blood, and it is like receiving a well-being tonic. One can close her eyes and activate that moment that she had. Then, brain biochemistry is set in motion. Any woman in love is prettier than she was before, she walks differently, she moves with a special grace.