All of us at some point have suffered some knee pain, some with more intensity than others. Have you ever thought that this symptom, pain, is caused by a “Emotional conflict within ourselves” I understand that it is difficult to understand it in this way, however I invite you to find out what is behind each knee condition, I can assure you that you will be left with your mouth open.
Knee pain emotional causes
Biological Sense “Movement”: Bow down, kneel down, submit.
Conflict: devaluation
What is a live emotional conflict?
If I present any symptoms in my knees, I am experiencing an emotional conflict of devaluation related to the action of kneeling, of bowing to others, of submitting to someone or something (as long as this action does not imply an honor).
They are conflicts of obedience, of submission to real or symbolic authority. Situations of impossibility of acting according to one’s own desires, resistance to submit to the father’s law.
“I force myself to do” or “they force me to do”. It is a sample of my “submission”. What I “heavy” to do. I feel that I must necessarily deliver results, and that if I stop doing something I fail others and I fail myself. I complain and I can answer, claim, I can even say or shout that I will no longer do such a thing, but I continue to do it. The knees themselves They represent my flexibility, my self-esteem, my pride, and my stubbornness, so any symptom in them means that I cannot be flexible, they hurt my self-esteem, they hurt my pride. It indicates problems in adolescence, related above all to submission to the father, obligatory obedience and the desire not to give in.
What is the biological emotion?
Yes there are inflammation: The situation is lived with rage; if the synovial fluid also increases, we will take into account the person’s referents; A ligament strain alludes to a devaluation that weakens in the future.
Any symptom that impairs the function of my knees is a sign that I am not flexible when it comes to planning my future. If my knees hurt, it means that I am a foolish, stubborn person and that I prefer pain to giving in to ideas or advice from others. This pain tells me that I have to be more flexible and prevents me from bowing down/kneeling before someone I don’t want to do, it helps me to be in Coherence (Feel, think and do the same).
I don’t have to be afraid of losing control if I accept new ideas from others and if I allow myself to focus on my future. I must stop thinking that giving in to new ideas means kneeling before nothing or no one or appearing as a submissive person.
We will always go looking for the story behind the story of each client, of each case. My knee pain:
- It may be my fear of being like my parents.
- It may be my refusal to take care of my mother or father.
- It may be my refusal to leave home.
- It may be my false idea that I can’t make my life by taking care of my parents.
- It may be for forcing me to take care of my children even though they are already 30 years old.
- It may be for forcing me to take care of my grandchildren when they are not my responsibility.
How do I release that emotion?
Stop being stubborn and proud, realizing that I am hurting myself by not changing my beliefs. First I do things for pleasure, then I force myself to do them, then they force me to do them and meanwhile, I hurt myself more every day.
For example: I can cook for pleasure when I get married. Afterwards, I can cook until my children get married and live their lives, but then I find myself cooking for my children, sons-in-law and daughters-in-law every day, because I got them used to that, and then the day comes when if I don’t cook, they claim me
I must be flexible but very decisive, to make it clear that when I do something for pleasure I will enjoy it, but that I will stop doing what they ask me or I decide, when it is no longer something I enjoy.
“I can be a loving son, live my life with whoever I like, visit my mother with pleasure on weekends, but my mother forces me to visit her every weekend because “it’s a family custom” (her custom, of course). ) and thus preventing me from doing what I really want with my wife and children, it is not worth it and I do not allow it”.
People who suffer from knees, Always they do things forced by someone else or forced by themselves:
- I must obey my boss, I submit to what he wants.
- I have to take my mother to the doctor, take care of her, call her.
- I have to clean up quickly, before my husband arrives.
- I have to take my granddaughter to school because my daughter can’t.
- I have to “bend down” to ask my parents for money.
What emotional conflict am I experiencing?
Submission. Problems linked to adolescence (where authority is concentrated), “I’m in submission and I don’t want to give in, no! and not!”. There are the four points of devaluation: Evaluation, Obligatory result, Lack of respect, The direction. You have to look for common gestures of people, such as climbing stairs, jumping fences.
resent
“I can’t do what I want.”
“I do not want to submit to the law of the father (real or symbolic).”
“I would like to have a little more sweetness in my submission.”
“I agree to submit, but sweetly.”
conflicts
1. Devaluation, which is the result I want.
2. Submission.
3. Adolescence.
4. The direction: Conflicts of choice (professional, sentimental, sexual, but at the level of emotions)
Knee pain and its emotional causes
Each region of the knee is closely related to a trait of our personality. For that we must determine exactly where the ailment is located or what kind of problems we have, and thus we will observe increasingly clear messages.
Laterality:
- Right knee in a right-handed person: “I wanted to leave, I wanted to leave but I couldn’t”. Opposed action “What are they forcing me to do?”
- Left knee in a right-handed person: “I’m gone but I’m sorry I’m gone.” Contradicted desire, what am I forcing myself to do?
In a left-handed person it is reversed in both cases. For a left-handed person, the right knee gives us an information of thwarted desire and the left one of thwarted action.
Location:
- The inner side of the knee has an angry oppositional undertone.
- The external face, on the head of the fibula, resentment at a situation to which I do not want to submit.
- The posterior zone (popliteal hollow) is submission in relation to the territory.
- The front face of the knee means not wanting to give up.
Joint problems: They represent changes in the orientation of life, and the difficulty with which they are carried out. Resistance to change. Changes are scary.
Knee osteoarthritis or Gonarthrosis: I don’t respect myself enough. Conflict: Submission. resent: “Please, a little more humility, flexibility…”, “I agree to submit, but it goes too fast”, “Please stop”.
Osgood Schalatter disease: This specific disease is an insertion tendinopathy, and it affects patients between the ages of 10 and 16; (The lesion occurs in the area of insertion of the patellar tendon on the tibial tuberosity). The tendon pulls and tears the Periosteum. The pain, in this case, manifests itself during and after exercise.
Conflict: Devaluation in what I do in the present + submission for several months. resent: “He doesn’t want to go through his father’s law, he doesn’t want to bow down, he doesn’t want to submit”, “I’m null”, “I haven’t gotten results”, “I’ve felt powerless” and also “he has disrespected me”.
joint capsule: Its function is protection, “I have no protection.”
Synovitis: Synovial effusion in the knee: I was submissive and I knelt before something or someone. Conflict of submission with a tone of wanting everything to calm down, to settle gently. I make more lubricant (oil, water, referents). Added lack of protection conflict. resent: “I want to be more acceptable”. “I’d like a little more sweetness in my submission, please.” “I agree to submit, but sweetly”
The Tibial Plateaus: It has the shape of a scale: Symbolically it is justice, the lack of balance (forced to accept an unfair situation, she wants to be a mother but does not believe in the family.
Conflict: Submission. resent: “I can’t do what I want”, “I don’t want to submit to the father’s law” We can also value the association of the tibia with the “mother”.
The menisci: The conflicts are related to its function of “adapting” the movement and “cushioning” the impact of the weight. They are situations where it is impossible to adapt to orders or cushion excess pressure.
The kneecap or patella: It is related to an aspect of the future, with projects, with not being able or not having the right to organize the future, “breaking” future projects (in case of fracture).
cruciate ligaments: Crossroads, crossroads of species, iron crossroads (swords), crossroads of glances.
Example of a case of Dr. Slomon Sellam: A woman who works in social security and comes to see me because she has had surgery twice for her cruciate ligaments because they have been torn both times. She has a very swollen knee, it hurts a lot and she wonders if the surgery hasn’t worked there must be something psychosomatic. I try everything and I have one last resort left. I pick up a dictionary on the French language, three volumes on the origin and meaning of words. Sometimes the key is in it. I look for “crossed”, the problem is not in the ligament and I read the text.
He talks about a crossroads, a crossroads of species, a crossroads of iron (sword combat), a crossroads, and at that moment, with the word “crossroads” I see that it begins to change, it is the word that opened The file. She asked him what’s wrong and he starts to shake, to sweat… He tells me a very strong emotional story. She is now 45 years old, but when she was a teenager she was in love with Pedro. He was gorgeous, smart, nice and all the girls admired him.
She was very much in love, but she never dared to tell him anything because others passed her by and she always kept the platonic love inside her. She gets married, has children and a family. One day, leaving work, she recognizes Pedro on the street, but Pedro has changed a lot, he is a homeless man, dirty, with a beard and long hair… and she is on the same sidewalk and she doesn’t know if he is going to recognize her. She is helpless to recognize the love of her youth and is afraid to meet her gaze and to be recognized. The further he goes, the more her stress increases because they are going to cross paths, and she is afraid that he will recognize her and she does not know how she is going to feel.
The critical moment will be when they cross paths. Once they crossed paths, their fear had passed. At that moment in his brain there are two structures that intersect, the gaze and the cruciate ligaments of the knee that determine direction. This is why the word is very important and each person will react to a different one. For the brain it is the same. In the brain there are two places that intersect: the optic nerve, at the level of the optic chiasm, and the cruciate ligaments of the knee. The brain chooses the knee, because it is easier to manage, it is not profitable to lose sight due to such a conflict, the eyes are more…